Iinyanga ezintandathu: yintoni umntwana onokuyenza?

Ingane yakho ikhula ngokukhawuleza! Awunaso ixesha lokujonga emva - kwaye uneenyanga ezintandathu: "Yintoni enokuyenza ukuba umntwana akwazi ukwenza kule minyaka?" - uyazibuza. Siza kuzama ukuphendula lo mbuzo njengoko kucacisiwe ngokunokwenzeka.

Ukususela emkhatsini wonyaka uqala ixesha elimnandi kakhulu kubomi bentsana kwaye, ewe, ebomini babazali bakhe, njengoko umntwana eqala ukukuxelisa kunye nokuziphatha kwakho. Ngokwemvelo, akakwazi ukukopisha ngokupheleleyo abantu abadala, kodwa ezininzi zezenzo zakho: nokuba ngamazwi okanye ukunyakaza, uhlala kwizinga elincinci. Uza kuqaphela ukuba isahluko sakho esincinane siza kuzama ukuphinda senze iinqununu zezivakalisi kunye nezandi ezivelayo kuwe kwaye kumnandi ukukopisha ukuhamba okubonwayo. Kulo nyaka, abantwana - njengentonga, bathabatha yonke into abayibonayo kwaye bayayiva, ngoko ungabonisi umntwana kwimifanekiso yentsapho, ukuxhatshazwa kunye neentlanzi, kuba uya kukhumbula konke oku, kwaye konke oku kungenako impembelelo enhle kwi-psyche ephosakeleyo yengane yayineenyanga ezintandathu ubudala. Nika umntwana wakho ukuhleka, ukuzonwabisa kunye nolonwabo loqhagamshelwano-le yindlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yemfundo.

Emva koko, ukusuka kwiinyanga ezintandathu, yintoni umntwana onokuyenza? Kulungile, ukuphuhlisa, ukuphuhliswa nokuphuhliswa kwakhona, ngelixa ugxile kubazali bakho abathandekayo. Ngoko ke, umsebenzi wakho ukubonelela umntwana ngokunyamekela kakuhle kunye nomoya ococekileyo wendawo, ummandla wothando nokunyamekela - kwaye uya kwangoko uqaphela ukuba umntwana uya kuqala ukugcoba kuwe!

Enye yezinto ezithandwa kakhulu ngabazali abancinci, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukubukela indlela ilala ngayo isithunywa sazo, kuba ephupheni iintsana zikhula, ngoko ke iphupha lomntwana liyingcwele. Kodwa asifuni ukubeka ingqwalasela kule ndawo ebalulekileyo, kodwa ukuba abanye abantwana banomlomo ebuthongweni babo. Izizathu zingaba zibini: umntwana ubanjwe kubanda kwaye une-spout okanye umntwana eneengxaki nge-adenoids. Kwaye kwimeko yokuqala neyesibini, kufuneka usebenze ngokukhawuleza kwinqanaba labantwana.

Phantse kwiinyanga ezintandathu, amazinyo okuqala anqunyulwa ukusuka kumancinci, ngokuphindaphindiweyo ama-incisors amabini emhlathini osezantsi. Ngokuqinisekileyo, bonke abantwana bahluke ngokupheleleyo, yingakho umntu unokufumana amazinyo akhe okuqala ngaphambili, kunye nomntu emva kwexesha, kodwa bavumele abazali ukuba bangakhathazeki ngale ngxaki. Emva koko, ndiphinda, bonke abantwana bahluke kwaye isakhiwo semisipha yabo sihluke. Amazinyo omntu atyalwe ngaphaya komngcambu wegum, ngoko aphuma kusasa, kunye nomntu-ojulile kwi-gum, kwaye amazinyo aya kubonakala kamva. Kodwa xa kufika umzuzu, xa onke amazinyo abonakala kuwe, zibale - ziya kuba zimashumi mabini. Kwaye apha ukunakekelwa kwamazinyo kuqala ngokukhawuleza, amazinyo amazinyo abuthakathaka kakhulu, kodwa ngeenzame zabazali bawo kufuneka asebenze umntwana ukuya kwiiklasi eziphambili. Kule nto uza kunceda ukutya okunokulinganisela kunye nokusetyenziswa kwamavithamini abantwana kunye ne-calcium, ukutyelela rhoqo kwizinyango zamazinyo. Amazinyo akhoyo, oko kukuthi, "umthonyama", uya kuqala ukuvela kumntwana wakho kwindawo ethile kwixesha elivela kwiminyaka emithandathu ukuya kweyisixhenxe.

Ngokutya komntana, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ubisi okanye ubisi umfomfom odlayo, kufuneka kubekho inani elaneleyo le-phosphorus kunye ne-calcium, ekubeni ezi zinto zizona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu zokwakha amathambo namazinyo. Kwakhona, qiniseka ukuba i-vitamin A, i-C, iD, kunye ne-D vithamini zihlala zikhona kwisondlo sesana emva kweenyanga ezintandathu ukuya phezulu, njengokuba le vithamini inceda ukuguqula i-calcium, kwaye, ngokufanelekileyo, inceda ukukhulisa amathambo. I-Vitamin D iveliswa ngokwaneleyo kwesikhumba somntu ngexesha lokuhlamba kwelanga. Nangona kunjalo, naluphi na umzekelo, musa ukuthatha umntwana ngaphandle kwesitalato, ukuba i-thermometer ibonisa ukushisa ngaphezulu kwama-degrees angama-30 - le ilanga eliyingozi kakhulu, elitshisa ilusu elincinci lomntwana.

Yaye yintoni umntwazana ayenzayo xa eneminyaka emncinci? Ingxenye yonyaka, abaninzi abantwana sele bezama ukuhlalisa. Kwaye nabazali abaninzi benza ngokukhawuleza iphutha elikhulu: baqala umntwana rhoqo kwaye ixesha elide. Khumbula, bazali abancinci - oku akunjalo, oku kwenza kube nzima kakhulu. Iimvavanyo zokuqala zomsana zokuhlala phantsi zibonisa ukuba umzimba ulungele ukufunda ukuhlala, kwaye ungayazi ukuba ungakwenza njani. Kule nqanaba, into efanelekileyo yinto yokusebenza emncinci. Xa ubona ukuba umntwana wakho ufuna ukuvuka, umnike ngomunwe, makamthathe aze azame ukuhlala phantsi nale nkxaso. Kodwa, kwakhona, ungamfaki umntwana ixesha elide, okokuqala, ngomzuzu omnye kuya kukwanela. Oku kufuneka kuncedise ukuhlakulela izihlunu zakhe, kwaye ukuba angadli umlenze.

Kucinga ngokucokisekileyo ukubunjwa kwengqondo yengane. Ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntwana wakho akaphumli kwaye uyakhathazeka, ungaligxina imozulu okanye nayiphi na into. Okokuqala, kufuneka ukhangele isizathu sakho-mhlawumbi uzivumela kakhulu phambi kobantwana? Ukuthintela oku kungenzeki, umntwana kufuneka akhuselwe ekumemeni kunye neentsapho zengxabano. Musa nje ukumema iinkampani zasekhaya ezinomsindo okanye uhambe nomntwana kumntu kwiholide ezininzi. Emva koko, umntwana usetyenziselwa imeko yendlu yakhe, apho eyaziwayo kwaye akayikwesaba nantoni na, kodwa ekutyekeleni konke into echasene nayo: ingxolo, ukuhleka kunye nomculo uyacaphukisa kwaye iyothushe i-crumb yakho, uyakhala ngokukhawuleza, ufuna ukuya ekhaya. Into efanelekileyo kukuba uchithe ngokuhlwa kwintsapho, udlala nomntwana - kwaye i-psyche yakhe iya kuba namandla.

Kwiinyanga ezintandathu, abantwana bahamba kakhulu kwaye ngokuhlwa bakhathele kakhulu. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo kwiinyanga ezintandathu ubudala, abantwana abasayi kuvuswa ebusuku - ukukhathala kubonakala. Ngaphandle koko, badla kakuhle ngaphambi kokulala. Kodwa kwenzeka nokuba umntwana uyavuka wedwa, okanye amaxesha amaninzi ebusuku. Kule meko, bazali abancinci, yiba nesineke ukuba ningafungi, musa ukumemeza umntwana. Emva koko, inyane livukile, akayiqondi into eyenzekayo. Mbeke ngobumnene ukulala, ucule ingoma yakhe oyintandokazi okanye unike i-pacifier - kuxhomekeke kwinto enokunyanzela umntwana wakho. Khumbula ukuba, ukuphepha ukuvalelwa kwemizwa kunoma naliphi na ithuba, uya kunceda umntwana akhule ngohlobo olomeleleyo nolungqiqweni.