Kuthetha ukuthini xa bafuna ukubulala ephupheni?

Ukubulala, nangona kubangela ukugatya okuqhelekileyo kunye nokwesaba kubantu abaqhelekileyo, ngokubhekiselele kuthetha ukuzalwa kwakhona okanye ukuvuselelwa kwiphupha. Ngokwenene, oku kubangelwa yinkqubo enhle, eya kwenzeka kwixesha elizayo elizayo. Ngako oko, 🏃🏃🏃 ukuba sithetha ukuba ndandifuna ukubulala ephupheni, oko kukuthi, nangomzamo wokubulala okungafezekanga, oku kuguqulelwa yiincwadi ezininzi zephupha njengoko zivela, kodwa zingagqitywanga ngenxa yeso sizathu, inkqubo enhle (engaphantsi kaninzi).

Iziqulatho

Ukumisela umzamo wokubulala ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller Xa ndiphupha ukuba bafuna undibulale Yintoni endiyaphuphayo xa uzama ukungibulala ngepisto okanye isitshetshe

Inkcazo yokuzama ukubulala encwadini yephupha kaMiller

Ngokungafani nezinye iincwadi zephupha, eziphatha iinjongo zobomi kwiqondo elilungileyo, incwadi yephupha kaMiller inikeza ukuhlolwa okungalunganga kwamaphupha anjalo. Ukuba uzama ukukubulala ephupheni-ithuba lokucinga ngokuziphatha kwakho kumsebenzi kunye kunye nentsapho, ukuba ubungqina ubungqina bomntu, ngoko ngokobomi bobubomi unokuba ngumbonisi wangaphandle wongquzulwano omkhulu ophuhlisayo. Xa uba ngumbulali ohlulekayo, uthetha ngobugqwetha obugqithiseleyo bephupha kwabanye abantu, kwaye liphawu lokuzama ukuphumelela kwinqanaba lomsebenzi.

Fumana apha malunga nokubulala.

Xa ndiphupha ukuba bafuna kundibulala

Ngokungafani nencwadi yephupha likaMiller, ezinye iincwadi zeengcaciso zephupha zivuya kakhulu kubaphupha ababesinda kwizameko. Makhe sicinge ngeemeko ezahlukeneyo.

• Ukuhlaselwa kwelo lwanyana - ngokukhawuleza uya kudibana nomhlobo omhle (kumntu) okanye udibane nomfazi (ukuba umfazi), ixesha elide efihla imizwa yabo. Kwala ma ntombazana asetshatile le njongo yokulala ayonwabanga. Uthando olutsha lunokutshabalalisa umtshato oqinileyo, kodwa aluyi kuhlala ixesha elide.
• Umhlaseli ungumhlobo okanye umntu osondeleyo - umntu ovela kwindawo yakho ukuzama ukuseka ubudlelwane nawe, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile (mhlawumbi ngenxa yokungafuni), akafumani.
• Ukuhlaselwa kwamanye amazwe kungumqondiso wokuthi ikusasa lephupha aliqinisekanga. Oku kuchazwa ngokungenangqiqo kwaye ingaba yinto ebalulekileyo yezinto ezilungileyo nezimbi.

Yintoni ophuphayo ngayo xa uzama ukuzibulala ngepastoli okanye ngumsi?

Ukutolika kwamaphupha ngumsebenzi ocacileyo kwaye ontle. Ngakumbi iinkcukacha umphuphi wayekwazi ukukhumbula, ukuchaneka ngokuchanekileyo kuya kubakho. Ephupheni apho uzama ukukubulala, ithuluzi esibalulekileyo ngokuchanekileyo sisixhobo solwaphulo-mthetho, ngoko kuyacetyiswa ukuba sikhumbule le mfanelo ebalulekileyo yesithombe esincinane.

Fumana ukuba umela ungathini, apha .

• Ukuba ezandleni zomhlaseli (umhlobo okanye isihlobo) isibhamu okanye esinye isibhamu (ngokuzenzekelayo, isibhamu, njl.) Sisilumkiso sokuba kuyimfuneko ukuhlawula ngokukhawuleza kumntu ofuna ukuqhagamshelana nawe. Ukuba uqhubeka ungamnaki lomntu, unokukhubeka ngenxa yobomi bakhe bonke ngokuba yintshaba.
• Xa umfokazi esongela isibhamu, kwikamva, mhlawumbi isiganeko esibi esihambelana nomsebenzi siya kwenzeka.
• Ukuba ezandleni zomhlobo okanye ulwalamano olubandayo (umlenze, ikrele) - qaphela, umntu omaziyo ophethe inzondo enkulu kuwe kwaye unokubeka intonga kwisondo.
• Uphuphe ukuba ufuna ukubulala umntu ongasemzini - kungekudala uza kuba ngumcimbi ozayo kwikamva.

Xa liphupha ofuna ukubulawa - ungesabi. Kwiimeko ezininzi, lo mfanekiso awuhambelananga nemicimbi engafanelekanga, nangona ayinakukhutshwa ngokupheleleyo.