Umtshato uvame ukudibaniswa nefolk dolophu eneengubo ezimhlophe zomtshakazi, i-tuxedo yomyeni, isidlo somsindo, isikhalazo "somsindo" nomculo onamileyo. Yaye le imfihlelo yonke, apho imiphefumlo emibini ibe yinye. Yaye iya kuba yintoni ikamva leentsapho ezincinci ngokuxhomekeke kwiimpawu ezinyanisekileyo nezomnene eziya kuxelwa kubatshatshale namhlanje. Ukuvuyiswa kwangaphambili ngosuku lomtshato akusiyo kuphela isethi yamagama amahle, kodwa kunye nesigidimi esinamandla kwintsapho esanda kuyenza. Ubulumko obuvela kubazali, izalamane, abahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo banokudlala okanye badonsa, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu - iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nokunyaniseka ngexesha lokuncoma. Eyona nto imnandi yokuqala yincoma ngomtshato okulindele kuwe kwinqaku lethu lanamhlanje.
Ukuthokoza kwangaphambili ngosuku lomtshato kwabasanda kutshata kwindinyana
Ngokwahlukileyo, wawuhlala, Wahamba emanxwemeni ahlukeneyo, Wakuba wanikela le ntlanganiso kuwe. Kwaye namhlanje iinxalenye zeNsimbi zihlala ngonaphakade. Ufuna ukuhlala kwimpumelelo, Ukuqonda yonke iminyaka. Makhe, njengangaphambili, umfanekiso uhle kwaye uyathandeka. Makuye naziphi na iindlela kunye nemida Ukubamba rhoqo ekhaya.
Wena yintsapho ngoku, ngoko, akukho nondoda kwaye isondele. Yaye yonke imingeni oyidingayo ukunqoba kwakho iyonwabile. Umtshato wakho uyisipho esivela ngasentla, Yinyamekele esi sipho. Ukunceda kuya kukuvumela ukuba uthathe umlingo, intsapho yentsapho Ekuqondeni kuphila, Ngexesha lokuhlaziya. Yaye uthando nothando luya kubuyisela Injabulo kuwe igama elithi "Ewe"!
I-sweetest and most cherished Among the bonds of all union This is the one of which was signified by the Stamp of marriage. Ungenayo ngesibindi, Ungabi namahloni uze uqhubeke. Iziqhamo zihlukaniswe kunye, Enyanisekileyo - zonke ziqingatha. Kwaye ke naluphi na uvuyo olungakumbi kunakho. Kuphela kunye, kuphela kuphela-Ngaphambi kwakho, kwihashe.
I-Marsh yavakala namhlanje kwiofisi yeRejista, Ukulila ulonwabo bonke, Isibini sethu - imbono, Nangu bahlala bonke ubuqaqawuli bayo. Hlalani nenyuka ndiyathanda kuwe. Yaye ugcine umanyano omhle Ukususela ekuhlambalaleni, iintlungu, idrama. Zithande wena kuphela ukukunceda, Ukuba into ayikhule ndawonye. Ndikunqwenela wena lonwabo, bafana, ngoku, ndifuna ukuba konke kuzaliseke.
Ndiyakuvuyela ngomtshato wabasandul 'ukutshata abavela kumzali womtshakazi nomyeni ngomprose
Namhlanje, intombazana entle iya kungena endlwini yethu njengentombi yakhe. Siyabulela unyana wethu ngesi sipho esihle. Ngomhla womtshato wakho, bantwana abathandekayo, ndingathanda ukunqwenela ubuninzi behlabathi nobulumko. Iholide enomsindo iya kugqitywa, izambatho ezifihliweyo zifihliwe kwikheritethi, imihla ngemihla iya kuza. Gcina uthando lomtshato lwakho kwaye uluthwale ubomi. Akasoze avumela ukupholisa intsapho yakho. Kungakhathaliseki ukuba ukhathala kangakanani ekupheleni kosuku, fumana umzuzu wokuthetha ngokufudumele. Olu tshintsho lwolwazi kunye neemvakalelo ziya kukunika amandla kwaye luqinise imanyano yakho, yenza ube yinto enye. Funda ukunyamezela ubuthathaka bomnye nomnye, kungabikho ukungafumani ukugxininiswa kwesidima. Ngeke kube lula, kodwa kufuneka ufumane. Emva kwakho konke, umtshato wakho awugcini nje kwisitampu kwipasipoti yakho, ixhomekeke ngothando. Kwaye le ntliziyo akukho nto engenakwenzeka. Ndi nqwenela wena lonwabo, bantwana abathandekayo!
Ndiyakuvuyela, bantwana abathandekayo, sifuna ukuthetha ukuba indoda nomfazi bayimifanekiso. Umfazi - 0, umyeni - 1. Nokuba indlela ezi ziza kuluhlu ngayo, zincike kakhulu. Ukuba wena, intombi, njengomfazi oyisilumko ibe yindoda yakho, ngoko uphakamisa ukulinganiswa kwentsapho yakho ukuya kwi-10, kodwa ukuba uzama ukuhamba phambili, ke ngaphezu kweyunithi awukwazi ukuvuka. Ndifuna ukunqwenela ukuba ubulumko benkosikazi buhlala buzisa iingongoma ezongezelelweyo kwintsapho yakho, kunye nokunyamezela nokuqonda komyeni - ukondla kwaye umomeleze umtshato wakho. Ukuba zonke izikhwepha zakho zijoliswe ekuphuculeni iindlu zentsapho yakho, iya kukugcina ifudumele iminyaka emininzi. Thandanani yaye ninovuyo. Emva koko, uvuyo ngumkhwa, ukuba ufundisa wena ngokwakho, awuyi kusongelwa nayiphi na ubunzima. Ncedisa intsapho yakho uze ungalibali ukuzaliswa. Emva kwakho konke, abantwana bayona iprojekthi edibeneyo yomyeni nomfazi.
Imfutshane emfutshane imincoma ngomtshato kwivesi (ii-sms)
Ngomhla omuhle asiyi kululela ukudansa kuncinci, Kwaye okwesibini siza kumemeza kuwe: Unoyolo kwaye unomsindo!
Ndiye ndayichaza imoto - Uhlobo, ngoko ke umkhonto wakho, ndinqwenela usuku olumnandi.
Ngoku sele ube yintsapho enye. Ndikunqwenela ulonwabo, uthando kunye nabantwana.
Izityikityo zafuneka zihanjiswe, Unakho uxwebhu, Yintoni eyenzekayo namhlanje ebomini, ebalulekileyo, oh, umzuzu. Vumela umshicileli okhoyo namhlanje kwipasipoti. Baya kuzisa uvuyo olukhulu, Okokuphela kwesiqingatha.
Ndifuna ulonwabo kwintsapho, ukuzalisa, ukukhula ngobubanzi. Masibe nesigodlo esihle Sondeza isiqhamo sothando.
Umyeni, umfazi-akukho ntloni, Le yimiqathango yonyaka. Esi sihloko siyamnandi, Sinoko siya kuhlala senu.
Ulonwabe luya kuba lukhulu, Kuphela intsapho ikhula. Ukuhleka kwezingane, uthando kunye nokunyaniseka Kuya kuba nawe ngonaphakade.
Ndiyakuvuyela ngosuku oluhle, Makuqale ukuphakama. Zonke izithintelo ziya kushiya iintsapho zempi.
Ndifuna ukunincoma ngesibini esibalulekileyo. Inhlanhla nenjabulo - iyakulungele. Khawuthande kakhulu, xabisa rhoqo isizathu esibalulekileyo ngegama - intsapho.
Vumela izandla zibe nye, Iingcinga zakho neentliziyo zakho. Ndiyakuvuyela ngomtshato wenu, Kuphela kunye-ekupheleni.
Abantwana ziintyatyambo zobomi, Ngoku ndiya kunika amagama: Yenza ukulima kwakho, Nantsi umyalelo namhlanje.
Izimemo zokuqala kwimitshato kunye neprose khangela apha
Enyantywenkcoko kubancinci emtshatweni abazalwana kunye noodade abasebenzisa iprose
Nazi izibambiso ezimbalwa ngomtshato ngamagama akho. Akuyimfuneko ukufundisa yonke into ngelizwi. Unokuthabatha intsingiselo kwaye ubonise ukuba ufuna abantu abasanda kutshata ngolwimi lwakho.
Dadewethu othandekayo, sele usumfazi. Uhlala ungumhlobo wam obalaseleyo, kwaye namhlanje ndibe ngumhlobo othembekileyo omnye kunye kuphela naphakade. Kunzima ukuba ndivimbele iinyembezi zovuyo kunye nemvakalelo, ndijonge kule ngubo emhlophe yekhephu. Ndifuna ukuba ngumfazi osisilumko nonothando, inkxaso enyanisekileyo kumyeni wam kunye nomama omuhle kubantwana bakho. Kwaye umzalwana wam omtsha ufuna umnqweno nomonde. Emva koko, udadewethu unobumba. Ngoko unyamezelo kuwe luncedo. Ndiyakucela ukuba uyayixabise kwaye uyayixabise, kuba le nto iyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu esinayo kwaye namhlanje sisapho sonke siyinika yona. Kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, bafana, ninyamekele kwaye nithokolelane. Akukho mntu uza kwenza oku bhetele kunoko. Iingcebiso ozithandayo! Kubuhlungu!
Mntakwabo othandekayo, nantsi unzima kakhulu kwaye ubalulekile, kwi-suit chic. Kodwa kungekudala sasihamba singenazicathulo ezinqwelweni kwaye silwela amathoyizi. Namhlanje waba yinhloko yentsapho, wathwala uxanduva olukhulu, wathwala esi sihloko esifanelekileyo, ukhusele umfazi onikwe yona evela phezulu, uphelele intsapho yakho. Kwaye, dadewethu othandekayo, ndifuna ubulumko obunzulu bomoya kunye nomonde. Abini benu - ukuqonda, ukuncedisana, inkxaso kunye nothando. Kwangathi le mini ingaba ngumqalo wobomi obutsha kuwe. Oko kuya kuxhomekeka kuwe kuphela. Yiya ekuvumelaneni, thola ulungelelaniso, ungayifaki ngaphambi kokubunzima. Yenza konke ngokuthanda. Ndikunqwenela ulonwabo, izalamane zam.
Eyona nto ingcono yokutshata ngomtshato kwindinyana kwaye ngamazwi akho jonga apha
Emtshatweni, kukho amazwi amaninzi atshisayo abhekiswe kubasandul 'ukutshata. Abazali, amaNgqina, abazalwana kunye noodade, abahlobo - bonke bafuna ukutshala imali yabo kwiminqweno yokufudumala novelwano. Akunandaba naluphi uhlobo oluvuywayo lwenu lokuqala lomtshato: uya kufunda le ndinyana okanye uthethe ngamazwi akho, ukukhala okanye ukuhleka ngomsindo ovuyisayo, unokukwazi ukulungelelanisa indawo okanye ukucula ingoma ... Into eyona nto iyona nto iyinyanisekileyo kwaye ilungile. Hamba ngovuyo kwimitshato yabathandekayo bakho, uhlekise kwaye ujabule. Emva koko, i-aura yolonwabo nolonwabo iya kudluliselwa kwintsapho elutsha kwaye yenza ubomi babo buhle kwaye buhle.