Izibalo zibonisa ukuba abantu babhubhise umanyano wabo, kaninzi abazami ukubuyisela ubudlelwane. Kodwa emva koko, ngokutsho kweengxelo zengqondo, oku kunokwenzeka. Umele uzame ukubheka umfazi ngokungafaniyo. Iingcali zengqondo ziphakamisa oku kulandelayo:
- qhathanisa nomyeni wakho ekuqaleni kokuphila kwakho kunye kunye nokugqiba oko ungakuthandiyo ngaye ngomzuzu;
- zama ukuvavanya yonke iminyaka esetyenzisene ngokucacileyo, awukwazi ukubuyisela ubuhle nolutsha, kunye nokufezekisa into engakaze ifumaneke ngayo - ngoko ke, fumana kwiingenelo ezintsha zeqabane;
- kufuneka ujonge wena ngaphandle kwaye uqonde, kwaye ulungele yena kunye nento oyenzayo ukuze uzive udibene kunye;
- xubusha nomyeni wakho ingxaki, makakhulume kwaye angalindeli iziphumo ezikhawulezileyo - ixesha kufuneka lidlule;
- Cinga ubomi bakho ngaphandle komyeni - ukuba uvakalelwa kukuba kulula kuwe ngaphandle kwayo, mhlawumbi isigqibo esilungileyo siza kuqhawula umtshato, kwaye ukuba i-melancholy and empty, kufuneka ufune ukuvuselela uthando lwakho.
Kwakukho ukuphuka okukhulu. Zibophe kunye kwaye ungavumeli umzwelo ukhululeke ngokupheleleyo. Qinisekisa ukuqhuba uhlalutyo lwento eyenzekayo, fikela ezantsi kwezizathu. Ukuba ufuna ukuyibuyisela, zama ukufumana isizathu sendawo. Kuye ukusola - ukubiza nokucela uxolo, uyakuthanda, uya kuqonda. Kwaye ke, xa iimvakalelo ziphela, ngokuqinisekileyo uyavuma ukudibana, kwaye uthethe ngeengxaki. Zama ukungenise ityala ekuqhawuleni umtshato, emva kwesitampu kwipasipoti ukubuyisela konke kunzima kakhulu. Xa uqhawula umtshato, kufuneka ucinge ngezingane kunye nezicwangciso ezihlangeneyo ezingabonakaliyo. Ngamanye amaxesha kunceda ukumisa kumgca ongaphantsi komtshato. Cinga ngento ebophayo, kwaye ukhumbuze umyeni wakho ngawo. Kwimeko yecala, ekuphahleni kobudlelwane bakho, umyeni wakho, ngoko ukuba uyamfuna, zama ukuxolela nokuqonda. Ukuba uthando lwakho aluwona umdlalo, kodwa unengqondo yangempela, ngoko kukho ithuba lokubuyela kumthandayo.
Beka iingcinga kunye nemizwa yakho. Mhlawumbi unganamdla ebomini kunye, ungathandeki kwaye uncike kuye. Kodwa nonke nifuna umyeni wakho abuyele. Emva koko kufuneka usebenze ngokwakho. Yiba ngumfazi okwaneleyo, mbonise ukuba unomdla kwaye unomdla njengokuba ngaphambili. Ulonwabo olutsha, ukuzizonwabisa kunye nezinto ezithandwayo kule meko azikho. Kuya kuba luncedo ukubuyela nomyeni wakhe kwiindawo apho uhamba khona ebusheni bakho. Kufuneka aphinde azive eselula kwaye enamandla. Ngokomzekelo, cwangcisa uhambo lwe-kayak. Okanye ulungise indlu uze ucele uncedo. Zama ukumkhangela kwi-hobby yakho. Ngaloo ndlela, kuphela ngokuzama ukusebenzisa iinzame ezithile ekusebenzeni ngokwakho, ungabuyela umyeni.
Inkosikazi yendoda-esi sihlandlo sokucinga ngawe. Kule meko, kufuneka ube ngcono kunabo. Ngako oko, kufuneka usebenze ngokwakho, phambili kwi-gym, ukuya echibini, ukugijima kunye ne-beauty salon. Ukunyuka ngeengubo ezintsha kunye neenwele, nje kungalimazi. Khumbula - umsebenzi wakho kukugubungela inkosikazi yakho kuyo yonke into.
Umyeni wam wayeka-isiluleko sengqondo seengqondo kwiimeko zakho ayifanelekanga kunokuba isiluleko sebhinqa sidluliselwe ngokufanayo. Ingcali yeengqondo inokukunceda, kuphela xa wena kunye nomyeni wakho beza kumamkela kunye kunye neseshoni yengqondo ye-psychotherapy. Uya kukunceda ufumane isizathu sokungqubana kwaye oko. Kodwa intsapho ayikho. Ngako oko, simele sikhohlwe malunga neengcali zeengqondo kwaye uzenzele wena. Ngoku uyazi ukuba wenzeni, ukuba umyeni wakho uyayeka, indlela yokubuyisela umyeni wakho, iingcebiso zeengqondo kufuneka zikuncede.