Naliphi na umzali oya kuvuya xa eva ilizwi lokuqala kumlomo wentombazana yakhe. Akukhathazeki ukuba igama elithi "umama" liza kuba njani, okanye, mhlawumbi, into ehluke ngokupheleleyo. Kubaluleke kakhulu kubazali ukugcina impumelelo yamanqabunga - kubanika umdla obonwabisayo kunye novuyo. Abanye bafuna ukuzisa lo mzuzu ovuyayo kwaye baqale ukufundisa umntwana ukuba athethe. Kodwa, ngelishwa, akuyena wonke umntu owaziyo xa ixesha elifanelekileyo lokuqala loqeqesho liza, kunye nento enokuyenza ukuze ungenzi umonakalo omkhulu.
Masithi ufuna ukukunceda umntwana wakho kuqala. Kule meko, jongana naye ngendlela edlalayo kwaye nakuphi na umzekelo musa ukumnciphisa intonwabo encinane. Abantwana bathambekele ekufundeni nasekuphuculeni ngokukhawuleza ngohlobo lomdlalo. Ngaphezu koko, xa udlala, umntwana wakho akayi kudinwa, kodwa uya kufumana inkokhelo efanelekileyo, eya kuthi idluliselwe kuwe.
Phantse nawuphi na umzali ufuna ukukunceda umntwana ekuphuhlisweni, kodwa kholelwa ukuba oku kufuneka kwenziwe xa umntwana ekhula kancane. Enyanisweni, ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kubantwana ngaphambi kokuba unyaka uqale ngokububula kokuqala.
Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kubantwana ukuya kunyaka ngokukhala
Ukukhala komntwana wakho okukuvumela ukuba wazi into embi kuye, akanelisekanga ngento ethile okanye ukukhala kuveza isivunguvungu semvakalelo. Ungakhohlwa ukuba kwiinyanga zokuqala umntwana usenokuthetha kuphela ngoncedo lokumemeza. Eli li thuba elikhethekileyo lokuba umzalwana wakho omncinco akwazi ukuthetha kunye nezandi. Kwiinyanga zokuqala umntwana ufunda ukuvavanya indlela abantu abadala abadala abakhulayo ngayo. Emva kwexesha (ngokuqhelekileyo malunga neenyanga yesithathu), uqala ukumemeza, utshintshe intetho kunye nokuqina. Kule nqanaba kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba ukwazi ukubonisa umntwana ukuba uyavuya ukuthetha naye. Zama ukubonisa indlela ophendula ngayo ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo kunokwenzeka. Ufanele ufumane intetho kwaye ngoko ke vumela umntwana ukuba azi ukuba unxibelelwano olumnandi nolonwabo.
Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kubantwana ukuya kunyaka ngokuhamba
Emva kwithuba elithile, umntwana sele sele akwazi ukuhamba okanye ukuhamba. Eli xesha lingahlala ixesha elingaphaya kweenyanga ezintandathu. Isona nto into ebalulekileyo kumntwana uyithuba lokuthetha. Ukunxibelelana nabazali kweli nqanaba yinjongo ephambili yomntwana, nangona kwenzeka ukuba uyazichukumisa, ufunde ilizwi lakhe kunye nezandi ezingaqhelekanga.
Umntwana ufuna, ufuna inkampani yakho: yingako ekhangele amehlo akho, ulindile uhamba. Kuba imvumba ibalulekile ukuba uyayiqonda isimo sakho sengqondo ekuziphatheni kwakhe, kwinto yokuba wafunda ukuvelisa izandi. Ukuqwalasela impendulo yakho, umntwana uya kwakha indlela yakhe yokuziphatha. Ukuhamba, umntwana ufunda ukulawula zombini ilizwi kwaye ukhangela, oku kuya kuba sisiseko soqhagamshelwano lwakhe.
Unokukunceda kalula umntwana ngalezi zihlandlo: zama ukumphendula ngolwimi olufanayo. Ingane iya kuphulaphula into oyithethayo, kwaye igcine iso eliso ebusweni bakho. Ngexesha elide, uya kufunda ukuqokelela iinketyambo eziyinkimbinkimbi, kunye nexesha elizayo-ikopi yakho.
Kule minyaka, umntwana uqala ukuzama ukuqonda amagama kunye nezandi. Uqala ukusebenza kunye nesingqisho sokuthetha, ezama ukubonakalisa ubuso.
Ukuphuhliswa kwentetho kubantwana ukuya kunyaka ngokubamba
Kancinci umntwana wakho ukhula kwaye ngoku endaweni ye-agukanja uva ukubethelela, apho iilllab ba, i-pa, ma kunye nabanye. Ingane inokuqala ukuyibiza ngeesabilagi, kodwa kamva, ibe yinto ephakamileyo, iya kuqala ukuphuma ngaphandle kokuyeka, isalindela ngokunyamekela impendulo yakho.
Ukuba uqala ukuvakalelwa kukuba ukubethelela nokuhamba ngokukhawuleza kwintsana, unokuzama ukubenza. Beka umntwana emadolweni kwaye uqale usebenze naye: hlabelela iingoma, uhlaziye iimvumi zezingane, uthetha, ugxininise iilllab. Okubaluleke kakhulu, umntwana wakwazi ukufumana uxhulumaniso phakathi kwezandi aziva kunye nokunyakaza komlomo wakho. Ukuphuhliswa kokuqhelekileyo kwentetho, umntwana ufuna umzekelo omdala oya kuthetha naye.
Umsebenzi wakho awuyikuwongamela. Musa ukunyanzelisa, musa ukumnyanzela umntwana. Sebenza kanzima ukukhokela ngokuthe ngqo kwindlela elungileyo, yiphakamise kancane. Ukufunda akuyithathi indawo yomnxibelelwano wabantu.
Iingcali zenzululwazi ziye zabonakalisa ukuba abantwana, abasusela kubuntwaneni babesetyenziselwa ukukhunjulwa nokufunda, abakwazi ukuthetha kunye nokubandakanya ubuchule. Ukongezelela, kwaye ekudala akuyi kukwazi ukuyilungisa.
Igama lokuqala
Ekugqibeleni, umntwana uzama ukubiza igama lokuqala. Uzama ukwenza ukufana phakathi kokuhamba, izinto kunye namagama abo. Ukubonisa ngokuthe ngqo nayiphi na into okanye isenzo. Gqabaza malunga nento oyenzayo.
Ngaba ujongene nokuqeqeshwa kwezihlunu kunye nokusebenza kwabo. Nika ingqalelo ekhethekileyo emlonyeni nasehlathini. Ukwenza oku, ungasebenzisa iintlobo zeekhwelo kunye neentsimbi. Abantwana bafumana ukunwaba okungaqhelekanga kwinto yokuba nabo ngokwabo bangenza izandi ezihlekisayo. Ungakwazi ukudlala nesimo sobuso, ungabi neentloni - wenze ubuso, unamathele ulwimi lwakho, uzincede.
Naka ingqalelo kumathoyizi anokuthetha nabantwana. Kulula kakhulu kumntwana ukuthelekisa itekisi yokudlala kunye ne-meow-meow kunegama elilodwa ngokwayo. Sebenzisa kwiingxoxo kunye nabantwana abangakhethayo lula: i-mu-mu, i-hog-bass, i-bibika, njl.
Ngokukhawuleza xa umntwana eselula, qala ukudlala ngokuphindaphinda. Funda iinkondlo ngeendima kunye naye okanye umise ekupheleni kwezivakalisi. Ngaloo ndlela, unokumtyhola umntwana ngendlela efanelekileyo kwaye uqeqeshe intetho yakhe.
Ukuba udlala kwimidlalo ephathekayo, ungalibali malunga neengxoxo. Umntwana kufuneka abe nemfuneko yokunxibelelana nawe, ebomini bakho bemihla ngemihla - ukuxubusha iminqweno yakho. Ukuba akayiqondi imfuno yamagama, unokuqala ukuhlamba ukuthetha.
Ukongezelela, unokusebenzisa impawu: umntwana kulula ukudibanisa amagama nezenzo.
Ukusebenzisa iindlela ezinjalo, unokunceda umntwana wakho afunde ukuthetha. Naliphi na inkunzi yodwa, kwaye ukuphuhliswa komntwana ngeenyanga kuza kunceda ukulinganisela umthwalo kwaye uqonde isizathu. Kwaye i-karapuz yakho oyithandayo iya kubetha ngokukhawuleza kwaye igalelekile, ikuncede kakhulu.