Umntwana ugxeka esikolweni: wenzeni?

Ewe, ukuba ihlabathi labantwana liyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kunelizwe labantu abadala. Amaxesha amaninzi abantwana baxubana ngokugqiba okanye ukugqoka iiglasi. Kubonakala ngathi ezi zinto ziyingxaki. Nangona kunjalo, ukuba awuyikuncedisa umntwana ngoku ukulungisa zonke ezi zinto, sinokuthi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba iingxaki kunye nokwesaba kuya kunikwa kuye kwimva kamva.


Unokuthintela njani i-teasers yabantwana ?

Iingxaki ezininzi zesikolo zixazululwa phambi kokuqala kwesikolo. Kwizinto ezihlangeneyo, abantwana ngokuqhelekileyo babheka yonke into ukusuka kwindawo yokuzifanisa nabanye. Kukulungele ukubheka oko kubangele ukuba ingqalelo yabantwana, kwaye ucinge malunga nokuba yintoni kanye umntwana wakho anokufumana iingxaki.

Ubuthathaka - amehlo anine ... Akukho imfuneko ukulungelelanisa umntwana kusengaphambili ukuba inokusebenza esikolweni. Kufanelekile ukunyamekela ukuba iiglasi zomntwana zazintle, kwaye ukuba ukhululekile kunye nabo.

Isisindo esithinteleyo, okanye i-vice versa - fat, i-dystrophic, njl. Nanku kuyimfuneko ukuba uthathe ngokungathí sina umsebenzi womzimba womntwana kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, kwisondlo sakhe. Ukuba kukho ukutyekela ukuzaliseka, gxotha umkhwa wokumfaka umntwana wakho ngezinto ezintle, uhlale usuka kwikhalori yokutya. Ungazami ukumqinisekisa ngama-chocolates. Kwaye ukuba umntwana uyazi ukuba uyaphula, inkohliso yetshokolethi kwixesha elizayo ayiyi kuphumelela.

Ngokumalunga nokuphumelela kwemfundo, ke kukho amagama anjalo kwikhosi, njengokuba, umzekelo, unqambile, uyisilumko, uyisilumko kunye namanye amagama-amagama. Yenza umgudu ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana uziphatha ngokufanelekileyo kwiimeko ezinjalo. Ukuba wenza konke - akufuneki ukuba ngumgangatho ophakamileyo okanye phezulu. Yaye ukuba awufumani nto, ungayeki ukusebenza, unike ixesha elingakumbi lokufunda, ungabi namahloni uze ubuze ibhunga, uzame ukuba lingabi ngaphezu kwabanye, kodwa lungcono.

Ukuba iingxaki ezikolweni zikhula ngokukhawuleza, ke kwikhosi zizinto ezinjenge-calancha okanye idoliput. Kwaye olu luhlu lungabhalwa ngonaphakade. Mane uthathe inqaku lokuba umntwana kufuneka ahlale ehlamba iimpahla kunye nezicathulo ezifanelekileyo, ubukele ukuhamba kwakhe. Ukuba nokukhula okuphantsi, umntwana uyayeka, xa ebeka izicathulo ezinkulu, ngaloo ndlela ekhangeleka. Intombazana, ukuba ithe ende kwaye inezicathulo eziphakamileyo eziphezulu ... Hlalani nibone oko umntwana wakho egqoke.

Gcina ukuziphatha komntwana phantsi kolawulo. Kwimeko apho umntwana wakho ehlala engena enkqonkqoza, ngokokuba unako ukumbamba isiteketiso somqhubi, umlenze okanye umdemnini unikwa kuye. Yaye kungekhona nje kuphela ukuba kuya kuba neengxaki ekulileni, wena uyaziqonda. Yaye ukuba umntwana uzama ukungabonakali kwaye uyakhetha ukuhlala ngaphandle kweqela elidlulileyo, ngelixa engaxubushelane noontanga, mhlawumbi uya kunikwa i-takioklichki njengokuthula okanye into enjalo. Ngoko fundisa umntwana wakho ukuze angenayo iinkomfa ekunxibelelaneni, ukuze akhululeke kwaye abe nolonwabo. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe ngaphambi kokuba aye esikolweni.

Igama lokuqala nelokugqibela. Kubalulekile apha ukuba abazali bafundise umntwana ukusuka ebuntwaneni ukuba banikwe ngokuchanekileyo-kungekhona uEdik, kodwa uEdward. Ukuba yena u-Edik esikolweni, isiteketiso sakhe esinegama elimnandi ligcinwe kuye. Kukho amagama anjengoku, umzekelo, uEvrika, iZhuzha okanye iRashiya. Ngoko, ngaphambi kokuba unike umntwana igama elifanayo, cinga ngelokuba uya kuhamba esikolweni kungekudala. Kwaye apho, ukufunda kunye nabantwana, uya kuba neengxaki ezininzi ezinxulumene negama lakhe. Xa ukhetha igama, yiba nengqiqo encinane.

Umbala, umbala weenwele, njl. Ewe, yintoni ongayenza ... Unokwenza okungenamngcipheko kwimpikiswano phakathi kwabantwana. Imfesane yinto ebalulekileyo enokuyenza kwimeko enikwe. Zama ukuqonda ukuba zonke iingcinga zomntwana zichaphazelekayo ngxaki. Mxelele ukuba uqonda amava akhe kwaye uzive - kuya kuba lula kuye kwaye uya kuphumla, akayi kufihla ingxaki ngaphakathi. Cinga, yintoni enokwenzeka ukuba uyenze, ukuba umntwana ubonakale ebaluleke kwaye unyanzelekile kuwe? Mamela, uqonde oko akufunayo kuwe, naluphi uncedo alufunayo.

Yenza okusemandleni akho ukuphelisa into ehlekisa umntwana wakho. Kufanelekile ukubukela ukuziphatha komntwana kunye nokufumanisa ukuba kukho naziphi na izizathu zokuziphatha oku kulungiswa. Okanye mhlawumbi akazi indlela yokubonakalisa iimpawu zakhe ezilungileyo ezahlula kuye kwezinye iontanga? Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuba iimpawu ezinjalo zibonakaliswa esidlangalaleni, ngoko ke isimo sengqondo kumntwana kwiqela litshintsha kangcono. Mhlawumbi umntwana wakho ubizwa ngokuba yi-crampon ngenxa yokuziphatha kwakhe okuzikhukhumelayo phakathi kwalabo abasemva kwizifundo zabo? Apha ufuna isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo. Ingongoma kungekhona nje ukuba umntwana uyakuncatshiswa, into ephambili yindlela awajonga ngayo ngayo, yiziphi amava axhamene nale nto. Ukufundisa ukuba uphathe kakuhle le meko, uyihlolisise kakuhle, kwaye kuya kuba lula ukuba umntwana akhethe indlela efanelekileyo yokunxibelelana nabantwana abaya kuwuqonda. Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuba umntwana akaziboni njengento embi kwaye uyaqonda ukuba ingxaki ayikho kuyo yonke into, kwaye ukuba amaxhala kunye nabantwana ababuthakathaka badla ngokukhawuleza.

IsiHlangano

Isenzo esinjalo sinokuhamba ngeklasi edibeneyo, isimemo kubo bonke abafundi besikolo, kuquka i-teasers, yokuzalwa komntwana wakho. Iintsikelelo zezi ziganeko kukuba phambi kootitshala nabazali, akukho mntu uzakuzama ukuncwina umntwana. Yaye into yokuba uya kuba nethuba lokubonisa iimpawu zakhe ezintle.

Ezi ntla nganiso zinokulungelelaniswa nokuzonwabisa njengemidlalo emininzi. Kuza kuba nethuba lokubona nokuqonda ukuba ikhefu lempumlo okanye iiglasi azikho nentsingiselo kulwalamano. Ukuba iimidlalo zikhethwe ngokuchanekileyo, ngoko ulwalamano lwabantwana kwinkqubo yomdlalo lunokutshintsha kakhulu. Ngoko, inkokheli inokuba yinto eqhelekileyo, i-aryad inkokheli.

Uncedo lengqondo yengqondo yesikolo

Ukuba umoya kumagumbi okufundela uxinzelele kwaye uphazamise isikolo, kuyacetyiswa ukutsala ingcali kule meko, ukwenzela ukuba incoko nganye nganye ibe yodwa. Oku kuya kuba luncedo kakhulu ekuxazululeni iingxaki ezinxulumene nokusetyenziswa kokutya nokubiza. Kunokwenzeka ukufumanisa ezinye izizathu ezifihliweyo zokuxabana.