Njani kwaye nini umlingana womntwana wakhiwa

Inkwenkwe ingazange ibonakale ehlabathini, kwaye abazali sele bebuza ukuba ngubani oza kubonakala ngathi. Ngaba ubuhlobo bomama-mkhwenkwe bakhe buza kuba nefa okanye ngaba uya kuhambelana nonina? Ngoko makhe sifumene ukuba kwaye umgangatho womntwana uphiwa nini na?

Iimfuza?

Okokuqala, i-genetics namhlanje iqhutywe kakhulu kwi-technical and theory. Abaninzi bethu sele bevayo malunga neDNA yokuqulunqa kwaye bayazi ukuba uhlalutyo lwe-deoxyribonucleic acid (DNA) lunokunika iimpendulo malunga neziphene ezinokwenzeka kwimpilo yomntwana okanye yengqondo.

Okwesibini, uhlalutyo lwe-DNA likuvumela ukuba uqikelele ezinye iinkalo zokubonakala komntwana: ingaba unomvumba obomvu kwaye unqabile, njengomama, okanye unamehlo amakhulu amakhulu, nakwixesha elizayo - neenwele esifubeni sakhe, njengobaba.

Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abazi ukuba ukuhlawula kuphela ama-5% e-genome yomntu kuye kwagqitywa, kwaye kusele into eninzi. Ngaphezu koko, i-genetics ayiphenduli umbuzo othi ngubani umntwana uya kuba ngumlingiswa. Yaye, ngokumangalisayo ngokwaneleyo, ayiyi kuyenza! Kutheni? Kuba ukubunjwa komlinge kuxhomekeke kwimfundo.


Kwingcali kwengqondo!

Masizame ukufumana inyaniso kwenye inzululwazi, kunye nendlela kunye nomfanekiso womntwana owenziwe ngayo kwaye nini. Kwengqondo. Unolwazi oluninzi malunga nolwakhiwo lomntwana. I-genetics yama-American kuze kube yimhla ibe ne-chromosome eyodwa ekhethiweyo. Ngokuchanekileyo, kuphela yincinci yayo encinci, ejongene nokubunjwa kwemigangatho yombane yengqondo. Iingqungquthela, le chromosome inokuchaphazela ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo yomntwana-eyenza ibe yimfono kwaye isebenze okanye icingisise ngakumbi, ikhetha incwadi ukuba idlale "imfazwe". Kwizengqondo, kukho iimpendulo kwimibandela malunga nokukhuliswa kunye nelifa lomlingiswa kumama, uyise kunye nezihlobo ezikude.

Iintsana zifana nabafana. Uhlobo "lukhulelwe" kangangokuba loo mntu kwangoko wabona kumntwana ngokwakhe kunye nesimo saloo ntombi esakha ngokukhawuleza.


Ukukhulelwa kunye nemvelo

Konke ngohlobo. Okokuqala udinga ukwazi ukuba yiyiphi inxalenye yomlingani eyenziwa ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Uninzi lwezenzululwazi luzama ukuphendula lo mbuzo, kwaye ininzi yabo ayivumelani. Nangona kunjalo, kwihlabathi leengqondo, imisebenzi yeStanislav Grof yaziwa, ijongene nengxaki yeengqondo zengqondo yomntu ngamnye (ukukhulelwa kwengqondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa) phantse bonke ubomi bakhe. Ngokomzekelo, lo usosayensi wachaza ukuba ukutshatyalaliswa kwintsana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kunokuchaphazela ukubunjwa kwamathuba athile. Oomama abaninzi banokuphulaphula umculo wesiqhelo okanye bafunde ibali lefriki engazange izalwe. Kunzima ukusho ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba umntwana uya kuba ngumculi okanye abe ngumlutha ngokususela ekuzalweni ukuya kufundwe kakuhle, kodwa izazinzulu zaseMelika zakwazi ukubonisa ukuba izifundo zomculo ezenziwa ngabaama-ntombazana ngaphambi kokubeletha zenza umntwana ozayo abe noxolo kwaye alinganisekile.

Fumana iimvakalelo ezintle! Iingcebiso eziphambili kubamama abazayo: ngexesha lokukhulelwa, zama ukwenza ihlabathi elijikelezileyo libukeke njengengoma yefestile. Biza kule ntsapho!


Iipasipoti zeGenesis

Mhlawumbi kungekudala siza kuba nekhethekileyo-ipasipoti yezofuzo-kunye neepaspoti eziqhelekileyo zaseRussia nakwamanye amazwe. Kuya kuba nolwazi malunga nobukho beentshintsho kwiijethi, izifo ezizalwe yizifo, iziganeko eziya kwizifo ezininzi. Ezi zifundo sele ziqhutyelwe eNtshonalanga zombini ezibini ezineengxaki ngokuzalwa kweintsana, kwaye wonke umntu njengenkonzo ehlawulwayo.


Ngubani ofana naye?

Masibambe ixesha elithile ukulahla ingcamango "yomlingiswa", kunye nendlela kunye nomfanekiso womntwana owakhiwa ngayo. Kwiminyaka embalwa yokuqala, musa ukuthetha eli gama ngezizathu ezininzi.

Umntwana wazalwa kuphela, usengumntu ophilayo, kwaye akayikho yoluntu. Ukuba umntu uthi ukumotheka kowesana, kuthetha kuphela ukuba umntwana unako ukuguqula umlomo wakhe kwisitope, njengoyise. Nangona kunjalo, ukwenza "imilomo ngesaphetha" kuya kufumaneka kwiimvuthu kungekuqaleni kweenyanga ezi-4 neye-4 zobomi, kwaye kwanexesha elize lucwangciseke. Ukumomotheka kokuqala akunabalulekanga kuluntu. Kunoko, le miqondiso kumama xa umntwana efuna ukutya.

Umntu yinto efunyenweyo eyamkelwa ngumntwana omncinane emva kokuqala ukuqonda nokukopisha indlela yokuziphatha kwabantu abasondeleyo. Ngomnyaka wokuqala wobomi, umntwana akanako konke.

Kwiengqondo, umlingisi uchaza isimo sengqondo somntu kwihlabathi elijikelezile, elinenjongo kunye nolwazi. Ubumnono kunye noxanduva luvela kwinkomo kungekuqaleni konyaka wobomi, wonke umntu uyazi.


Olubomvu, obomvu, okhulayo ...

I-Genetics ibeka iindidi zokudluliselwa kwezinto ngokusekelwe kumgaqo wokulawula. Abazali bexesha elizayo banokucinga ukuba nombala wabo okanye iinwele zabo ziya kuba njani. Njengomthetho, umbala omnyama we-iris wamehlo kunye neenwele zibaluleke kakhulu, ngoko unokuqiqa ukuba abantwana banokuba ngamabhonkco xa ubaba ebumnyama kwaye umama unzima. Nangona kunjalo, ukusebenzisa le mithetho, ungalokothi ulibale malunga nenxalenye yokungahambi kakuhle, ngenxa yokuba izinto eziphilayo zenzeka kuzo zonke izinto eziphilayo.


Ukutya ngokutya

Ukuqwalasela ukukhetha okunesondlo kubantwana abafana nezofuzo (njengamanye amawele, umzekelo, amawele), i-gourmetism kunye nobukrakra abahlali bazuze kubazali. Ngethamsanqa okanye ngelanga, imfundo, okanye imozulu, okanye imo yendalo ingathonya oku. Akukho nto! Ukugqithwa kwezenzululwazi ezivela kumazwe ahlukeneyo ngamapasa kubonise ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuthanda inyama kunye neentlanzi izitya ezihlala zihlala zihlala zihlala. Ngoxa i-addiction yeesekese nemifuno sele sele yinto yokukhulisa kunye neempawu ezizimeleyo.


Konke kobawo!

Ngoko ke umlingani? Kulula kakhulu. Ukuba umntwana wakho uziphatha ngendlela ephathekayo kwisitrato, unika u-ugogo, uthatha uxanduva ngokuziphathekayo kwaye uziphathe ngayo nabasemdala, zicinge ukuba wena ngokwakho, ngezandla zakho, okanye kunoko, zenze iimvumba zibe ngumlingisi ocacileyo. Kwaye akuyikrele ukuba inkwenkwe iya kufaka iisokisi zayo phezu kwegumbi njengotata. Lo akuwona umlingiswa, kodwa ingxaki yaphakade yabasetyhini kunye nokungabikho kwaphakade kwabo bonke abantu. Ukwakhiwa komlingiswa womntwana kuxhomekeke kuphela kubazali (okanye ngootatomkhulu) kwaye kusekwa ngokwemizekelo yabo. Kwithuba elidala lomntu omdala - kunye nexesha elifanayo neontanga. Wena, njengabazali, unalo lonke ithuba lokuba "ukhule" isilungileyo esihle. Kwaye, nangona isifo sengane "siqhubhisa", unako ukulungisa oko. Fundisa umntu onobuqili kunye nolumkileyo ovela kwintlekele yakho. Okwangoku, akuzange kuboniswe nantoni na ukuba umlingana udluliselwa ngokomzimba. Ngoko yonke into isezandleni zakho!


Icebiso

Xa i-crumb yenza iphutha, isohlwayo sakho kufuneka sithwale ubunqweno, kodwa bonisa indlela ojonga ngayo umntwana. Ungathi: "Ubi!", Kodwa bhetele: "Ndiyakuthanda, kodwa isenzo sakho sithukuthele."


Ngaba umtyholi omncinane ukhula?

I-vagaries yokuqala yomntwana, ukunyamezela kwakhe, ukunyaniseka, ukungathandabuzeki kunye nokuchasana nawo onke amazwi kubazali bakhe-konke oku, kubonakala ngathi, ngomnyaka wesithathu wobomi uthetha ngohlobo lomntwana. AbamaMama baqala ukuxhalabisa ukuba baya kukhula umtyholi omncinci, kwaye abapapa bakha ngokukhawuleza ibhande. Musa ukwenza oku! Oku akubonakali komlingiswa, kodwa ukwakheka kwayo, kwaye kuxhomekeke kwizinto azibonayo kule xesha elikufutshane, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, ekhaya. Zonke iimpawu ezilapha ngasentla zibonisa inkathazo yobudala kwintsana. Ngeli xesha lexesha kufuneka ukuba aziphathe. Uhlola umda wokuvumeleka. Nangona kunjalo, ukuwachaza (okanye ukuvala) kufuneka kube ngunyameko ngokusemandleni, kodwa ngokuqinisekileyo uchonge "u" kwaye "yebo".

Ngekhulu le-19, i-telegonia yayithandwa. Ingcamango yokuba ukubonakala kweemvuthu ayiphenduliwanga ngohlobo lwezityalo zikayise, kodwa ngumlingani wokuqala womama. Kwenzeka emva kwimeko kwihlabathi lamahashe, xa i-mare yayine-posterity ne-zebra strips.