Ukuba umntwana wakho ...

Ukulibala malunga nobunzima obuphantsi, musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba azive ephakamileyo. Ngexesha elifanayo, xa uthetha nomntwana wakho, khawugubungele amehlo akho, ukhethe impumlo yakho, i-drool. Ukuba umntwana wakho unobungozi, vala indlebe zakho. Oku kuya kusindisa okwethutyana kuyo. Ukuba uqaphela ukuba umntwana wakho uba imali, musa ukuqala ukumemeza kuye, ukuze ungalimazi i-psyche. Zama ngayo yonke intsapho ukuba idlale umdlalo kwaye njengokungathi ukhululekile ukuqhuba uphando kwigumbi lakhe. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda ngokupheleleyo umntwana kwaye ufunde ukucinga nokuziva ngathi nje. Ukuqonda umfanekiso womntwana, zama ukuzisebenzisa. Suthuma ugwayi ngasese okanye utyhoboze ifestile kwi-slingshot. Izizathu zokuba umntwana wakho engayiphulaphuli kakhulu. Mhlawumbi unendlebe embi okanye ungathethi kuye, mhlawumbi akayiqondi into ofuna ukuyithetha kuyo, okanye wena ngokwakho awunakuqonda into oyithethayo kuye. Unokumbetha papa kwaye ukuba unanto ongayithetha kuye, mxelele ukuba ahlambe ubuso bakhe.

Ukuba umntwana uyakhala ixesha elide kwaye akanako ukuzola, nasi isiluleko sethu, musa ukumgxeka, ungamxabanga, kwaye uyancipha. Ngoko ukuba umntwana wakho akaze afike kwi-jam jar, uyifake kwisitshixo uze ufihla isitshixo kwindawo efanelekileyo. Musa ukuphakamisa isandla sakho kumntwana wakho. Ukuba umntwana ubeke ingqungquthela engathandekiyo, isijeziso esilungileyo kuye siya kuba yikona.

Ukuba umntwana wakho unesandla esibhaliweyo sokubhala ngesandla, lungela, uya kuba ugqirha. Ukuba ufuna umntwana wakho ukuva, khuluma nabantu ngokuthula. Ukuba umntwana ukhubekile nonke, uthenge itrombone. Unetalente. Ukuba umntwana akafuni ukuyidla, usasazelele isidlo sakho somntwana esilungiselelwe nguwe kwaye uvumele umntwana angene apho. Umntwana uya kuqala ukuphakamisa yonke i-muck ukusuka phantsi aze aqale ukuyithatha emlonyeni wakhe. Ingane yakho iya kuzaliswa, kwaye akuyi ku funeka uhlambe iiplate.

Ukuba umntwana uzisa ababini esikolweni, susa ibhande kwaye unqande u titshala. Ukuba umntwana ucela ibhayisekile, ungayinqali kwaye uyithenge. Emva kwakho konke, umntwana wakho ukhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye ibhayisikili iya kufika kuwe. Ukuba ufumanisa ukuba umntwana uyabhema, musa ukukhawuleza ukuba umjezise. Ngokukhawuleza umntwana wakho ungaphezu kwama-20.

Indlela efanelekileyo yokulungiselela umntwana ukulala. Thatha umntwana kwaye uhlambe ngokupheleleyo udoti kumanzi afudumele. Gquba umzimba omzimba ococekileyo kwiipajama zakho uze ucofe ngokucokisekileyo kwisifuba sakho. Gubha ngokukhawuleza imizuzu emihlanu. Emva kokuba utshele ibali ngamazinyo uze ulibeke ekulaleni.