Umntwana oneminyaka emithathu ubudala unokuzikhawulela ukuba agqoke okanye agxininise, okanye enze oko ngokwakhe. Oku kuyenzeka kubantu abadala, injongo kukufundisa umntwana, kodwa kufuna umonde nokucinga. Mhlawumbi iindlela ezininzi zokuphuhliswa kwimeko.
Inketho yokuqala: ukuvumela imeko leyo, kuba umntwana kungekudala okanye kamva kufuneka azinxibe. Kwiminyaka yobudala oku kuya kwenzeka.
Inketho yesibini kukukhala okanye ukubetha umntwana. Le ndlela iphumelele, isiphumo siya kuphunyezwa ngokukhawuleza kunezinye iindlela. Ukuziva ukwesaba kukhuthaza abantwana kakuhle. Ba qeqeshwa. Le ndlela ifanelekile kwimeko apho injongo ephambili ukufundisa umntwana ukuba agqoke.
Inketho yesithathu ibonisa indlela yokudala. Nayi inkqubo yokufunda umntwana idibaniswa ngqo nomcinge omdala.
Kwimeko apho uyazi ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntwana uyazi indlela yokuziphazamisa kwaye unokukwenza ngokukhawuleza, umzekelo, xa efuna ukuya kwindlu yangasese, uyaqhubeka echasa xa ehamba, ufuna indlela yokudala. Ngamanye amagama, umntwana unxibe-unqamle ngoko ke xa kukho isidingo esiphezulu okanye ufuna ukukwenza. Kungenzeka ukuba inkunzi inomtsalane kwithuba lokuhamba okanye ukuya kweso siganeko, kodwa indlela yokugqoka ayiyinto enomdla kangangokuthi udela ukuhamba kunye nokunye, ukuze ugweme ukugqoka. Le yimeko xa ufuna ukupakisha iprojekthi, yenza kube mnandi.
Nazi iindlela ezimbalwa ongazithatha enkonzweni:
- Umdlalo wokufihla uze ufune. Uvuyo olusondeleyo xa ii-handslee zibonisa izandla zabo, kwaye zisuka entanyeni yamehlo.
- Ukudlala isitimela. Kulo mdlalo isandla sisitimela, singena kwi-tunnel, oko kukuthi, kwi-sleeve. I-cam - control all the train.
- Ngokufanayo nomdlalo kwisitimela, ungadlala kwimouse (ikham), yurknuvshego kwimink (sleeve).
- Umdlalo "kwiSitrato saseBasseynaya isasazeke esitalatweni". Xa ugqoka, soloko ubuza imibuzo yomntwana: kuphi ukubeka iisokisi? Mhlawumbi kwiepenji? Hayi? Beka kwiibamba ... .megs? Kwaye kutheni i-nosochki, ingayinxiba ezindlebeni? Ngubani oza kunceda ukuqonda? Yintoni endimele ndiyigqoke kuqala: i-pantyhose okanye i-panties?
- Hlukanisa inkqubo yokugqoka ibe ezimbini, oko kukuthi, umzali kunye nomntwana. Ngokomzekelo, umama ugqoke imilenze yakhe yepenteti, inkunzi iyakhupha yona. Umama ubeka intloko entanyeni aze afake izibambo kwiimikhono - umntwana uyakhupha ijeythi ngakumbi kwaye asasaze ibhatyi.
- Uqeqesho kwiimidlalo. Ngeedodoli, ubunzima, ungabonakalisa yonke into ehambelanayo kunye nengqiqo yokugqoka.
Xa ufundisa umntwana ukuba azigqoke, kuyacetyiswa ukuba ukhethe iimpahla azithandayo. Yaye ukhumbule ukuba "izifundo" ezinjalo akufanele zigqitywe ngokukhawuleza. Kungcono ukunika ixesha elide, kodwa ukuphumeza iziphumo ezilungileyo, kunokuba uchithe ixesha elincinane kwaye ungafumani nto ngokubuyisela.
Ungesabi ukuphazamisa umntwana ngeemidlalo ezinjalo, oku akuyi kwenzeka. Khumbula ukuba kubantwana basenkulanga, umsebenzi oyintloko. Imisebenzi kwifom edlalwayo inceda umntwana ukuba aphuhlise, afunde ihlabathi, athole ulwazi olutsha kunye nokubonakala. Neemidlalo ezinceda ukufunda nokuphuhlisa umkhuba wokugqoka umntwana, vumela abazali ukuba banikeze imithetho yabo kwi-"iphakheji" enomdla.
Emva kokuba umntwana eqala ukudlala ngokwemiqathango yakho, khawuleza ugqoke ngexesha elifanelekileyo, kufuneka uxoxe ngomyezo. Kungenzeka ukuba incoko ayiyi kuyimfuneko kwaye imeko iya kuphucula yedwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo kuthatha iveki kunye nesigamu okanye iiveki ezimbini ukuba umntwana azenzele into enokuyenza-ukugxotha-lo ngumsebenzi omnandi, onomdla. Ekupheleni kweli xesha, akayi kubuya ekuziphatheni kwangaphambili. Ukugijima ngeenxa yengubo yengubo yengubo yokugcoba ukumbathisa akuyikutsala.
Ukuba imeko ye-kindergarten ayitshintshi kwaye umntwana uyashiya ngokuhamba ngaphandle kokuhamba, kwaye abanye abantwana bahamba ngokulindela, kufuneka kulungiswe. Abazali kuya kufuneka bafike kusasa ukuze babambe abantwana kubuthana ngemini yemini. Ngeli xesha, ngelixa abanye abantwana bezinyamekela, mnike umntwana wakho ukuba abukele indlela abaqoqela ngayo abathandana naye, ngubani na onxibayo ngokukhawuleza kwaye ophuzayo. Ukuhambelana nokujonga kwakho ngamazwana, qhathanisa ngokucophelela abantwana. Kancinci ulethe umntwana ingcamango yokuba abo bantwana banxiba ngokukhawuleza, bancede utitshala. U-Atot umntwana, ozenza izinto ezigqobileyo, uncedo olungcono kakhulu. Kwenzeka ntoni ukuba bonke abantwana baqala ukukunceda umqeqeshi? - Ukuhamba kuya kuhlala ixesha elide. Zama ukuthetha nomntwana ngetoni yomusa, ngaphandle kokuphakamisa ilizwi okanye ukuthetha kakubi. Injongo yomzali akufanele ithathe inxaxheba ekuziphatheni, umntwana onomdla wokucinga ukuba ungumncedisi, njani ukuzimelela, umntu omdala. Yaye ukholelwa ukuba ulwazi oluthe lwafumana umntwana kwingxoxo exhalabileyo lubonakala kubo bhetele ngakumbi kunokhexiso kunye noxinzelelo, ngokulungelelaniswa ngabantwana ngabazali.
Xa uneminyaka yobudala, umntwana uya kuxabisa le ngxoxo ezolile kwaye uya kubonga ngokubulela okukhulu.