Ubudlelwane namadoda
Masiqale ngento ebaluleke kakhulu: amava akho othando. Ngaba uhlala utshintsha, ungayinaki, uphonsa bonke abafana? Ewe, uThixo, indoda yakho ethandekayo iphakamisa isandla sakho kuwe, kwaye awunalo amandla okuhamba. Mhlawumbi, akuyimfuneko ukucacisa ukuba ingxaki kuphela kuwe? Uyazi indoda efanelekileyo. Ukuba ulahla iimpawu zobuhle zangaphandle, ngoko ke, yintoni ebaluleke kakhulu kuwe: urhulumente, ububele, amandla okanye ubulumko. Kutheni uqale uqala ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nabantu bohlobo olungalunganga, ukuthembela ekubeni unokutshintsha. Ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuba ube nemali, ukuze ahambe nawe ngemoto ngemoto aze aqhube kwiindawo zokudlela, ngoko kutheni ukuya kumhla wesithathu nomfundi? Ukuze kuqinisekiswe ingeniso yendoda, iintlanganiso ezimbalwa zanele. Musa ukuhamba nanye, ukuba kuwe into eyona nto yimali. Wena ngokwakho awuyi kuqaphela indlela unyaka uza kudlula ngayo, kwaye uya kuxelela umhlobo wakho ukuba awukwazi ukufumana ifowuni entsha.
Mhlawumbi, kuwe umbandela obaluleke kakhulu ububele bomntu, ngoko kutheni uhamba nomhla wobugqwetha othungela amavolontiya? Ndikholelwe, uya kufumana uthando lwakhe ekuqaleni okanye emva kwexesha, kwaye iimvakalelo zakho aziyi kubuya. Le mizekelo yeli-ezi ziphambili iimpazamo zabasetyhini. Ekuqaleni ukhetha amadoda angalunganga, lo mfazi uthembele kuye ... Kodwa ngokwenene, yintoni ongathembela kuyo, awuyi kutshintsha kumadoda, owathi uya kuyenza?
Ukuba ufuna uhlobo oluthile, ke ungatshintshi, ungesabi ukuhlala wodwa, ulinde umntu wakho. Ngokuqinisekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha ufuna into enomdla, vumelana nemini kunye nemibutho yamaqela, kodwa akudingeki ukuba uthandane uze ulandele nawuphi na umntu. Yiba wena, kodwa ungagcinanga, kodwa hlama, ufunde izinto ezintsha, thanda umzimba wakho.
Isibalo sihloko esahlukileyo ngaphambili kobudlelwane. Mhlawumbi ukhuluphele. Ukuba akukho nto eyenziwe kuye, ngoko masithembeke, ngoko yonke into ikufanelanga. Ngoko uziphathe njengokungathi ukuzaliseka kwakho kuyisipho. Musa ukububula kwividiyobulochek, musa ukuzonda umzekelo, ungazami kwiingubo ezincinci. Emva kokuba ukhethe ukuhlala ugcwele, unokwenza uvuyo kuwo. Yeka ukuhlazeka emgodini kwaye ukwesaba ukuphazamisa. Uthi uyayithanda umzimba wakho, ngoko kutheni le nto ihlala ixhala malunga nokulahlekelwa ngumzimba? Ngaba uyazi ukuba uhlolisise ukuba uthanda wena? Cinga, ukuba ngoomlingo, uya kucelwa ukuba ukhethe umfanekiso ongcono, uya kucela ntoni? Kulabo abaye bacingisise ngemilenze emininzi okanye enqeni, kukho ukutya kunye nokutya okungenangqiqo.
Lawula abanye
Enyanisweni, ubudlelwane nomphathi kubunzima ukwakha. Unayo imali nemandla ezandleni zakhe. Funda ukuthetha naye. Ungaze uqale ukuphikisana kuqala. Ukuba udinga ukwanda kwimivuzo, ikhompyutha entsha eofisini okanye utshintsho kwimini yokusebenza, ke makubonise. Okokuqala, ndixelele into oyifunayo, uze ulinde. Naliphi na isikhokelo esiza kusixelela ngokukhawuleza ukuba kutheni le nto ayinakwenziwa. Qaphela, qinisekisa amagama akhe. Qala uqale uthetha ngokuba kutheni kubanceda ukuba bakunike oku. Ndixelele ukuba imveliso yakho iyaphula, loo mveliso iya kwanda ngeemeko ezinjalo. Uya kuba nenzuzo enkulu, sele uyazi izizathu zayo, kodwa unokuzichasa.
Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe uye ubuze into ethile, zibalo zonke iinketho onokuva. Ukuba le nto ibaluleke kakhulu, bhala phantsi kwiphepha, yonke into enokuthi inganyanzelwanga. Musa ukubeka i-ultimatum ngokungaphumeleli, mhlawumbi umphathi uya kukhumbuza intetho yakho kwaye, kwithuba lokuqala, uhlala enika yonke into oyifunayo.
Kwakhona kufuneka ube neenzuzo ngaphezu kwabanye. Awucingi ukuba awukho ndawo. Yeka ukusebenza emsebenzini kwaye uhlale kumanethiwekhi asekuhlaleni, qiniseka ukuba uyaphawula. Zibeke kwicala lobunkokeli, cinga ukuba uphunyelelwe - ngaba inkampani yakho ilahlekelwa yinto ethile? Kwaye kufuneka ulahlekelwe! Kufuneka ube ngcono nakumsebenzi. Abaninzi abaqondi nje ukuba oku kwenziwa njani kumashishini athile. Ukuba uthengisa into, uze udale iqela kumanethiwekhi asekuhlaleni, kunye neentlobo zemveliso kunye nefowuni yakho. Ukuba ungumpheki, qiniseka ukuzama ukulungisa izitsha ezintsha, njl. Ungesabi uvavanyo, ingakumbi loo nto ayiyi kuhlawula nayiphi na into.
Ukuba akukho nto iguquka, zizenzele umsebenzi omtsha, apho uya kuxabiswa khona. Ngamanye amaxesha kulula kakhulu ukwakha umsebenzi wakho kwakhona kunokuqhubeka usebenza ngokungenangqiqo. Kwimibuzo yemibuzo kaninzi kukho umgca: "Ubani ozibona ngokwakho kwiminyaka emihlanu yethu nkampani?". Zive ukhululekile ukubhala oko ucinga ngako. Beka zakho iinjongo ezithile, oza kuzifeza. Dlala enkulu, ngakumbi ukuba sele usuphumelele. Ingaba ucinga ukuba ukufumana abantu abayi-15,000 abanezemfundo ephakamileyo kuyinto evamile?
Qinisekisa ukuba uyayinyamekela imbonakalo yakho. Kwimisebenzi emininzi yabasetyhini kubandakanya ukusebenzisana nabantu. Ngokwemvelo, kufuneka ubonakale njengengcali yoqobo. Kukho nawuphi na umgangatho, uya kuqaphela oko ugqoke kwaye unokukhathalela kangakanani. Ukucoceka nokucoceka ekwenzeni, kuphephe iimpahla - kwaye nantsi ihlabathi lamashishini oshishino kwiinyawo zakho. Ungaze wenze isilungiso sokuba uyintombazana. Ubulili bakho abuyikudlala nayiphi na indima yomsebenzi. Funda malunga nabafazi abaphumelelayo kwi-press entsha, ukuze baphefumulelwe ngumzekelo wabo.
Iingcebiso ezibaluleke kakhulu kubo bonke abasetyhini BENZA UKUQALA! Ubomi bakho, ulonwabo lwakho, uthando lwakho nemali yakho. U-Razves akayi kubuhlungu yonke iminithi yexesha esetyenziselwe xa ungenwavuyo. Ukuba ubunzima bakho buxhomeke kwabanye, vumela uvuyo lwakho luxhomekeke kuwe kuphela.