Ibhinqa lijongene neentlobo zamabhinqa

Ngamanye amaxesha siyaqaphela indlela amadoda ethu abheka ngayo ngakwesobunxele nakwesokudla, kwaye abuyele kwaye akhangele phambili - kwaye yonke ingqalelo ijoliswe kumfanekiso omude, omncinci wentombazana enhle. Kodwa akubhekiselele kwimibono yabantu kwimiba yolonwabokazi, kodwa ngabafazi. Uvakalelwa njani xa ubuhle obunamaqabunga obude, obukhenkcezayo obunamehlo amakhulu obudlula kuwe? I-twinge yomona, ingcikivo yesazela emva kweengcamango ezixhalabileyo, uyithintela njani le mihlali, okanye uyayithanda ngokwenene?

Ekubonweni kokuqala, iintlobo zesetyhini zithetha intsalane, inqeni, imilenze kunye nemilenze, kodwa oku kungalunganga. Iingqungquthela zesifazana zisengamehlo kunye ne-eyelashes, imilomo, iinwele, izandla, iminwe kunye nezipikili, ngokuqhelekileyo, yiyo yonke into ebhinqileyo. I-charm iyona nto enye intokazi eyabela yona kwenye ibhinqa. Ewe, ukususela ekuqaleni, ngaba amabele awela kunye nalawo angaphantsi. Ngoko yamukelwa ngabantu bethu kwizinto zabo zokuqala nezisiseko. Yiba njalo.

Ngako-ke, bangaphi abafazi, ininzi yeengqungquthela, kunye neembono ezininzi zamabhinqa ekuvuyiseni. Umntu onomdla ubheka ummelwane okanye umntu osebenza kunye naye kwaye uyazifunela ezo zifom, ezizibhokoxa ngokutya kunye neeholide zezemidlalo, kwaye umntu onenzondo uyayibona intombazana enye kwaye uyayinqwenela iintlungu ezimbi, kwaye omnye umntu unalolu hlobo uyisebenzise ngeenjongo zabo. Ezinye iingcamango zabasetyhini kule mihlali ndiyayiva emlonyeni wamhlobo nabahlobo bam.

Ndinomhlobo omnye ojongene nesifuba esinqabileyo, esilumkileyo kunye nesigxina esithi "Ndiya kukhwela kuye ukuba ndiyindoda". Hayi, hayi, ulwabelana ngesondo, uthanda amadoda kwaye unentsapho, oku kungomnye wemibono yabasetyhini kwiminwe yowesifazane othile. Ndiyicinga ukuba yinkwenkwekazi kuphela engenazo izakhiwo kunye nokuba nomfanekiso omhle unokuthetha ngenye inkazana. Akajonga nje kuphela kwimbono yesintu kwiingqungquthela zentombi, kodwa uvakalisa uluvo lwakhe kunye nokunyaniseka. Njengoko ndiyazi, ngokuqhelekileyo amantombazana abonisa ukunganeliseki nokungazithandi abantu abangaphezu kwabo, abafake umona omnyama.

Omnye wam omaziyo uqala ukuthetha intlondi xa ebona intombazana entle, kwaye ke ngoko uyayiqonda ukuba uyavuya okanye uyanyaniseka. Njengoko umculi wasePoland uJanina Ipokhorskaya wathi, "Ukujonga kwelinye ibhinqa kwelinye lisikhumbuza ukulawulwa kwemithwalo kwizithethe." Abesifazane basoloko bekhangelelana ngokukodwa kwaye banengqiqo, benethemba lokufumanisa nayiphi na impazamo ehlawulisa umonakalo wabo wokuziphatha, nokuba abo baqala ukujonga loo mbuyekezo.

Kwaye inyaniso, kuninzi ukuyixabisa. Ngokomntu, ndihlala ndiyayithanda, okanye ndicinga ukuba, "Ndiya kuba le ..." xa ndibona umfanekiso olungele ukulungiswa kakuhle, kwaye akunandaba nokuba unobumba utyunjwe ngoncedo lwe-plastic surgeon okanye kwindalo ngokwayo ezinjalo. Ewe, kwaye ufumene kwimo yeefom ze-chic kufuneka uzigcine, kwaye oku kufuna inkcitho enkulu yesikhathi nemali.

Kwizandla zobuchule bomnini wayo, nayiphina indawo yomzimba inokuyilingo kwaye imemezele abantu, ibangele inzondo ngabasetyhini, ngokuchanekileyo nangokufanelekileyo. Akukho kwisifuba esikhulu okanye ku-papa e-elastic. Kukho konke ukuzithemba kwakho kunye nokubonisa kwakho kwabanye. Uvakalelwa njani, ngoko uya kuqonda abantu abakufutshane nawe. Khumbula oku!