Isizathu esibaluleke kakhulu sokunika umntwana engadini kumfuno yokuba umntwana akhulise umnqweno woqhagamshelwano kunye nokuqhagamshelana noluntu. Kwaye oku akusiyo inkcazo yabazali, kubaluleke kakhulu, oku kulungelelaniswa neemfuno zehlabathi lanamhlanje. Emva koko, ngokuphuhliswa kwetheknoloji yolwazi, uluntu luye lwayeka ukuthetha. Ingxaki yokunxibelelana ngoku ibaluleke ngakumbi kuluntu. Ngoko ke, kuyimfuneko ukufundisa ukuthetha kunye nokuhlala phakathi koluntu ngokwakho kwasekuqaleni. Indlela yokukhetha isikhungo somntwana esifanelekileyo kumntwana wakho, ndiya kuzama ukucacisa ngezantsi.
Ngoko ke, ukuba umbuzo wokunikezela okanye ukungafuni ukuya kwi-kindergarten sele sele ugqibelele kuwe-ukunika, ngoko kuyafaneleka ukuthobela iingcebiso ezi zilandelayo.
Okokuqala, sinqume ukuba yeyiphi i-nursergarten oza kunika umntwana-abucala okanye uwonkewonke. Kukho amaninzi amanqaku, ngoko ke, ukukhethwa kweziko kufuneka kuthethwe ngononophelo olulodwa. Kwiziko elizimeleyo uhlawula inani elithile lemali, ngokuqhelekileyo alincinci, kwaye ngoko unelungelo lokunyamekela ngononophelo lomntwana. Kwimiyezo evamile, akukho mntu uya kukunika isiqinisekiso esinjalo. Indlela yokukhetha i-kindergarten efanelekileyo, apho umntwana wakho uya kukhululeka kunye noqhagamshelwano kunye nootitshala kunye nabantwana baya kumnika inzuzo enkulu kunemizamo encinane namandla? Kuyo nayiphi na intsimi zihlala zikhona iingxaki okanye iimpazamo. Kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, ngokufanayo, nangona ixabiso, elichazwe yi-kindergarten.
Kufuneka ukwazi ukuba ufuna ukurekhoda umntwana wakho ukususela ebusaneni, ngokokuba ngexesha elifanelekileyo lokuza kwi-kindergarten (iminyaka engama-2-3) kwakuya kubakho indawo yokukhulula. Eli lixesha lona lihle kakhulu ukuya kwi-kindergarten, ngeli xesha umntwana ulungelelanisa ngokukhawuleza kwiimeko ezintsha. Emva koko, uneminyaka engama-3 umntwana uhlala enenkathazo yeminyaka emithathu ubudala, xa umntwana ephila ngumgaqo: mna ngokwam. Yaye loo phulo liya kubonwa njengeqhawe lakhe, ukuzimela. Kamva, ukuhlukana kwintsapho kunokukhokelela ekuxininiseni. Qinisekisa ukuba unake ingqalelo kubaxhasi. Ubuhlobo babo kunye nokuvuleka okumele uhlale uhlala kuzo, kungekhona nje ngeeholide.
Uninzi malunga nomyezo kunye neemeko ongazithetha kumntu ophethe i-kindergarten. Unokwenza izigqibo kuwe. Ukuba umphathi onokuziphakamisa uxelela ukuba leli ziko lona lihle kakhulu kwisixeko, kwaye uya kuba nethamsanqa xa ufika apho, ngoko ke, ngokuqinisekileyo, eli liziko eliqhelekileyo elinomphathi wokuzimela. Kwi-kindergarten, apho ingqalelo kunye nokunyamekela abantwana kubusa, umphathi, okokuqala, uya kubuza malunga nosana lwakho, iimfuno zakhe kunye nomlingiswa wakhe.
Ngaphambi kwexesha, cela ukuba zeziphi iindlela eziza kufundiswa kwi-kindergarten, oko abantwana abazenzayo yonke imini, yintoni eyenziwa imihla ngemihla, ukukwazi ukuzisa okanye ukuthatha umntwana kwishedyuli nganye, bangaphi abantu abakwiqela, kukuphi ukutya kwi-kindergarten. Akunakulungi ukuba uye ekhitshini, kwaye uzibonele ubume begumbi lokudlela, abagadi, umgangatho wokutya.
Le ngongoma ephambili efuna ukucaciswa kwindawo yokuqala.
Uhambo olulungileyo luya kuxoxwa nosana lwakho naye. Ukuba umntwana unika ngokuzithoba intetho, kwaye unomdla wokwenene kwizinto ezenzekayo ngeenxa zonke, ngoko yonke into iyahlelwa. Kodwa, ukuba inkunzi yinto engcolileyo kwaye ikucela ukuba ushiye, mhlawumbi kufuneka uphulaphule intuition yentsana, kuba abantwana baziva yonke into kwisigaba esinqununu esingcono kunathi. Mhlawumbi, umoya awuhambisani naye, kwaye uya kuchitha amaninzi kunye nexesha ngaphambi kokuba ufunde umgadi.
Mhlawumbi ufanele uthethe notitshala, kwaye uya kukuxelela indlela yokuthetha nomntwana kwaye uyitshintshele kwimoya enethemba. Kwakhona unako ukuthetha rhoqo nabazali babo abantwana abaya kwintsimi, bafunde uluvo lwabo malunga neziko, okanye baphulaphule iingcebiso malunga nomlutha kunye nokulungiswa komntwana engadini.
Yaye ukhumbule ukuba ukuya enkulisa kubangela uxinzelelo kumntwana kunoma yintoni na. Kufuneka uxhase umntwana wakho, uthathe inxaxheba kwimicimbi yakhe, uncede ngeengcebiso. Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukuvumela ukuba umntwana wakho azi ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uya kumxhasa nayiphi na imeko. Ukuba uphulaphule la macebiso, ndiyathemba ukuba ukulungelelaniswa kwirejista yentsana yakho kuya kuphumelela.