Ukususela emkhatsini wonyaka uqala ixesha elimnandi kakhulu kubomi bentsana kwaye, ewe, ebomini babazali bakhe, njengoko umntwana eqala ukukuxelisa kunye nokuziphatha kwakho. Ngokwemvelo, akakwazi ukukopisha ngokupheleleyo abantu abadala, kodwa ezininzi zezenzo zakho: nokuba ngamazwi okanye ukunyakaza, uhlala kwizinga elincinci. Uza kuqaphela ukuba isahluko sakho esincinane siza kuzama ukuphinda senze iinqununu zezivakalisi kunye nezandi ezivelayo kuwe kwaye kumnandi ukukopisha ukuhamba okubonwayo. Kulo nyaka, abantwana - njengentonga, bathabatha yonke into abayibonayo kwaye bayayiva, ngoko ungabonisi umntwana kwimifanekiso yentsapho, ukuxhatshazwa kunye neentlanzi, kuba uya kukhumbula konke oku, kwaye konke oku kungenako impembelelo enhle kwi-psyche ephosakeleyo yengane yayineenyanga ezintandathu ubudala. Nika umntwana wakho ukuhleka, ukuzonwabisa kunye nolonwabo loqhagamshelwano-le yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yemfundo.
Emva koko, ukusuka kwiinyanga ezintandathu, yintoni umntwana onokuyenza? Kulungile, ukuphuhlisa, ukuphuhliswa nokuphuhliswa kwakhona, ngelixa ugxile kubazali bakho abathandekayo. Ngoko ke, umsebenzi wakho ukubonelela umntwana ngokunyamekela kakuhle kunye nomoya ococekileyo wendawo, ummandla wothando nokunyamekela - kwaye uya kwangoko uqaphela ukuba umntwana uya kuqala ukugcoba kuwe!
Enye yezinto ezithandwa kakhulu ngabazali abancinci, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukubukela indlela ilala ngayo isithunywa sazo, kuba ephupheni iintsana zikhula, ngoko ke iphupha lomntwana liyingcwele. Kodwa asifuni ukubeka ingqwalasela kule ndawo ebalulekileyo, kodwa ukuba abanye abantwana banomlomo ebuthongweni babo. Izizathu zingaba zibini: umntwana ubanjwe kubanda kwaye une-spout okanye umntwana eneengxaki nge-adenoids. Kwaye kwimeko yokuqala neyesibini, kufuneka usebenze ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba labantwana.
Ngokutya komntana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubisi okanye ubisi umfomfom odlayo, kufuneka kubekho inani elaneleyo le-phosphorus kunye ne-calcium, ekubeni ezi zinto zizona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu zokwakha amathambo namazinyo. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba i-vitamin A, i-C, iD, kunye ne-D vithamini zihlala zikhona kwisondlo sesana emva kweenyanga ezintandathu ukuya phezulu, njengokuba le vithamini inceda ukuguqula i-calcium, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, inceda ukukhulisa amathambo. I-Vitamin D iveliswa ngokwaneleyo kwesikhumba somntu ngexesha lokuhlamba kwelanga. Nangona kunjalo, naluphi na umzekelo, musa ukuthatha umntwana ngaphandle kwesitalato, ukuba i-thermometer ibonisa ukushisa ngaphezulu kwama-degrees angama-30 - le ilanga eliyingozi kakhulu, elitshisa ilusu elincinci lomntwana.
Kucinga ngokucokisekileyo ukubunjwa kwengqondo yengane. Ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho akaphumli kwaye uyakhathazeka, ungaligxina imozulu okanye nayiphi na into. Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhangele isizathu sakho-mhlawumbi uzivumela kakhulu phambi kobantwana? Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, umntwana kufuneka akhuselwe ekumemeni kunye neentsapho zengxabano. Musa nje ukumema iinkampani zasekhaya ezinomsindo okanye uhambe nomntwana kumntu kwiholide ezininzi. Emva koko, umntwana usetyenziselwa imeko yendlu yakhe, apho eyaziwayo kwaye akayikwesaba nantoni na, kodwa ekutyekeleni konke into echasene nayo: ingxolo, ukuhleka kunye nomculo uyacaphukisa kwaye iyothushe i-crumb yakho, uyakhala ngokukhawuleza, ufuna ukuya ekhaya. Into efanelekileyo kukuba uchithe ngokuhlwa kwintsapho, udlala nomntwana - kwaye i-psyche yakhe iya kuba namandla.
Kwiinyanga ezintandathu, abantwana bahamba kakhulu kwaye ngokuhlwa bakhathele kakhulu. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiinyanga ezintandathu ubudala, abantwana abasayi kuvuswa ebusuku - ukukhathala kubonakala. Ngaphandle koko, badla kakuhle ngaphambi kokulala. Kodwa kwenzeka nokuba umntwana uyavuka wedwa, okanye amaxesha amaninzi ebusuku. Kule meko, bazali abancinci, yiba nesineke ukuba ningafungi, musa ukumemeza umntwana. Emva koko, inyane livukile, akayiqondi into eyenzekayo. Mbeke ngobumnene ukulala, ucule ingoma yakhe oyintandokazi okanye unike i-pacifier - kuxhomekeke kwinto enokunyanzela umntwana wakho. Khumbula ukuba, ukuphepha ukuvalelwa kwemizwa kunoma naliphi na ithuba, uya kunceda umntwana akhule ngohlobo olomeleleyo nolungqiqweni.