Ungakhetha njani umqhubi ofanelekileyo?


Iintsuku zokuzonwabisa kwikhalenda yeRashiya ngokwaneleyo. Siyibhiyozela ngokukhawuleza, ngokucokisekileyo kwaye ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye siyisizwe esinomusa kwaye sithanda ukwenza izipho. Kodwa ukukhethwa kwesipho esifanelekileyo kumntu onendleko akuwona umsebenzi olula. Kwaye kufuneka uthenge izipho ngokukhawuleza. Kunzima nakakhulu ukukhetha isipho kumphathi. Indlela yokukhetha isipho esifanelekileyo kumphathi, uza kufunda kwinqaku lethu.

Umntu uyazi ukuba yintoni enye indoda eyimfuneko. Kodwa umfazi uya kufuneka asebenze nzima ukuze athole isipho esifanelekileyo. Kukho nawuphi na, cingisisa malunga nokunikezela, bhetele kusengaphambili. Ngaba ufuna ukuba izipho zakho zihlale ziqala, kwaye zivuyiswe ngexesha? Emva koko fumana incwadi encinane kwaye ubhale phantsi izinto ozikhethayo. Ingcaciso yokuba uKonstantin Stanislavovich uhlala eqala ukusebenza kuqala, kwaye u-Ivan Ivanovich uthanda i-spaghetti kunye ne-sauce e-creamy, akunakwenzeka ukukunceda. Kodwa ukubhala phantsi ukuba u-Ivan Ivanovich uyakuthanda ukusela i-brandy iminyaka elishumi elinesihlanu ubudala, kwaye uKonstantin Stanislavovich uqokelela iimifanekiso zendlovu. Ukwazi oku, unokukhetha ngokukhethekileyo isipho esihle kwaye wenze indoda ivuyiswe ngokuyazi izinto ezithandayo.

Xa ukhetha izipho zabantu abasondeleyo, incwadana inokukunceda. Ukuphulaphula ngenyameko ingxelo zabo. Inokwenzeka ukuba, umyeni wakho (utata, umzalwana, unyana, utata) kwingxoxo uthetha iminqweno yabo. Yaye ukuba ukuba isipho bayakufumana oko bakude bephupha, kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile abazange bakwazi ukuthenga, ngoko isipho eso asiyi kuba yintengo.

Yiyiphi indoda engaphuphayo yokufumana imoto njengomnikelo? Kodwa isipho esinjalo sisoloko sabiza kakhulu kumniki. Kodwa izixhobo zeemoto azizona ezibiza kakhulu kwaye zisebenzayo. Ukukhetha kwabo kubanzi ngokwaneleyo.

Ukuba umntu utshaya, uya kuvuyiswa kakhulu nge-cigar ebiza kakhulu, i-ashtray yasekuqaleni okanye i-lighter yesitayela.

Idonga lamakhadi amahle isipho esihle kakhulu somthandayo, i-backgammon eyenziwa ngesandla. Uyise wentsapho unokunika isethi se-screwdrivers okanye umbane wokugesi. Nangona loo mntu engayisebenzisi kanye, uya kuvuya nesipho, kuba, xa efumene isipho esinjalo, uya kuziva ngathi ungumphathi wazo zonke izinto.

Ngokuqhelekileyo, amadoda athetha izipho ezisebenzayo. Ngoko ke, ukuba unqumle ukunikela into yokuhlobisa ingaphakathi, fumana isipho esinjalo esiluncedo kwimpilo yemihla ngemihla. Mhlawumbi uza kubona esitokisini i-globe-bar engavamile, umgcini-mfanekiso wendawo okanye indawo yokuqala yamaphepha kunye namaphephandaba.

Kukulungele ukuthetha malunga nokuba akukho mfuneko yokuba kunikwe amadoda. Iingubo, izibhokhwe, i-slippers, amasokisi kunye neengubo zangaphantsi zamadoda azikhuthazwa. Unokunika iimpahla kuphela kubantu abasondeleyo kwaye ke kuphela ukuba uyazi ubungakanani obuchanekileyo. Ukukhetha amabhande kunye nezibophelelo, kufuneka kwakhona uqaphele, kuba umntu angayithandi umbala, kwaye isipho sakho siya kuchitha ubomi bakho bonke kwikhaya. Kwakhona, unganikeli abahlobo, oogxa kunye nabahlobo bezilumkiso kunye neziqhumiso.

Nciphisa ingcamango yokunika umqokeleli wemali imali entsha kwiqoqo yakhe, ukuba awuqinisekanga ukuba akanaloo mali. Kuya kuba ngcono xa umnika i-albhamu engaqhelekanga ukugcina yonke iqoqo yakhe.

Kungekudala, isipho esithandwa kakhulu sasisisatifiketi se-Mars okanye iNyanga. Mhlawumbi, ixesha elizayo kwixesha elizayo isipho eso siza kufumana imali engenayo, kodwa umsebenzi wayo oyintloko kukukholisa ngoku. Kulungile unike indoda yakho ethandekayo indlu yeshashalazi okanye inkqubo yomsindo. Ukumangaliswa ngokuqinisekileyo kuya kuba yinto ekhethiweyo yelinen yombhede, apho ubonakaliswa ulele. IiDVD neefilimu ezintle ziyisipho esihle.

Ukuba ukhethe ukhethe iidiski, kufuneka ukuba zibe ngumgangatho ophezulu.

Indlela ohambisa ngayo isipho esikhethwe nguwe ibaluleke kakhulu. Bonke abantu bathanda imimangalo kunye nemihlali emnandi, kwaye ukuvuyiswa kwangaphambili kuya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide.

Kodwa othandekayo ukubuliswa kwangaphambili kuya kumangalisa. Kuya kuba kuhle kakhulu ukuba ugqibezela isipho sakho esisisiseko kunye nezimbalwa ezincinane-izibandezelo, kwaye ubhale amanqaku ambalwa kunye nezifiso kunye nendawo nganye kwindawo apho isipho esilandelayo sifihliweyo. Okokugqibela, kuya kuba yikho isipho-esiyintloko. Ngobusuku bobusuku, ngelixa indoda yakho ilele, cwangcisa izipho ngamanqaku kwindlu. Ukuncoma okunjalo kuyakukhunjulwa.

Yaye khumbula, nayiphi na isipho somntu ongazange ukhethe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba awuzange uyinike, into ebalulekileyo kukuba esi sipho sisuka ephantsi kwentliziyo. Emva koko, umntu ubaluleke kakhulu isipho, kodwa ingqalelo.