Indlela yokuwa nomthandana nomntu onomnye

Sisoloko sihamba. Yeka njani emhlabeni ukuba uqhelane nomntu onomdla?

Yintoni eyenzeka imihla ngemihla ebomini ngamnye? Ininzi yamantombazana ihlala isebenza kwindawo ethile kwaye ixabana. Usebenza, ufunde, unomhla oxakekileyo. Ukuzama ukubamba yonke into ngexesha elifutshane, kuba ixesha lifutshane, kwaye kufuneka ukuba le nto kunye nale nto.

Xa uhamba ukusuka esitolo, uthetha kwifowuni. Kulo mzuzwana ndifuna ngokwenene ukudibana nendoda. Kodwa ifowuni inqunyulwe onke amadoda. Sahamba ngokukhawuleza kwaye sasixakekile. Oku uye wanciphisa amathuba okuba umntu uya kuhlangana nawe. Amadoda ayibona ukuba intombazana yayihamba ngokukhawuleza. Kwaye bacinga ukuba intombazana yayixakekile, kwaye kwakungcono ukuba ungakhathazeki. Kwaye ngokuthetha ngefowuni, wabulala ekugqibeleni abo bantu bangenako ukuthetha. Indlela yokufunda ukuziphatha ukuze amadoda aziqhelane nawe, funda kwincwadi ethi "Indlela yokufumana nokutsala umntu ofanelekileyo." Ukujonge kuwe, ukuhamba ngokukhawuleza kunye nokuxubusha ngengxoxo yomnxeba, esinye isiphephelo sibonisa ukuba: "Intombazana ixakekile, inxibelelwano." Ndiya kuthetha ntoni na? Utshabalalise ukuba umntu uza kuza kukudibana nawe. Ngako oko, kufuneka ufunde ngokuthe ngcembe ukusebenza ngexesha lemini ngendlela enokutsala amadoda, engalahlekanga. Kukho amadoda. Zininzi zazo. Kalula awuboni ebusweni bakho kwaye ujikeleze.

Ukuqhuba uvavanyo - shiya kwangaphambili!

Awuyi kushiya isigxina seyure, ukuba ugijime kwindlela engaphantsi, uphume kwi-trolleybus okanye kwibhasi ye-trolley. Uze ushiye indlu 2 iiyure ngaphambi kokuqala komhla wokusebenza okanye isikolo. Musa ukuphulaphula ngombono wongomntu. Yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi: ulonwabo okanye umbono wabantu abajikelezeyo? Ukuba uhamba ngokukhawuleza udibana nendoda, indoda epholile, mhlawumbi iya kuba yindoda ebhetele ebomini? Phitha kwiimbono zabanye.

Yintoni ebaluleke ngakumbi? Ewe, umntu. Ngoko ke ungayithobeli nantoni na.

Hambisa kancane. Kancinci akuthethi ukuba uyisiphukuphuku kwaye uyabukeka uyisilumko. Kancinane intombazana ihamba. Akunakukhawuleza. Intshukumo nganye kufuneka yenziwe ngezinga elincinci. Kwaye amantombazana akwenza ngokukhawuleza, kakuhle.

Uhamba kancane. Isantya kunye nesingqimba somvuzo kufuneka sibe malunga nama-40% wezinga lokuhamba. Ukuba ukuhamba kwabantu kuhamba ngesantya se-5 km / h, isivinini sakho, ubuninzi, 2 km / h. Umele uphume kumlambo, uhambe kancane. Abasetyhini bavame ukuvuka baze bavuke njani? Wagijima, wahlala phantsi, "Hayi, phi na?"? Zonke izihambeli zibukhali. Ibulala ubulili, kwaye inomtsalane.

Yenza konke ukuhamba kakuhle

Wema kakuhle, wahlala phantsi. Umfanekiso. Yenza umfanekiso. Beka unyawo lwakho emlenzeni wakho kwaye uqale umsebenzi. I-gait is slower, ukunyuka kwezandla kuyalinganiswa. Ukufikelela kufowuni, emva kwesikhalazo. Khawucinge nje ukuba kusasa kusasa ukukhwelisa ikhamera ye "House 2", umzekelo, okanye enye inkulumo. Le khamera isondele kwimihla ngemihla, kwaye isasazwa kwizigidi zeTV, lonke ihlabathi likubukele. Hambisa kakuhle. Ukungena kakuhle emotweni yendlela yokuhamba ngomgwaqo, imoto evulekileyo kakuhle-oku ngokuqhelekileyo isimo sesini. Yenza yonke into evulekileyo, ephawulekayo, ehlambulukileyo. Hambisa ngale ndlela yonke imini. Bahlala phantsi, bavuka, bathabatha ifowuni. Nangona efuna ukubiza, yithatha kancane. Kwakukho imeko engakhululekiyo, umzekelo, into ethile yawa phantsi. Ngaba ufuna ukukhawuleza, ukhethe?

Hayi, ayikho. Ungumfazi. Wawa, wabheka waza wanyusa ngokukhawuleza le nto yokudlala, umguba, ipencilisi kwaye uyibeke phantsi. Vumela amadoda aqhube. Uyenza yonke into ngokukhawuleza nangokucokisekileyo. PS Ukuba uyayithanda le nqaku, thabatha incwadi ye-imeyile "Indlela yokufumana nokutsala indoda ehloniphekileyo" mahhala. Uza kufunda ntoni kwaye ufunde kwincwadi?

• Uya kufumanisa ukuba ngubani ophumelelayo ukutshata
• Uya kufunda ukukwenza ukuze amadoda aziqhelane nawe
• Funda indlela yokufumana izipho ezibiza
• Uya kuzifunda uziqhelanise neempatho eziphumelelayo
• Uya kufunda ukuba ungaphila indoda yakho kuphela

Ukuba ufuna ukutshintsha ubomi bakho ukuba ube ngcono kwaye ujabule eduze komntu ofanelekileyo kuwe, nqakraza kwesi sixhobo, thabatha incwadi kwaye uqale ukudala ulonwabo.