Isithethe somdaniso wokuqala wabasanda kutshata sineminyaka engaphezu kwekhulu ubudala. Abantu abasandul 'ukutshata bafumana yonke into yokudanisa kunye nokudansa yodwa, bengaphazanyiswa ngabani na, phambi kwazo zonke iindwendwe ezidibeneyo, ukuvula inkqubo yabo yokuzonwabisa ngokubhiyozela. Kwaye nangona kubakho abantu abaninzi abakhoyo, umdaniso wokuqala wabantu abaselula ngumsebenzi osondelene kakhulu kunye nomqondiso. Ibonisa zonke iimvakalelo neemvakalelo ezifunyanwa ngumtshakazi nomyeni. Ngeli xesha, ungabi namahloni okanye uvaliwe, kukulungele ukukhupha zonke iimvakalelo ezinde kwimimori yakho kunye nemifanekiso yezithombe kunye nevidiyo - kuba nayiphina imifanekiso yezithombe okanye i-videographer iyavuya ukuthatha imifanekiso yalezi zihlandlo ezingalibalekiyo. Ngoko ke, umdaniso wokuqala kufuneka ulungiselelwe ngokucokisekileyo.
Yimuphi umdaniso ongakhetha kuwo
Okokuqala, kukufanelekile ukukhetha umdaniso owenziwe ngumtshakazi nomyeni. Kwaye, ngokwenene, ngokulandelanayo, mthathele umculo. Ngokwesiko, abatshabatshintshisayo bakhetha i-waltz yomdaniso wokuqala. Umculo ukuba athathe ngokulula, ngokuqhelekileyo ukhetha iikhosikidi, nangona abaninzi basebenzisa iindlela ezahlukeneyo zonyango lweengoma zeklasi. Ukuba umntu osandul 'ukutshata (okanye zombini) akwazi ukudansa i-waltz, oku kufuneka kwakhona kucatshangelwe kwangaphambili. Kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kufuneka uthathe izifundo ezimbalwa zomdaniso ukusuka kumfundisi oqeqeshiweyo. Umtshakazi akafanele akhohlwe ukuba uya kufuneka adlale, egqoke eengubo zokutshata, okulula ukudideka, okumele kuthathelwe ingqalelo xa eqeqeshwa, egqoke ngokufanelekileyo.
Ukuba izifundo zomdaniso womtshato azihambisani nezicwangciso zakho (okanye ufike ngaphesheya kwebhajethi yakho yonke), ukuze ufunde ukunyakaza okuphambili, unokusebenzisa izifundo zevidiyo ezahlukeneyo xa ufunda le nto okanye loo ndlela yokudanisa ekhaya.
Ukususela kumhla womtshato ngumhla obalulekileyo, inkumbulo endiyathanda ukuyishiya ixesha elide, ngoko ungesabi ukuzama nokuzisa umdaniso onobuhle kunye nokungaqhelekanga kwimiqulu, njengento yokuguqula nokuguquka kunye nenkxaso - mayeke abanye bafumane ithuba lokumangalisa nokunyamezela izakhono zenu, kodwa unomdla omkhulu kuyo, kusengumtshato, kungekhona umncintiswano womdaniso, akufanele usebenzise izinto ezinzima kakhulu.
Kungenzeka ukuba uza kuchitha ixesha elide ulungiselela umdaniso, kodwa konke oku kuya kuhlawula ngokukhawuleza, xa uya kujongana neendwendwe ezimenyiwe, uqhuba ngokugqibeleleyo umdaniso womtshato wakho.
Ukuba kwenzeka ukuba umntu osanda kutshata angazi ukunyuka kwe-waltz, kwaye akukho xesha okanye ithuba lokufunda, kunokwenzeka ukuba ukusebenzisa nayiphi enye umdaniso njengomdaniso wokuqala womtshato, ukuba umtshakazi nomyeni kuphela bayakwazi ukuyenza. Enyanisweni, umdaniso kufuneka ufanelwe kumtshakazi ngendlela yokuziphatha kunye nobuhle, ukuze abonise ngokupheleleyo konke abavakalelwa ngabanye.
Yiyiphi ingoma yokukhetha umdaniso womtshato wokuqala
Into ebalulekileyo kukuba ukhethe ingoma yomdaniso. Ingaba yinto yokwakhiwa oku kuthetha into ekutshatyalalisayo. Okanye, ngenxa yokufuna okunjalo, umntu unokukhetha ukhetho oluhle lwama-classical songs, oluye lwavakala iminyaka emininzi ngoku kwaye luthandwa ngabantu abaninzi bezizukulwana ezahlukeneyo. Emva koko, emininzi kwiminyaka kamva, abatsha abasanda kutshata baya kuthi, kunye nabazukulwana babo kunye nabantwana, bajonge kwiingqolowa zabo zomtshato, bekhumbula umdaniso wokuqala womtshato, kwaye ke kuya kuba unqweneleka ukuba ukubunjwa phantsi komdaniso owenziwe kuyathandwa yintsapho yabantu abasanda kutshata. Kungenzeka ukuba baya kufuna ukumkhetha umtshato wabo wokuqala womtshato!
Ngokwesiko, emva kwexesha elithile, ezinye iindwendwe zijoyina umdaniso wabatshatsha. Ngako oko, ingoma kufuneka ibe yinto ende kangangoko kunokwenzeka, ukwenzela ukuba kungekuphela nje ukuba abasanda kutshata banokudansa, kodwa kunye neendwendwe ezamenywa kumtshato.
Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ukuba kuyimfuneko ukuhlobisa kungekhona indawo apho umtshato uza kubanjwa khona, kodwa kunye nomdaniso wokuqala. Ukwenza oku, ngokuqhelekileyo usebenzisa i-confetti ekhanyayo, i-petals yama rose kunye njalo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, iindwendwe ezimenywe okanye abaququzeleli bembhiyozo banokunceda. Kufuneka uzame ukwenza umdaniso wokuqala womtshato ungalibaleki.