Abantu abaninzi bayazi ukuba umntwana kufuneka anqunywe, agxininiswe kwaye amthande. Ewe, akukho nolwazi kwimeko, abaninzi bafuna ukuhlala bebonisa uthando lwabo ngalesi simangaliso. Umama ufune ukuchitha ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka kunye nosana wakhe, ube mnene kunye nomthandane naye. Yaye yenza ngaphandle kokungabaza, ukuchaphazela umntwana akusiyo nje into emnandi, kodwa kuzisa neenzuzo ezibonakalayo kwi-ingqondo yakhe nempilo.
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Yintoni eyenziwa ngumama? Umncinci usekwe kwisisu somama, avunyelwe ukuba amanga isifuba sam. Ukunyamekela umntwana ngoncedo lokuthintela kukuvumela ukuba uzive uthanda nothando lwakho. Umama uthinta kwaye ukhangela emehlweni omntwana wakhe, ezama ukuyijonga ngokufanelekileyo, ukumbumbana kunye nokubetha. Ngolwimi lwesayensi, oku kubizwa ngokuba yi-bonding. Ngengqondo yomntwana kukho inqubo yokuthatha umfanekiso womama, umntwana ukhumbule indlela ebukeka ngayo, indlela ecofa ngayo, kwaye ebaluleke kakhulu - iyaqonda ukuba emva kokuzalwa kwengcinezelo yokuzalwa akukho namnye owamshiya, ecaleni loMama, kwaye yonke into iya kuhamba naye. Kwenzeka ntoni kumama? Unxibelelwano oluqinileyo lwengqondo lubekwa phakathi kwalo nomntwana. Ingqondo yomfazi ithola isalathisi "ukuqala" ukuncelisa, isilumko sesibeleko siqala ukusebenza. Kwaye enye ingongoma ebalulekileyo: umntwana uzalwe ngumzimba ongenakunyumba, xa umama ethintela okokuqala ngqa, unika yona kunye neebhaktheriya ezincedo.
Yintoni eyenziwa ngumama? Uhlamba, utshintshe iimpahla, utyisa, wenza i-gymnastics ngeemvuthu, ahlamba, ahlabelela i-lullaby ... Nsuku zonke uMama wenza iintshukumo ezifanayo ukunyamekela umntwana. Ngolwimi lwesayensi, iinyanga ezintathu zokuqala zobomi bomntwana emva kokuzalwa zibizwa ngokuba yi-trimester yesine, kwaye ixesha elide ngaphambi kokuzalwa kokuqala komntwana lixesha apho umntwana efuna ukunakekelwa kunye nokuthanda. Ubuntwana bomntu buzelwe emhlabeni jikelele kwaye akukho mama ongeke aphile. Kwaye ekubeni ukuva kunye nombono wengane kusengasakhuselekanga, umzimba ochanekileyo kunye onokuthenjelwa wokufumana ulwazi ... ulusu. Umntwana uthatha impembelelo ekuthinteni umzimba wakhe, ukuba unothando kwaye unomdla - umntwana ufunda: bayandithanda, konke kulungile. Ukuthinteka okunzima, njengokungabikho kwabo ngokupheleleyo, bakala, bathetha ngokuchasene kwaye bangathinteli kuphela ngengqondo yomntwana, kodwa kunye nesimo sakhe somzimba - kuze kube yilapho ehlaselwa ekuphuculweni kwengqondo. Ukunyamekela umntwana ngoncedo lokuthintela kwenza umntwana abe nomuva wokukhuselwa.
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Yintoni eyenziwa ngumama? Ukuhlawula. Kuhamba kunye nomoya onobubele okhupha phezu komntwana, enakekela umntwana ngoncedo lokuthintela, okwenza amomotheka. Ngolwimi lwesayensi, ukuncelisa i-panacea yezifo ezininzi. Unceda umntwana ukuba afunde ngokukhawuleza ngomzimba wakhe. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba oko kuthethwa ngokuba ngumsebenzi wezakhono ezifanelekileyo (ukuxutywa kweminwe yemilenze emincinci kunye nokuphatha) kufakwe kwi-massage. Xa umama ehlalisa iminwe yomntwana, iiseliti zesisombululo zinikezelwa uphawu kwinxalenye yengqondo ejongene nophuhliso lwentetho yomntwana.
Kubalulekile kwaye kuyimfuneko
Xa kuza kumntwana umntwana, yonke into encinci ibalulekile. Kuba imvuthu ene-hypersensitivity-yonke into ibaluleke ngokulinganayo. Ngaba ndifuna ukuba umntwana angayi kuziva iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo ngenxa yokuba bembethe? Nika ukhetho kwimikhiqizo esemgangathweni. Ayikho into enokuyilungisa, kungcono ukugcina kwenye into, kodwa "uluhlu lokuqala" - oluchaphazela isikhumba somntwana - lufanele lube luhle: lube lula kumgca, uvumele umoya ungangeni, ungabinqande ukunyakaza, okungabangela inkathazo ngenxa yobunzima kunye neenwele, ukunika isikhumba sethemba ingqondo yokuhlanzeka nokuma ...