Ngaba umntwana wakho uthanda ukudweba? Oku kuhle kakhulu! Uthanda umsebenzi wakhe, kodwa awazi ukuba ungayifaka phi? Yintoni enokuyenza kunye nemibhobho yezinto ezibonakalayo ezithatha indawo eninzi kwaye zisasazeka kulo lonke indlu? Makhe sijonge kwiinketho ezininzi ezinokukunceda ukusombulula le ngxaki.
- Beka umsebenzi eludongeni. Kulo umntwana luya kuba uvuyo olonwabileyo kwaye ngoko uya kuqinisekisa ukuba akazange azame ngeze. Ungakwazi nokwelula intambo kwiindonga okanye kwiifestile uze uphawule imisebenzi ethile kuyo. Amantombazana ayayithanda xa imisebenzi yabo ilala okanye kwindawo evelele.
- Unokubeka umfanekiso kwisakhelo uze ufake umfanekiso, itafile, itafile yebhedi okanye enye indawo evelele.
- Ungadala kwigumbi legalari epheleleyo yesithombe somculi omnye. Kule nto, igumbi lakho lebhokhwe likhulu. Sebenza kwiifayile ezifihliweyo uze uxhomeke kwigumbi. Emva koko uguqule ngokukhawuleza amanani kwiindawo.
- Imidwebo yomntwana wakho ingafakwa kwi-intanethi. KwiWebhu yeWebhsayithi yehlabathi, abaninzi abanomamokochki babelana ngomnye nomnye iimpumelelo zabantwana babo, kutheni ungazibandakanya nabo? Abantu abaninzi baya kubona umsebenzi womntwana wakho, kwaye uya kuvuya ngayo. Ngaphezu koko, ukuba ubhaliswe kwiintanethi zentlalo, ungalayisha umsebenzi apho kwiphepha lakho, mhlawumbi unayo iwebhusayithi yakho. Thumela imifanekiso kubangani usebenzisa i-imeyile. Ngoku kukho iindawo ezininzi apho imisebenzi yabantwana ifakwe khona, kwaye imifanekiso yomntwana yakho iya kwamkelwa ngokuvuya.
- Thumela imidwebo ngeposi. Ukuba ufunda amanye amaphephancwadi abantwana okanye ubukele iinkqubo zabantwana nge-crumb, thumela umsebenzi kwi-ofisi yokuhlela okanye kwisiteshi seTV. Ukuba umfanekiso uboniswa kwiTV okanye upapashwe kwiphephandaba okanye kumagazini, umntwana uya kuvuya kakhulu. Nangona kunjalo, kungcono ukwenza isimangalo kwi-crumb, kungenjalo kuya kuphazamiseka ukuba akukho nto iyenzeka kulo msebenzi. Ungazicwangcisi umntwana wakho kwizicwangciso zakho. Ukuba umntwana ubona umsebenzi wakhe kumagazini, uya kufuna ukubandakanya ubuchule.
- Ukususela kwimisebenzi yabantwana unokwenza izilwanyana kwifriji. Iintsapho ezininzi zihlobisa rhoqo isiqabetho kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zamagnetti, imifanekiso kunye neentsimbi. Zithengele iimakethe ezimbalwa, zenzele imidwebo yabantwana kwaye zithumele kumnyango wefriji.
- Ukuba umntwana wakho uyathanda ukudweba ngeglasi, wenza izixhobo zeekeramics okanye i-papier-mache, ngoko ungasebenzisa imisebenzi enjalo njengezinto zokuhlobisa kwigumbi. Beka endaweni evelele. Ngokuqinisekileyo iindwendwe ziya kuhlamba umntwana ngokuncoma, uya kuvuya.
Ungayigcina njani umsebenzi?
- Imidwebo kufuneka igcinwe kumafolda ene-skimmer okanye kwiifolda zeplastiki, kodwa umfanekiso ngamnye kufuneka ufakwe kwifayile nganye. Ngoko unokwenza i-albhamu yonke.
- Ikhompyutha yindawo enhle yokugcina imidwebo yabantwana. Iindawo abaza kuthatha kakhulu, kodwa ngelo xesha unako ukukwazi ukuzibona okanye ukuziprinta.
- Yenza umdlalo wokugcina. Kunokwenzeka ukuba wenze into encedo kwaye iluncedo kwimidwebo. Ngokomzekelo, imifanekiso ingadluliselwa kwikhadibhodi, ize ibheke kwiikhabhi okanye kwi-triangles. Ngoko unento efana neepuzzle. Umntwana uya kukwazi ukudlala ngemifanekiso yakhe, eya kufuneka iqokelelwe.
- Yenza inkunzi ibuyele ngaphesheya. Ngokuqinisekileyo, yonke imisebenzi iyabiza kuwe nakumntwana, kodwa awukwazi ukuyigcina yonke impilo yakho, ngoko ke abanye babo kufuneka ulahle ngaphandle. Ukuba umntwana usetshenziselwa ukutsala yonke imihla, kufuneka ufumane indawo eninzi yokugcina imisebenzi. Ukuba umzobo ukhona kwicala elinye, okwesibini ucocekile kwaye ungayisebenzisa enye enye yobugcisa. Imidwebo engalunganga okanye engadingekanga ingaphoswa okanye ihanjiswe kumaphepha aphinda aphinda abuyele.
Abazali abaninzi bayayithanda xa abantwana babo beba. Bafuna ukugcina imidwebo ixesha elide. Kodwa kufuneka uqiniseke ukuba umsebenzi ofanelekileyo, ufanelekile uhlala, kwaye indlu iya kulungiswa.