Ngomntwana, amathoyizi ayindlela nje yokwandisa ihlabathi, kodwa nokuhlakulela ingqondo yengane ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kuba omncinci - lo phuhliso lombono kunye nokuva, ukuba abantwana bancinci, banokuveliswa kwintlungu kunye nezakhono ezifanelekileyo zezithuthi.
Kodwa inyaniso kukuba awukwazi ukukhawulela enye i-rattle, abantwana banokulahlekelwa ngumdla kuyo ngokukhawuleza kwaye akusayi kubakho nantoni na entsha kwizinto zokudlala. Amathoyizi aphuhlisayo axabisa kakhulu kwaye akubona bonke abazali abanokukwazi ukuzithenga ngokuqhelekileyo. Kwaye ke abantwana abancinci kunye nabadala bacinga ngombuzo wokuba benze iityshini zemfundo zabantwana ngezandla zabo, ukwenzela ukuba umntwana ahlale ekhululekile kwaye ehlelekile ukudlala?
Enyanisweni, ukwenza amathoyizi "ekhaya" akunzima kakhulu, makangabi ngabahle kwaye baqaqambile njengevenkile, kodwa abazali banokuziguqula ubuncinane kathathu ngosuku baze bahlangule umntwana. Kwaye ukuguqulwa kwamathoyizi kunye nokwabo okwenziwa ngamathoyizi, kuya kumvumela umntwana ukuba wandise ii-horizons zakhe aze enze umfanekiso opheleleyo wehlabathi, ophinde uphinde uthintele ngakumbi ukuphuhliswa kwawo.
Into yokuqala yokudlala yintsana kwaye eyona nto elula ukuyilungisa. Abazali banokudala iziqwenga ezimangalisayo zekhadibhodi kunye neetye. Ukwenza amathoyizi ezemfundo ngezandla zakho, ezizenzekelayo, kufuneka uthabathe imifanekiso, wenze amathole amancinci kuwo, okufuneka usebenze ngentambo eqinile. Emva koko, kwicala elinye le-tube, ukuba unamathele okanye uvale nayiphi na into kwaye uyigcwalise nayiphi na i-groats, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuba izityalo ezahlukeneyo zivelisa izandi zazo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ityhubhu iyavalwa. Kwavela ikratshi elikhulu. Ukuba uthatha amakhadibhodi enemibala, iikopi ezenziwe ngawe ziza kukhanya, okuqinisekileyo ukukholisa umntwana.
Kulula kakhulu ukwenza kunye nokuhamba ngomntwana. Imfono yinto yokudlala eye yanyanyiswa ngaphezu kwesibhedlele somntwana. Ukwenza iselula ngezandla zakho, kufuneka uthabathe ucingo uze wenze isakhelo kuso, kwaye uxhomeke kuyo ngeengcongolo ezincinci ezinqunywe kwiikhadididi ezinemibala eyahlukeneyo enokutshintshwa ngokukhawuleza. Ngokuncediswa kweso sixhobo esilula, umntwana unokufunda imibala kunye namanani ukususela ebusaneni.
Ngendlela, unokwenza iselula ngezandla zakho, ungasebenzisa i-hanger yengubo elula, unako ukuxhoma amanani amahle kuwo kwaye iselula ikulungele.
Ukuba uhlamba iintambo eziluhlaza kunye neefowuni ezinkulu kubo, uya kufumana umntwana okhulayo. Into eyona nto kukuba amaqhosha ahlanjululwe ngokuqinisekileyo kwaye umntwana akakwazi ukuwaqhawula.
Kwiibhotile ezincinci unako ukugalela i-grains, kwaye ufumane ukulungelelanisa kakhulu umntwana, kuya kuvakala kuxhomekeke kukuphi uhlobo lwe-croup kunye nokuba kuthunyelwa kangakanani kwi-vial.
Into ebaluleke kakhulu kukubonisa iingcamango kwaye ke, iikopi ezenziwe ngezandla zaso ziya kuba ngumntwana okhulayo, othandwayo kwaye ongenakukuhlaselwa. Bathi ngoku yonke into ingathengwa, kodwa awukwazi ukuthenga kuphela, kodwa yenza konke onakho. Ukungabi nemali kwintsapho akufanele kuthinte kakubi kumntwana, ngoko ke, abazali kufuneka babonise ubulumko kunye nengcamango yokwenza umntwana wabo amathoyizi amnandi kunye anamnandi. Ngokuncedwa nguye uza kuphuhlisa kwaye akhule aphile kwaye aphile.