Nasiphi na isibini, emva kwexesha elithile liqala ukufumana ubunzima ebomini bomntu, ezidibene nokungaqondi. Kukho i-arsenal yonke yeepatheni zokuziphatha kakubi ezingonakalisa ubudlelwane. Iingcali zengqondo zanquma ukunika iingcebiso malunga nokungaziphathezi, ngexesha elibucayi, ukwenzela ukuba ingabonakali imeko.
Musa ukunqumla isiqingatha sesibini kakhulu
Ngona uthando olucacileyo lunokungena ekugqibeleni, ukuba lunokutya kunye nokusola. Amantombazana amaninzi, kunye namadoda, nabo, banomdla wokuba babuze amaqabane, apho kunye nabo bahlala nabo. Abanye baqala ukuhlola iipokethi zabo nezinto zabo, benethemba lokungcatsha ulwaphulo kunye nokubamba obomvu. Nabani na umntu oya kunika intswelo. Emva kwakho konke, akukho mntu ufuna ukuba ngumntu ongenakunqunyulwa ngokungapheliyo kwaye akazithobeli. Into yokuqala okufuneka uyenze kukuba ufunde indlela yokuhlonela iqabane lakho, ukwakha ubudlelwane kunye nokholo kumhlobo. Ukuba ukungaqiniseki akushiyi, kuya kufuneka uxoxe nento yonke ngeliso liso.
Musa ukuthelekisa into enothando lwakho nabanye
Akukho mntu uya kuthanda xa ewuqhathanisa nomnye umntu-uphumelele kwaye untle. Iprotge ye-Ivash ayikho. Ukuba uqala ukuthelekisana, bonisa ukuba isidima abanye ababenalo, kodwa abanalo, kunye nokumtyhila ekukhanyeni okubi - ungamangalisi ukuba ubuhlobo buya kufikelela ekupheleni. Wonke umntu ufuna ukubhekwa njengeyodwa kunye nekhethekileyo. Kulula kakhulu ukucaphukisa iqabane ngokubetha ubomi. Kubalulekile ukuhlalisa intsapho yakhe inkolelo yokuba nguye yedwa kwaye uyingqayizivele emhlabeni. Ukuba awunayo indawo kwaye awukwazi ukuwamkela nayiphi na inzuzo - ungabukizi iinwele, uthethe ngasese uze usisombululo seengxaki.
Izikhalazo malunga neqabane
Ukuba kwimiba nganye evelele kwintsapho yakho, jonga ukuxelela abahlobo okanye abaqhelana nabo kunye nokukhala kwisibambiso - cinga, ngaba ufuna izi mpawu? Ewe, unomsindo, uphelelwe yimvakalelo ephazamisayo, yinto nje ingxaki yale nto ayiyi kutshintsha.
Naliphi na ingxaki kufuneka ifunde ukucombulula kunye neqabane, kwaye ungaqhubeki uncedo lwabahlobo okanye omaziyo. Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kunikwa amacebiso amaninzi kumava akho adlulileyo-oko kucinga nje, ngaba baya kukulandela? Abantu bezinto zendalo bahluke ngokwemvelo, kwaye oko akuhambelani noko, kuyafana nokuthanda kwabo. Ukongeza, umngcipheko uphezulu ukuba ulahlekelwe yinto eyenzekayo, emva kokuphulaphula zonke iintlobo zengcebiso.
Into efanelekileyo ukuyenza kule meko kukuba uhlale phantsi uxoxe nayo yonke into nge-Spartner. Nguwe kuphela, unokuxelela kwaye uchaze oko kukuphazamisayo, kwaye uzame ukufumana ukungqinelana. Umgaqo obalulekileyo - ufunde ukuphulaphula, nangona ufuna ukukhupha umoni. Bala ukuya kweshumi. Unokushiya kwigumbi okwethutyana, uze ubuye uqhubeke nencoko.
Zihlazo
Ibhinqa lenza izinto ezintathu ngaphandle kwento - i-hairstyle, isalad Ukuba uthanda ukuxabana, awufuni ukuphulaphula nantoni na, ithetha into enye kuphela: awukwazi abantu nonke. Amadoda, ngokungafani nabasetyhini, baphathe ngokukhawuleza izinto ezincinci kwaye ningakhathazeki ngabantu abadumileyo. Ngaba iisokisi zifakwe kwakhona kwakhona? Kutheni ungazange unciphise isiqwenga sezindlu zangasese? Kutheni kwitafile? Kuphi efrijini yiplati engenanto? Iziganeko zokuxabana, unokufumana ezininzi, yintoni kanye indoda efuna ukuhlala nayo? Ekugqibeleni, uya kumntu ongeke akhathazeke ngamaqhinga. Ndicinga ukuba lixesha lokufunda ukuzibamba kwaye ungayifungeli nasiphi na isiganeko, ukuba kuphela ngenxa yokuba iisensi zeentsimbi azibuyiswa.
Funda Ukuxolela
Ukuxolela - iqela labantu abanamandla kunye nokuxolela, kufuneka ufunde. Okokuqala kuzo zonke. Nangona ingxabano ixazululwa ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba, yonke into iyafaneleka ukuthetha kunye nokucela konke ukuxolelwa. Ukuxolelana emva kokuxabana okungenakuthethelelwa, enye indlela okanye enye, iya kushiya umxholo ongezantsi kumphefumlo womlingane. Kungcono ukuxolela nokulibala ukuxabana ngonaphakade, kunokuba ngamnye akhulume ngawo.
Utshintsho oluthile lokuziphatha luya kubangela ukuba nolwalamano oluqinileyo kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, kuba xa sivuya, xa zonke izinto zifanelana nathi kulobu bomi, sithwala ingqungquthela yokushisa kunye nenkokhelo enamandla yamandla, okuyimfuneko kakhulu kwabanye nakithi ngokukodwa.