Zombini kwezi ziimeko ziqhelekileyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo unako ukubamba ixesha kwaye uphonsa umntwana ebhodweni, ufikelele kwinani elincinci leenkontsho ezimanzi ngosuku, kodwa oku akukona ityala lomntwana, kodwa ngumama kuphela. Yaye ngokuqinisekileyo, oku akuthethi ukuba umntwana ujwayele ibhokhwe, kunoko, unina ujwayele. Kodwa wonk 'ubani uya kuvuma ukuba xa le nqanaba elibalulekileyo ebomini nomntwana liphela ngokuncincika kwebhodi, wonke umntu uyakhululwa. Makhe sibone indlela kwaye ukusuka kwiphi ubudala ubudala umntwana ejwayele ukupheka.
Iipapu ziphazamisa
Oku kulungile kubazali. Nangona kunjalo, iintsana ziziva zikhululekile kwi-diapers, kwaye ukusuka kwindawo yokujonga ngonyango, ukusetyenziswa kwazo rhoqo akunakuncedo. Enye kuphela - iingubo zangaphantsi ezomileyo zomntwana. Iingxaki zikhulu kakhulu, oku: ukufumana umntwana kwintsikelelo yabo, ukungakwazi ukuqonda malunga neemfuno zemvelo nokunciphisa ukwakheka kwengcamango yokucoca.
Ukufikelela kwiminyaka eyi-1.5 kukunciphisa ukuhlala komntwana kwi-diapers. Umzekelo, sebenzisa kuphela xa uhamba, uhamba, ngexesha lokubanda.
Ngaphambi kokuba ulungele umntwana kumbindi, kufuneka uyeke ukusebenzisa i-diapers ngokupheleleyo. Oku kuyimfuneko ukuba umntwana abe nokuphazamiseka kokuhlala emanzini amanzi, ecinga ukuba kutheni le nto yenzekayo, oko kukuthi, ukuba umntwana abe nolwalamano olubangela kunye nentsingiselo. Ukuziva ukhululekile ekubeni unengubo emanzi, umntwana uzakuzama ukukwazisa malunga nezandi kunye nezenzo. Kule meko, kufuneka nje ukubeka iliso ukuziphatha komntwana.
Icebiso
Nini ukufundisa umntwana ebhodweni, kufike kuwe. Musa ukuphulaphula iingcebiso kubahlobo nabahlobo. Le yimi shishini lakho langaphakathi
Inzululwazi eyinkimbinkimbi yendlela kwaye kunye neyiphi iminyaka umntwana efundiswayo ekubhodweni akuyona into elula. Nangona kunjalo, ukusebenzisa iingcebiso zethu, ngokukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza kwimiba yokuphila "yabantu abadala":
- Mthetho ngokuchanekileyo, kwaye kungekhona kwimeko yecala;
- Yenza i-diapers;
- Musa ukuphazamisa ulwazi lomntwana ngesenzo sokucoca: umntwana kufuneka awazi amalungu akhe wesini aze abone yonke "inkqubo";
- Beka ibhokhwe ngqo kwindawo enye, mhlawumbi kwindlu yangasese - umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukuyifumana;
- Jonga umntanakho (unako ukuthula, ukufihla, ukukhawuleza, ukudibanisa, ukunyuka, unokuthatha umhlalaphantsi kwindawo akhethiweyo);
- Gqoka ubuncinci beengubo kwintsana ukuze isuswe kalula;
- Isiqhelo kwibhoba ngexesha elifudumeleyo (ihlobo);
- Ungaziphoqeleli ukuba uhlale ebhodweni - ukuba umntwana akafuni, iingqameko, ukukhala, inkqubo yokufunda ilahlekelwa intsingiselo yayo: umntwana onomsindo akafundi lutho;
-Kwahlula emva kokulala kunye / okanye emva kokutya;
- Ukuncoma ngothando xa yonke into ivela njengoko kufanelekile, kodwa ungayidluli. Akuyimfuneko ukuhlangabezana nayo yonke into eyenza ukuphumelela ngehlombe;
- Uhambelana nenkqubo ngezandi (ngokuqonda kwakho - "ps-ps", njl njl, kuxhomekeke kwingcamango yomama);
- Musa ukuqala inkqubo yokufunda ukuba umntwana uyagula okanye uyagula;
- Ngaphambi kokuba uhambe kwaye emva koko, zama ukubeka umntwana ebumbeni;
- Ukuze uhambe, mbuzo ngokukhawuleza umntwana ukuba aye "emanzini" (ukuba ungekho ekhaya), thabatha izambatho;
- Ungasebenzisi kakubi umntwana ngenxa yeengqayi ezimanzi;
Fundisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba ususe kwaye ufake ii-panties, ukwenzela ukuba kwixesha elizayo, ukuba kuyimfuneko, umntwana angasusa iingubo zakhe kwaye ahlale phantsi ebhodweni. Mhlawumbi, okokuqala uya kuzama ukuhlala phantsi ebhodweni kwaye enze zonke "izinto" ngqo kwiingubo - kulungile, eli nqanaba kufuneka lifumaneke. Phatha ingxaki encinci yefilosofi kunye namahlazi, musa ukwenza intlungu ngenxa yokungaphumeleli.
Fundisa abafana ukuba babhale ukuma
Ukwakhiwa kwe-reflex eyaziwayo, ukuxubusha kwindlu yangasese, ngokuqhelekileyo kubakho kwiminyaka emibini (ububanzi - ukusuka kwiinyanga ezili-14 ukuya kwezi-24). Umntwana onjalo uqonda intetho, unokuqiniseka, uchaze, unomdla kwinkqubo. Kodwa umntwana oneminyaka engama-70 okanye i-reflex ecacileyo ayizinzile kwaye ngokukhawuleza ukhohliweyo.
Kunzima kakhulu ukufumanisa umgca ococekileyo, xa ukuvuthwa rhoqo kuphenduka isifo. Ukuba ubona ukucocwa rhoqo kwintsana emini okanye ukuba unobusuku obunokungabikho ngokuzibandakanya emva kweminyaka emi-5, inokuthetha ngentsholongwane. Ngaphantsi kwesigqubuthelo se-enuresis, ezininzi izifo ezingenangqondo ezingabantwana - ukungabikho kokuzalwa komntwana ekuphuhliseni i-urinary tract, izifo ezivuthayo zendlela yokucoca, ukuphazamiseka komsebenzi wokucoca, kunokufihla.
Ngoko ke , ukuba umntwana, naphezu kwemizamo yakho yokuziqhelisa ebhodweni, ugcina ukuchama okungalawulwayo (ngosuku emva kweminyaka emithathu ubudala, ebusuku emva komntwana oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala), umntwana kufuneka ahlolwe.
Ingxaki yokuphazamiseka kokungcungcutheka kwintlangano ye-urology kunye neurology, kwaye abazali abaninzi bazifumana belahlekelwa, luhlobo luni lweengcali olufunekayo ukubonisa umntwana. Uviwo lufanele luqale ngo-urologist oza kuqhuba ukuhlolwa ngokuthe ngqo kwimizimba yangaphandle kubafana, ukuvumela ukuba ungabandakanyi izifo ezinjenge-phimosis, i-balanoposthitis, i-edema yeembombo zee-testicular, i-testicated testicles (cryptorchidism). Ngokufanelekileyo, umama wenkwenkwe kufuneka abonise urologist oneminyaka eli-1 ubudala. Kwiimantombazana, uvavanyo oluphambili lwangaphandle lunokuthi lwenziwa ngudokotela we-urologist. Ukuba unenkqantosi kwi-pathology yokuphuhliswa kwe-urinary system, umntwana uya kuhanjiswa kwi-gynecologist yabantwana.
Kwakhona, i-urologist iya kunika iimvavanyo eziqhelekileyo ezingabizi - ukuhlolwa komchamo jikelele, i-ultrasound of the kidneys. Umntwana oneminyaka engama-2.5-3 ubudala akakwazi ukuvota kwiiyure ezingama-2-2.5. Eli xabiso lixhomekeke kwizinto ezininzi-amandla okubakho, isantya sokuthathwa kwamanzi, ukushisa kwendalo, ukushisa komzimba womntwana ngokwawo. Umthamo wesantya ungabalwa kakhulu - ngokuqhelekileyo i-30 ml ngomnyaka woku-1 wobomi wengane kunye nenkcazo yemali ye-urine. Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo, isifundo esiyinkimbinkimbi seCI-CI, isifundo esiyinkimbinkimbi se-urodynamic, ngenxa yesisombululo sokuphazamiseka kokungcungcutheka, asibonakalisiwe. Ukuba iziphumo zezi zifundo, ukukhubazeka kweengxaki ezingabonakaliyo kubonakaliswa, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukubonisa umntwana kwi-neurologist.
Musa ukundikrokra, Mama!
Inkqubo yokuqeqesha umntwana ebhodweni idinga kumama ubuninzi bonyamezelo, umonde kwaye, ngokwenene, uthando. Ngoko ke, ungalokothi usebenzise kakubi umntwana ukuba uchaziwe. Kakade ke, ngamanye amaxesha unokuziva ungento yanto zonke iinzame zokutshala iimvumba kwi-pot, kodwa, ekuhlalutyweni kokugqibela, akukho nto idlula ngaphandle. Emva kwexesha elifutshane kakhulu, uya kuziva ukuba kufuneka asebenzise ibhodlo ngokwakhe, kwaye eli lizinga eliphezulu lokuphuhliswa kwengane.
Kunokwenzeka kwaye kuyimfuneko ukuqeqesha isisu, ukufundisa umntwana ukuba abekezele, eqinisweni, kwimida efanelekileyo. Ukwenza oku, zama ukuphazamisa umntwana kwingcamango yokucoca, yenza sengathi ukhangele ibhokhwe. Oku kuya kuthintela "izingozi" ngexesha lokuhamba, ukuhamba kunye neemeko ezingafanelekanga ngokunyusa amandla okusebenza kwesilwanyana. Olu qeqesho ludinga umonde kunye namandla kuninzi kumama, kodwa umphumo ufanelekile. Ndiya kuncomela ukuhlalisa umntwana emva kweeyure ezimbini.
Ukhetho lwebhotile
Imbiza iyadingeka kuphela into eyodwa: ukuthunyelwa kwezidingo zemvelo. Kumele ibe nesigxina, ephantsi, efanelekileyo kwaye iphephile. Namhlanje, abavelisi "be-closets" babantwana banokunika oomama ithuba elikhethekileyo kunye nelonahlukileyo kakhulu elingazanelisa ukunambitha okunzima kakhulu.
Ibhokhwe
Ngomda ojikelezayo. Ukungalunganga kweli pho yukuthi xa umntwana ehleli kuyo, imilenze yomntwana ifakwe kunye. Oku kwenza abafana bangakhululeki.
Ibhodwe leAnatomical
Ubume be-oval, buyela emuva, phambili - ukukhutshwa okhethekileyo kubafana. Iingenelo ziquka isihlalo esichusekileyo, umntwana usemgcini womgibeli, imilenze iyahlukana. Ezi zimbiza zifanelekile ngokufanayo kumantombazana namakhwenkwe. Ngombindi wesimo esifanayo, izibonda ezantsi zingasongela.
Isitifiketi samanzi
Ubumbi ngendlela yesitulo enezibambo, apho itanki isuswa khona. Le bhodlela ikulungele ukusetyenziswa.
I-toy-toy
Ekubeni kwezi zimbiza zivame ukufumana isondo, ipeni okanye intloko yomntu wefayile. Oku kudala ukuphazamiseka komntwana omncinci kunye neebhulukwe phantsi - kufuneka aphephe ngokupheleleyo iingubo zakhe kwaye agxume unyawo lwakhe embhodweni, ngelixa usebenzisa i-pot anomomi umntwana anganciphisa ama-panties aze ahlale embizeni. Ukunyuka ngebhodi elinjalo akukwazanga ukulungiselela iziqu. Ingane iyakwazi ukuwa, vula ibhokhwe phezu kwayo, soyika. Ukongezelela, umntwana uphazamiseka ngumdlalo ngebhodi kwaye unokukhumbula ngokupheleleyo umsebenzi wakhe.
Ibhokhwe yomculo
Igama lizithetha ngokwalo-ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana wakho eqala ukwenza izinto "ezincinci" zakhe, ukuhambisana nomculo kuqhubeka. Ingozi yokusebenzisa izimbiza ezinjalo kukuba umntwana unomxholo ohambelana nomculo othile, kwaye ke akakwazi ukubhala kwenye ibhodwe. Ngamanye amaxesha kukho iimeko xa umntwana eva "ingoma" yakhe ingoma kwindawo ethile engafanelekanga kunye nayo yonke imiphumo (kokubili kwisimo esicacileyo nangokomfanekiso). Ukongezelela, umculo awusadingeki ubusuku, ngexesha lokugula komntwana, ngeemvakalelo kunye nemizwelo. Kungenakulindelwa, yikane umntwana kwaye, ekugqibeleni, uthuthuke.
Umculo, ukukhanya kunye nezinye "iziphumo ezizodwa" ezihamba kunye nokucinywa komntwana akuvumelekanga. Umntwana, ejwayele ukuya kwindlu yangasese "phantsi kweengcambu", kuya kuba nzima ukukhulisa kulokhu kwaye uphinde ufundise ubumbi bokusebenzisa ibhodwe.