Ukunyamekela ekuphuhlisweni kwangaphambili kuye kwaxhaswa. Abo babengafuni ngokumelene naye, bayeka ukugxininisa kule nto. Kwaye abo babambelela ngentshiseko nomntwana ngeendlela zokuphuhliswa kweengcaphephe zokuqala, bazincipha baze batyebe ixabiso.
Yonke into yokuba ifashishini yokuphuhliswa kwexesha elidlulileyo idlulile, kwaye iingxoxo malunga nokulimala kwazo ziqaliswa ngabaphathi beengqondo rhoqo. Yithi, uluntu lwethu alulungele abantwana abancinci, kunye nebhokhwe, eyenziwa yiminyaka, xa siya esikolweni, sijamelana neengxaki ezininzi: ukuxhalabisa kwizifundo, ubunzima bokulungelelanisa kunye nobunzima bokuthintana noontanga. Uyenza ntoni na? Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuyeka ukuhlakulela umntwana nonke? Akunjalo. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula imithetho ephambili: okokuqala, awukwazi ukubeka uphuhliso lwangaphambili ngaphezu kwayo yonke into-ukuphuhliswa kweemoto, iimvakalelo.
Okwesibini , nayiphi na indlela kufuneka ilungiswe kumntwana wakho, egxininise kwiminqweno, amathuba kunye nantoni yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntwana omncinci. Musa ukulibala ukuba umntwana wakho udinga uthando lwabazali bakhe ngaphezu kwanoma yini enye. Kwaye emva koko - i-alfabhethi, ulwazi lweelwimi kunye nemathematika ... Ngokuqinisekileyo, malunga nophuhliso lweengcaphephe luya kuthatha ingqalelo kwimeko efanelekileyo eyenziwe, okufanelekile ukuba sicinge ngamama kunye nabagadi. Indawo enjalo kuthiwa izondlo (ixhasa umsebenzi wengqondo yomntwana) kwaye iqukethe izinto ezilula.
Ukuhlambalaza - intloko yonke
Yintoni enokuyenza ngokuphuhliswa kwengqondo, uyazibuza. Yaye uya kuphosakela! Unxibelelwano, ngaphezu koko, lona luthe ngqo. Uphuhliso lweengcaphephe kwiminyaka yokuqala yobomi bomntwana luhambelana ngqo nentsebenzo. Zigwebe ngokwakho, ulusu lomntwana luyinxalenye enkulu kunazo zonke kunye noluntu olubuhlungu nolwazi lwehlabathi. Oku ke kwongezwa kumbono wakhe, ukuva, ukuvumba, ukubunjwa kokugqibela okwenzeka emva kokuzalwa komntwana. Nangona isikhumba sithatha umsebenzi wengundoqo "utitshala" - ukupheliswa kwentsholongwane kuyo, ulwazi lufunyenwe kwaye luhanjiswe ngakumbi - kwingqondo. Ukuthintela ngakumbi ngokwakho ngokwakho, ngakumbi ngakumbi ukuqonda kwakho intliziyo. kunye nemilenze yentsana, sinokuchaphazela ngentsholongwane indawo yokuthetha ngayo.Kuyinto enokumangalisa ukuba inokuvakala, kukuphuhliswa kwezakhono ezintle zezakhono ezijongene nokukhawuleza, kakuhle kwaye ngokuchanekileyo umntwana uya kuthetha nawe.
Imizwa kunye
Ibango eliphambili lezengqondo zengqondo kubalandeli bokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili kukuba ekuqhubeni kwempumelelo yengqondo yomntwana, abazali bayiguqula ibe yi-encyclopedia yokuhamba, baqeqesha inkumbulo yebhokhwe ngokukhumbula ngokulula, ukuhlakulela ukucinga, kodwa ukulibala ngokupheleleyo imizwa. Ngoko kuvela ukuba umntwana uyanda ngokuphindaphindiweyo engqondweni yakhe yamanani amabini, kodwa ... akwazi ukuvalana nabanye, umzekelo. I-IQ yakhe yeemvakalelo iphendulela kakhulu.
Abantwana abanjalo kwixesha elizayo kuba nzima kakhulu ukuthetha kunye neontanga zabo, ukuseka nokugcina ubudlelwane obusondeleyo. Yonke into yokuba awaziyo ukuba ngabahlobo, ukuba aziphathe njengabantu abadala, kodwa njengabantwana abaqhelekileyo. Ukuze ugweme oku, kuyimfuneko ukuhlawula ukuphuhliswa kweemvakalelo ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala. Kwaye oku kwenziwa ngomzekelo. Ngaba udabukile? Cacisa ukuba utyumbile ukuba kutheni udidekile. Kwaye ungacingi ukuba akaqondi nto. Mhlawumbi akayiqondi yonke into ephosakeleyo, kodwa olu lwazi luya kuhlehliswa kwaye luza kuvela kwimemori ngexesha elifanelekileyo. Xa umntwana ekhula, ungadlala naye "kwiMasks": vala ubuso bakho ngezandla zakho, ubenciphise, uvelise ngolunye uhlobo iimvakalelo ezahlukeneyo zomntwana (uvuyo, ukudabuka, ukumangaliswa, ukukhathazeka, ukwesaba, njl njl.) Ngokuqinisekileyo umntwana uyavuya ukutshatyalaliswa kwakho kunye nokuthatha inxaxheba kwakho kumnandi.Umdlalo "kwiMasks" kufuneka uhambisane neenkcazo uze uphinde ubhale amagama amaninzi, ngokuthe ngqo: "Khangela, umama uyavuya, (edabukisayo, njl.)!" Ngamanye amazwi, akufanelekile nethemba lokuba umntwana uya kukhula aze "athathe inxaxheba" kwimvakalelo th unxibelelwano, kuyimfuneko ukuba afundise, kwakunye nayo yonke enye into, - ukukhasa, ukuhamba, ukufunda, ukudlala ...
Luhlobo luni lwencwadi oku?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba ukucinga okungabonakaliyo (oko kukuthi, mbulelo kuye siyaqonda into esiyifunayo) ikhula emva kweminyaka emine. Kwaye nokuba uqeqesha umntwana ukuba ahlukanise itekisi A phakathi kwabanye kwigama le-watermelon, kuye le ngcamango emibini ayixhunyiwe nhlobo: kukho incwadi A kwaye kukho ikhabethe, leyo, ngokutsho kukaMama, phakathi kwabo ngohlobo oluthile "olunxulumene". Konke oku kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela kwaye uqonde ukuba xa ufundisa umntwana ukuba afunde kwi-diaper, uqeqeshe imemori yakhe ebonakalayo. Ngesizathu esifanayo, kunzima ukuba umntwana abeke iileta ngeendlela, ngokubonga ngale ngqiqo, zonke iindlela zokufundisa ekuqaleni zihlukaniswe zibe ziintlobo ezintathu : ngeencwadi, ngeesilagidi (ubuchule be-Zaitsev), ngokupheleleyo ngamagama (ubuchule bukaGlen Doman) kwaye, nayiphi na into oyikhethayo, ukuba loo mnqweno ivela, khumbula ukuba ileta, isilayili okanye igama lomntwana kuphela yinto ebonakalayo, uphawu olungakhumbula ngokuphindaphindiweyo okuphindaphindiweyo. ingaba ukubeka imizamo enjalo kwixesha elidala umntwana wakho uya kufunda kwiiveki ezimbalwa - kulula kwaye i-organic? Kuyafaneleka! Kodwa emva kokuthi: "Andifundisanga umntwana ukuba afunde, ndiyayazi ngeeleta (iinombolo)." Thatha njengenxalenye yehlabathi elikhulu apho uqaliswa khona. Nantsi ikati, nja inja, kodwa ileta A.
Futhi gcina ukhumbule ukuba ikati nenja zicacile ngakumbi kwintsana kunye neenombolo, kuba izinto zokufunda eziphilayo zixhamla, zime okanye zijonge, zidle, zibalekele ingozi kwaye zisebenzisane. Ziyathakazelisa kwaye ziyaqondakala. Yintoni ke ngoko ngamanani kunye neleta? Phatha oku njengendawo yokulungiselela yokufunda. Hlanganisa kumagumbi imifanekiso yeeleta (iibllabha, amagama) kunye namanani - ngokuprinta okukhulu, obomvu emhlophe. Umntwana uya kubakhumbuza njengenxalenye yehlabathi lakhe, kwaye ulwazi ngokwalo luya kungena kwindawo yokugcina. Kwaye xa inkunzi iqala ukufunda ukufunda ngexesha elidala, iya kuba ilungele ukufumana iileta kunye nenani, kuba sele esaziqhelana nabo.
Yichaze!
Kule nto, sisebenzisa ingcamango kaCecil Lupan ukwenza i-encyclopedia yemfundo yomntwana. Ayifuni iikhono ezizodwa, iindleko zemali kunye nexesha. Ukuyidala, sifanele sizenzele ngeemagazini zamandulo, iifoto ezingezizo neemfuneko. Kwaye inzuzo ixabisekileyo! Ewe, apho abantwana bethu besixeko babona iibhokhwe okanye iinkomo, iindiza kunye nabagibeli. Apha sifuna iikhosiziphephesi ezinjalo. Zingenziwa nakweyiphi na isihloko: "Izilwanyana", "Imozulu", "Iiflethi", "I-Technique", "Ii-Capitals zehlabathi" njl. Ngaphansi komfanekiso ngamnye, kunqweneleka ukwenza isayinwe kwiilwimi ezinkulu. Zama ukukhetha imifanekiso, apho kuya kuba khona into enye, okokuthi ukuba ubonisa i-chanterelle, ngoko kwisithombe okanye umfanekiso kufuneka kube yinto kuphela-enkulu kunye engaqondakaliyo.Ayikho iifoto kwaye uthathe imifanekiso yeencwadi zezingane zakudala? Nceda uqaphele ukuba iimpawu apho izilwanyana ziboniswa kwiingubo ezidwebile okanye ngenxa yendalo yendalo, asifaneli. "Imifanekiso" kunye ne "ubuso" kunye ne "animated" iimoto ezithandayo, njl. Encyclopedia ecacileyo, udinga ukusondelana nobomi ngokusemandleni akho. Ukuze i-encyclopaedia isebenzise ixesha elide kunokwenzeka, makhasi amaphepha kunye ne-tape evulekileyo okanye yenza i-encyclopedia engekho kwi-albhamu eqhelekileyo okanye iincwadi zeenkolo, kunye nemifanekiso nganye, nganye leyo elaliqhotyoshelwe.
Ukuchaneka kwesandi
Uthini umahluko phakathi kokudala umgangatho wezondlo ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo komntwana omncinci kwizifundo ezinenjongo kunye neemvumba ngokweendlela? Enyanisweni, imvelo yinto umntwana ahlala kuyo, ukufundisa amaxesha angaphumi emfanekisweni oqhelekileyo obusondeleyo kubomi bomntwana, kodwa unqatshelwe kwimigangatho yemihla ngemihla - ukuhamba, ukutya kunye nokuhlamba. Into kuphela efunekayo kumama akuyi kuthula. Oku kunikezelwa kalula kwiingxoxo ze-mummy kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kubangele iingxaki kwizilwanyana ezingenanto. Kodwa nanko, imvelo iya kuhlangula. Ngokuzalwa komntwana, ibhinqa litshintsha phantsi kwefuthe lenkcubeko yesisu. Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zaphawula ukuba oomama abancinci banokuba batshintshe amazwi abo - kuba yinde, inqabileyo, kunye neentetho zentetho zininzi, zithenda. IiHormone zenza umsebenzi wazo olungileyo, kwaye umfazi nje akafuneki ukumelana nokunyaniseka.
Khumbula : ngoku utshaba lwakho olusisiseko luzola. Kwaye oku kuqinisekiswa ngamaqiniso ezenzululwazi. Ngesinye ixesha, izazinzulu zenza uvavanyo kumaqela amabini abantwana. Kwelinye iqela, oomama babeziphatha ngokwemvelo: baqhwala baze bananyamekela iintsana zabo, becula iillabies, ukunyamezela kwindlebe. Kwaye kwelinye - umsebenzi woomama kwakukuphela ukwenza imisebenzi yokunyamekela abantwana: abantwana banokutya, batshintshe, balala. Ngokweziphumo zolu cwaningo olungenangqondo, kwabakho ukuba abantwana abavela kwiqela "elithe cwaka" beba nolwazi olungakumbi kwaye bahlala bengagudli, bahlala begula, kwaye ekugqibeleni baqala ukunika "oogxa" babo abavela kwinqanaba lokuqala ngokwemilinganiselo yokuphuhliswa kwengqondo kunye neengqondo. Kamva baqala ukuthetha, kamva baya.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, asikukhuthazi ukuba "udibanise" ngokungapheliyo, sebenzisa yonke iminithi yokuvusa imvuthu ukuze uyifake ngolwazi. Uyazi nje ukuba nangona uhlabelela i-lullaby kumntwana, kuvela xa uhamba malunga nokuxelela ngemithi nemoto, - iyaqhubeka xa uyayilisa - nayo yenza negalelo elihle kwingqondo yengqondo yomntwana.
Yiba yendalo kwaye unyanzelekile ukuphulaphula oko umntwana wakho akufunayo kwaye uyilungiselele. Soloko senza okufutshane phambi kweshedyuli. Ngaba umntwana wakho unomdla kwimoto emi eduze kwendlu yakho? Ngoko, sekuyisikhathi sokuqala ukufunda i-encyclopedia yasekhaya kwi "Transport", kwaye ngexesha elifanayo ukufunda imibala, kuba zonke ezo matshini zihluke kakhulu!
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