Meme
Khumbula ukukhala, oku akunjalo umnqweno wokulimaza, okokuqala, okokuqala, ukungazincedi. Yile ndlela abantwana bacinga ngayo ngezingane ezizikhwazayo. Abazali abahlala beqhekeza kubo, bacinga ukuba bazingalondekanga ngokwabo.
Xa ukhulisa abantwana, ukukhwaza akuvumelekile. Nguye onokubangela ukubonakalisa isimo kumntwana. Xa umama eqalela ukukhala, umntwana uqala ukukrokra kwiinyawo zakhe ngokunyanisekileyo, uhlala ethanda ukukhala aze enze unina azive ngakumbi. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana uyasetyenziselwa ukuziphendulela kwaye uqala ukuyisebenzisa ngokwakhe.
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Ngokuqinisekileyo, abaninzi abazali baya kuthetha ukuba abazange bamthinte umntwana ngomunwe. Kwaye ngoku khumbula ezo zihlandlo xa ungakhange uhlasele unobheyili umntwana, xa ekhuphuka, apho angayi khona. Okwenziwe okanye obuthathaka kumpapa, ngokuqhelekileyo, nantoni na eyenyisayo umntwana kwaye yabangela ukungakhululeki. Akunakulimaza, kodwa inyaniso yokuba uyambetha, iyabalisa iinduku.
Khumbula - awukwazi ukubetha abantwana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni amandla okushaya. U-Amy uyaqhubeka nokuhamba phambili kwi-rake efanayo, engakwazi ukujamelana noyiko lwabo.
Ukujongana nobomi bomntu
Oku kusebenza kubantwana abadala. Abantwana banezihlobo ezintsha, izinto ezithandwayo, iinkampani. Abazali bahlala bezama ukufikelela ebomini bomntwana babo baze bamfundise ingqondo-isizathu. Balungiselela zonke iintlobo zokuphanda, ukufumanisa apho kwaye kunye nobani. Abantwana abavela kulokho bangaboni, ngakumbi xa iimfihlo zobomi babo obusondeleyo zixubusha ingxoxo. Uninzi lwawo, ngokwawo bafuna ukwabelana ngeemfihlo zabo neengxaki zabo, kodwa kuphela xa beziva bekhuselekile ngokupheleleyo kwaye abazali abayi kubuza imibuzo engadingekile.
Awukwazi ukusela, ukutshaya nomama phambi koonyana
Nantsi yonke into ilula. Okokuqala, utata uya kusela ibhotile yobhiya, umama uya kummema umngane wakhe ukuba achithe ixesha. Kwaye ngoku umntwana ubona amalungelo okuzalwa, njengento ehlazo - kuthetha ukuba umama noba banako, kodwa andinako? Ngoko, gcina iliso malunga nento oyenzayo. Khumbula - umntwana ukopile zonke iimfudu zethu kunye nokukhetha. Awufuni ukuba abe nomdla kule nto kwixesha elizayo?
Ndiyicinga, akuyimfuneko ukuthetha ukuba umntwana ngowokuqala kwaye ngowona mthwalo uxanduva olukhulu. Emva kokubonakala kwakhe, ubomi bujika. Naluphi na ukuthintela ukuba uyimisele kumntwana kumkhuthaza ukuba aphathe ngokwaneleyo izinto ezingathandekiyo. Emva kwakho konke, njengokuba uyazi, isiqhamo esinqatshelwe siyancwina, njengokungathi kwakunzima ukuyiqonda.
Awunako ukwesaba ngesini sakhe
Bonke abantwana bakhula ngokunyuka kunye nemida. Sekuneminyaka eli-15 ubudala abaninzi banesondo kunye nabadala. Ngaphambi koko, kwiingxoxo zabo kukho ukubhekisela kwisini okanye olunye uhlazo.
Abazali kwiimeko ezinjalo bahlala beziphatha ngokungalunganga. Esikhundleni sokubamba entloko kwaye uxelele umntwana ukuba luyiko loyiko, ulumkele ukwesaba kuye, umele umxwayise malunga nokukhusela kwaye ucele ukusebenzisa i-contraceptive. Uloyiko olukhuthazayo kule minyaka luya kuthintela ubomi bakhe ngokwesondo kwiminyaka embalwa. Kwenzeka ngakumbi nakakhulu, abazali baqala ukubuza umntwana apho ahamba khona noko akwenzayo, ezama ukuziphatha ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Nifuna ukufundisisa kwindawo
Le yimeko ephikisana kakhulu. Abanye bakholelwa ukuba ukuthanda ububele kwabazali kubandakanyeka kuwo ukususela kumaxesha eSoviet, apho wonke umntu wayethobela kwaye ethobela. Abazali bafuna okufanayo kwizingane zabo zokuzala.
Ukuphumelela kwesikolo somntwana kubonakala kubangelwa ukuphunyezwa kwabazali. Abantu abaninzi bayazihlambalaza ngamathuba alahlekileyo, kwaye bacinge ukuba nangona umntwana ehamba ngendlela efanelekileyo. Nangona kunjalo, uxinzelelo olunjalo luya kubakho into enhle. Mhlawumbi, xa ekhula, uya kuvuka kumnqweno wonk 'ubani aze ahlale ecetyisa. Ndikholelwe - oku akuyona into ebalulekileyo. Ngoko kutheni kuhlushwa umntwana kunye nabo baya kumthanda?
Ewe, kwaye ndingathini na? Akuyena wonke umntu onikwe into efanayo, kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana wakho uyingozi. Awunakhathazeki ngento yokuba awuzange ube yi-biological molecular biologist?