Vuka kusasa. Mhlawumbi, lo mgaqo uya kwenza "amaqhwa" adabuke, kodwa ukuphumelela kwalo oku kuyancipha. Ekuseni - ixesha lokuphazamiseka: abaninzi bethu banamathele emibhedeni eminye imizuzu, baze baqoke ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuxhalaba. Yingakho iingqondo zeengqondo zincoma ukuba zitshintshe umzuzu ovuzayo 15-20 imizuzu ngaphambi kwexesha eliqhelekileyo: unokuhlamba kunye nokutya kwasekuseni ngaphandle kokukrokra, ufumene intlawulo ye-vivacity yonke imini.
Funda ukwenza uluhlu uze wenze abahlobo kunye nomququzeleli. Lo mkhwa unceda kakhulu ukulungelelanisa inkqubo yemihla ngemihla - oko kuthetha ukuba awuyi kukulibala malunga nefowuni efanelekileyo okanye intlanganiso ehleliweyo. Ukongezelela, unokwenza ngokuthe ngcembe inqwaba yamatyala, "uxhoma": ngokwenene ucwangcise ukudibanisa i-closet ixesha elide, ubeke izinto kwi-mezzanine, ufunde incwadi eyathengiweyo kwinyanga ezimbalwa ezedlulileyo? Ngoku yonke into isezandleni zakho!
Njalo qalisa ngokubaluleke kakhulu. Musa ukushiya "kamva" kwaye ungagxothi umsebenzi oyintloko okanye umsebenzi onoxanduva ekupheleni kosuku, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ufuna kangakanani. Iziganeko ezinzulu, ixesha elide okanye ezingamnandi zithatha amandla amaninzi kunye namandla, okungafanelekanga ukuba athathwe. Xa unokwenza - ungakhohlwa ukukholisa ngokwakho ngokumangalisayo: into epholileyo, indebe yekhofi ecolileyo, ukuhamba emoyeni omtsha.
Funda ukuthi "ewe" kwaye "cha" ngokuchanekileyo. Sivame ukuvumelana nento esingayidingiyo, ngenxa yokwesaba ukungaqondi, ukucaphuka, ukuchitha iiyure kwiiprojekthi ezingenanto, abantu abangathandekiyo, ukufuna izinto ezibuhlungu. Njengomphumo - ixesha lakho kunye nabathandekayo bakho abasweleyo. Shintsha iziguquko: ngokuphindaphindiweyo uthi "cha" kwizinto ezingabalulekanga, ngaphezulu amathuba okufuneka uphendule "ewe" kuwe.