Yithini imidwebo yabantwana?

Uhlalutyo lweempawu ezibonakalayo ezidalwe yintsana ziya kunceda ukuqonda kangcono ihlabathi lakhe elingaphakathi, xelela malunga nezinto ezithile zengqondo zomntwana, ukuthambekela kwakhe okanye ukunyamekela. Kodwa oku akuthethi nakuyo yonke into yokuba isayensi yokutolika incitshiswa kwiisethi zeengcebiso ezilula, apho unokukwazi ukulungisa ngokukhawuleza yonke imibuzo. Zoba wena, umculi!
Ukuvavanya kwengqondo yinto ebuncinane. Ingcamango yokuba kwimidwebo yomntu iprojekthi yakhe engqondweni, ukungquzulana kunye nokuphendula, kwasasazeka ekuqaleni kwekhulu lama-20. Ukususela ngoko, ezininzi iindlela eziye zaphuhliswa eziphumelelayo ekusebenzisaneni nabantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Nangona kunjalo, kukufanelekile ukukhumbula ukuba iimvavanyo zindlela zokuncedisa kuphela ekuhlalutheni iimpawu zobuqu. Ngaphezu koko, ezininzi izigqibo, ezihamba kwiincwadi zenzululwazi ukuya kwiincwadi ezithandwayo, zaqala ukona ngorhulumente wezobuhlanga kunye nolwahlulo. Ngoko ke, uhlalutyo lwengqondo lwezinto zobugcisa kufuneka luhlale luyimfanelo yolwazi lwezengqondo.

Ukunika umntwana ukuba azidwebe, indlu yakhe okanye intsapho yakhe, isazi seengqondo sikwazi ukubona iimpazamo ezithile. Ukudweba kusetshenziselwa ukuqeda i-pathologies. I-anatomy yengqondo yinto yokuba amaziko anoxanduva lokuphuhlisa intetho kunye nokudalwa kobugcisa banxibelelene.

Isalathisi se-Score - isisitye esincedisayo emsebenzini wengcali yeengqondo. Umfanekiso unolwazi, kodwa alukho ukuxilongwa.

Imibala: ngokufutshane malunga nesitshixo
Kukholelwa ukuba ngeminyaka engama-4-5, abantwana bayayiqonda imibala kakuhle ngokwaneleyo ukuba ukhetho alukhawulezi. I-gamma ye-hues ingabonisa isimo sengqondo. Amava afanelekileyo adluliselwa ngembala eqaqambileyo, kodwa engaphethiyo. Ngenxa yokunciphisa imizwelo, iintsimbi ezibandayo kunye nomnyama ziqala ukulawula. Ukudibanisa abamnyama kunye nomdaka obomvu kunye (obomvu) kaninzi uthetha ngesimo esichukumisayo sengqondo. Izibonakaliso ezibomvu ezingaphezulu kweempawu ezixakekileyo. Ezi ziyimimiselo yodwa. Kodwa, njengommiselo, abantwana abanqwenela ukukhetha uhlaza, umbala, umdaka. Imifanekiso echanekileyo kwimifanekiso emnyama ingabonakalisa isiganeko esibuhlungu.

Ukususela kwisenzo somntwana wengqondo
Esinye seziqendu eziqaqambileyo kumsebenzi wengqondo yengqondo ngumntwana wentombazana eneminyaka ezisixhenxe ubudala, phantse ihlala ikhulile emnyama nasemdaka. Nangona xa wayenemibala eqaqambileyo, le ntombazana yakwazi ukudibanisa ukuze imifanekiso engcolileyo nemnyama ibonakale kwiphepha. Le meko yatshintsha emva kokusebenza kunye nengcali yeengqondo: imifanekiso yomsana wolutsha waba mbala. Kwaye nenye ibali ukusuka kumkhwa: inkwenkwe ebonisa abantu kunye nezilwanyana kunye neendwangule kuphela kumnyama, zithathwa kwiingcali ezininzi. Akukho mntu ufumene i-pathology. Mhlawumbi abazali abaxhalabeleyo baya kuqhubeka bekhupha umntwana malunga neengqondo zeengqondo, ukuba omnye oogqirha abazange bacinge ngokucacileyo ukubuza umntwana ukuba kutheni usebenzisa ipeyinti emnyama kuphela. "Yona ndlela eyona ndlela ibhetele yokuyibona," watsho umfana oselula.

Intsapho yam: ngokufutshane malunga nesitshixo
Enye yezindlela ezithandwayo kakhulu ezinceda ukuvavanya indlela umntwana abona ngayo ubudlelwane bentsapho. Ukuba umntu osuka kwizihlobo kunye nezihlobo azibonakali ephepheni, oku kusenokuthetha ukuba umntwana uzama ukuphepha iimvakalelo ezimbi ezihambelana nalo mntu. Ubungakanani bamanani kubalulekile kwakhona: umkhulu umlingiswa odwetshiwe, kubaluleke kakhulu kubantwana. Ukubunjwa kubaluleke kakhulu. Ngokufanelekileyo, wonke umntu ubamba izandla - oku kukuphawu lokuphila kwengqondo. Kodwa ngokusondelene kakhulu kwisithuba esivaliweyo (umzekelo, kwisikhephe) unokuthi umntwana ufuna inkqubela yokusondeza intsapho, kuba ngokwenene imizamo enjalo ibonakala ngathi ayiyize.

Ukususela kwisenzo somntwana wengqondo
Ubudlelwane phakathi kwentsapho bekulungekho, kwaye uAlina wayazi kakuhle oku. Kodwa isigqibo somyeni wakhe sokufudukela kubazali bakhe sabonwa njengengcatshwa yonyana wakhe. Ngokuqinisekileyo, unokucacisa kumntwana ukuba umtshato uyachaphazela abazali bakhe, kodwa kwacaca: esi siganeko asiyi kudlula ngaphandle kwengqondo yengqondo yengane ... Ngaphandle kokufaka ingozi engumntwana ngemibuzo, u-Alina wabetha inqaku lezengqondo zabafundi waza wabuza unyana ukuba athathe umndeni wakhe. Kulo mfanekiso, umama wabonakala ("andinatye, mna," u-Alina wayethuthuzela, ekwazi isihluthulelo sokuvavanya), ngoko umntwana ngokwakhe ... kunye nefa elitsha. "Ubaba wayemnandi xa esesithombeni somhlaba wayeyithatha indawo yefenitshala ! "- Umhlobo wakhe wayenomsindo.

Isilwanyana esingekhoyo: ngokufutshane malunga nesitshixo
Olu luvavanyo olujoliswe ekuhlalutheni iimpawu zobuntu. Kunengqiqo ukuphendulela unomdla kubantu abanomdla, kuba izikhombisi ezininzi ziphawulekayo: indawo yomfanekiso kwiphepha, umxholo jikelele, uhlobo lweenkcukacha, igama lezilwanyana kunye nenkcazelo yalo. Ngoko, inani elikhulu lezinto liqinisekisa ubungqina bokuphuhlisa. Inxalenye ye-semantic ephakathi yesibalo yintloko. Ukujika kwayo ngakwesokudla kukubonakaliswa kwenjongo, ngakwesobunxele-umphuphi. Iintloko ezimbini kunye nezinye - ubungqina beengxabano zangaphakathi. Ubuninzi beempondo, izihlunu kunye nameva zibonisa ngokucacileyo isikhundla somlobi. Yaye ukuba isilwanyana sininzi isangqa, oku kubonisa ukuthambekela kokunyaniseka, kuquka ukungafuni ukuvavanywa. Ulwazi lwesitshixo ekuvanyelweni ngu-draftsman aluchaphazeli kakhulu umphumo. Oku kubonisa ngokugqithiseleyo ukuzama ukuhleka ihlaya lakhe le-psychoanalyst, ezama ukuchaza zonke iingxaki ezikhoyo kwi-psyche. Zama. Ngokuqinisekileyo isiphumo asiyi kuba yinto eyoyikisayo njengoko ucinga ngayo. Ingqondo engqondweni ayikwazi ukukhohliswa!

Ukususela kwisenzo somntwana wengqondo
"Ngendlela, ibhabhathane elihle kakhulu libukeka, libukeka njengeqhwa! Kwaye ngenxa yoko bathetha intombazana yam isana! Ubunokuboni ukuba uluphi uhlobo lwezilwanyana ezinye i-ponakisovali! "- Umhlobo onomsindo emva kokudibana neengqondo zengqondo. Unqwenela ukuphikisa iziphumo, ufumene isitshixo kuvavanyo "Iilwanyana ezingenakusetyenziswa" kwaye ... ngokugqithiseleyo kuthathelwa ubuchule.

Ngokomzekelo okanye ngokuphefumulelwa?
Umdlalo wokuqala wokunceda abantwana udla umbala. Ukusebenzisana neepatheni zethemplate, umntwana ufunda ukuqonda nokudibanisa imibala. Kodwa ukuba abazali bazama ukuphuhlisa ubuchule babo bokudala beendlalifa zabo - kufuneka baqale ukuqala inkqubo yabo, bavuselele abantwana ukuba babe nobuchule bokwenza izinto.

Umjikelezo welanga ... ii-dinosaurs ezungeze
Ukususela kumzobo womntwana kunye nokunyuka kwamaphonkco? Umsebenzi oyintloko kukuba uhlukanise ngokwawo! Kubalulekile ukungadibanisi ukukhathazeka kwabazali, okuphefumlelweyo ngokuchazwa kakuhle, ngeengxaki zangempela. Ekhangela umgca ococekileyo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula oku kulandelayo. Amanqaku adumile anika nje ingcamango engaphezulu yendlela yokwenza izinto. Ngaphandle kwemfundo kunye namava afanelekileyo, kulula kakhulu ukuphosakela ekuchazeni, ngaphandle koko, umfanekiso ubonisa isimo sengqondo somzuzwana womculi. Kodwa ngumntwana ovuyayo kakhulu othomayo!