Njengoko iinguqulelo ezichaziweyo zibonwa kwintyatyambo yephupha ebhodweni

Makhe sithethe malunga neentyatyambo ebhodweni eziphuphayo.
Kwiimpawu, iinkolelo kunye namaphupha, iintyatyambo zibonakalisa ubufazi, ubumsulwa nobuhle. Xa uguqulela iphupha, kubaluleke kakhulu kwindlela oyibone ngayo isityalo: wilted, ugula, uhluthiwe okanye uphile kwaye uphuthuma. Kusekelwe kwezi mpawu ukuba unokuqonda ngokuchanekileyo ukuba yintoni ibhodwe ngeephupha zeentyatyambo. Iinkcukacha ezongezelelweyo malunga naluphi uhlobo lwesigqibo malunga nalo mbandela zilungiselelwe yizo zincwadi zokuphupha - uya kuzifunda ngezantsi.

Amaphupha enentyantyambo enhle ebhodweni: lo mqondiso usithembisa ntoni?

Ukuchazwa ngokucacileyo kunye nokonwabileyo kunokwenzeka ukufaka amaphupha apho izityalo ezihle kunye neentyantyambo eziqhambileyo zibambe kuwe. Kule meko, abatoliki bathembisa umphuphi ukuba bathenge ikhaya elihle ngakumbi okanye imoto. Kubantu ababandakanyekayo kwintengiso, lo mqondiso ubonisa impumelelo kunye nenhlanhla ekuthengiseni.

Ngokubhekisele kubomi bomntu, emva kokubonileyo, unokulindela intlanganiso enomdla, oye waphupha ixesha elide. Kungenzeka ukuba intlanganiso enomdla iya kwenzeka kwindawo engavamile kuwe (kumanxweme olwandle olufudumele okanye kwiintlambo zeentaba). Kwabo abasele bathandana nale phupha kunokuthetha ukuqiniswa kobudlelwane okanye ukuxolelana kunye nesiqingatha.

Intsingiselo enomdla kakhulu ibhekisela ebuthongweni, apho ubona igumbi elipheleleyo, lizele izimbiza ezintle kunye neentyatyambo eziluhlaza. Kumantombazana onjalo umfanekiso ephupheni uqikelela ukuba kukho umqhubi onomfesane kunye nemfudumalo, kodwa ngenxa yeentloni ayengalindelanga ukuxelela ngabo. Ukuba uyazi ukuba ngubani othethayo, iincwadi eziphuphayo zincoma ukuba uyibeke le ndoda, uya kuba ngumhlobo onyanisekileyo nothando. AmaGayota aphupha ngeentyatyambo ebhodweni, ngokuphindaphindiweyo, kwimeko xa bahlala behlala entliziyweni, kunokuba bangabikho kwengqondo ebandayo. Kule nkwenkwehlakalo kwenzeka, okwenza uhlupheke kakhulu. Kuloo madoda aguqulwe ubomi bobuqu, lo mfanekiso uhamba phambili kwisiganeko esivuya. Ingaba yinto yokukhusela indlu, iindaba zokukhulelwa kumfazi othandekayo, ukukhuthazwa kwinqanaba lomsebenzi.

Ngokutsho kwencwadi yephupha likaMiller, intyatyambo ebhodweni ibonisa ukuzonwabisa kunye nenjabulo kwiintlanganiso kunye nomthandayo. Ngendlela, iinguqulelo zithi ukuba isityalo sinegunya elimhlophe, ke lo luphawu lokudumala nokudabuka.

Kutheni iphupha leentyatyambo ezixhamlayo ebhodweni?

Ngelishwa, lo mfanekiso ungabonisa iingxaki kwizigaba ezahlukeneyo. Akukhangekanga ukuba le phupha lithembisa ukuhlukana okanye ukuhlambalaza umntu omthandayo. Kwincwadi yephupha yeVanga, iintyatyambo eziphosiweyo ziphathwa njengesiqingatha sokugula, ukuhlukaniswa okude kumntu wasemzini. Emva kwephupha elinjalo, ubudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho okanye umsebenzi odibeneyo lunokuba lukhulu kakhulu. Ukusebenza kuya kulahla ngokukhawuleza. Yonke into eyayikuvuyisa ngaphambili iya kuba yintsipho kwaye ingakuthandi. Ukuba uhlalutya ubuninzi beenguqulelo, ngoko umfanekiso weentyatyambo ezikhulayo zingabonakala ngokukhuselekileyo kwiimeko zokomoya zephupha. Unokukhutshwa ngaphandle kwenethiwekhi yakho ewonakalisayo ixesha elide ngokudandatheka okude.

Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuqonda ukuba uluvusa njani, emva kwephupha lentyatyambo ebhodweni. Imvakalelo emihle ishiya impawu ebalulekileyo, nangona ukuba ukutolika kwadanisa.