Bonisa uthando lwakho ngeemvakalelo. Yincoma omnye nomnye, udumise ngenkonzo epheleleyo kuwe, ngoncedo lwakho. Ndiyabulela yonke into eyenziwa ngumlingane wakho womntu. Oku kuya kuba yintsikhelelo yezenzo ezongezelelweyo kunye nokufezekiswa.
Nika ixesha elinye lomgangatho. Oku kuthetha ukuba kufuneka uxoxe omnye nomnye ngezinto ezinomdla okanye ezonwabileyo, ukwenza izinto ezizithandayo kunye, ngokubanzi, ukuchitha ixesha kunye, ukuthetha kunye nokuvalelana. Kule nto ungaya kuphela kwindawo yokudlela ethule, i-cinema, ipaki. Xa ufika ekhaya, cela umyeni wakho malunga nendlela yakhe yokuhamba ngayo, kwaye akuxelele ngemini yakho. Ubuncinane ngonyaka ukuhamba yonke intsapho ukuba iphumle.
Ngokusoloko kunika izipho. Emva koko, isipho sele sisona ndlela yokubonisa uthando lwakho. Akunandaba nokuba uyini na ngoku, ingakumbi ukuba iyinto eqhelekileyo, engekho yeholide. Into eyona nto ucinga ngayo ngendoda, ufuna ukumenza amangaliswe. Ingaba isipho ibhaluni, iindidi zeentyantyambo, umhlobiso okanye into entsha yearrhebhe, okanye mhlawumbi uhamba nge-embankment okanye ukugibela ihashe. Kukho apho ukukhohlisa khona ngeengqungquthela.
Zama ukukhumbuza umntu osondelene nawe ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba uyamthanda kwaye uyamxabisa. Emva koko, ibinzana elilula elithi "Ndiyakuthanda", eliva kumthandekayo, ngokukhawuleza lidala iimvakalelo ezintle kunye nesimo esihle sengqondo yomntu.
Kakade, musa ukulibala ngobudlelwano obusondeleyo. Nabani na oko athethayo, kunye nesondo - oku ngenye yezona zinto zibalulekileyo kubume. Ukuba umfazi naye ungumfazi omhle, umfazi omhle, kunye nomyeni wakhe wenziwe kakuhle, kwaye akukho isondo, ulindele ingxaki. Nanku kukho ukuphazamiseka, ukunganeliseki kunye nokuhlambalaza. Kwaye konke oku kuqhubela phambili kwiingxabano.
Ngamanye amaxesha, kufuneka uzinike ixesha kuphela. Ukuthatha umhlala-phantsi kwenye indawo ukuze kungabikho mntu ekuphazamisayo. Hlala yedwa kunye nawe, kunye neengcamango zakho, ubeke yonke into emashalofini. Yaye ungamangalisi ukuba esinye isiqingatha sakho sikuxelele ngako, kwaye ucele ukumnika indawo okanye uhambe epakini ngosuku. Ngamnye wenu kufuneka ube nezinto zokuzilibazisa kunye neminqweno. Awunakupheliswa ngokupheleleyo kwiintsebenziswano zakho kwaye ungaboni nantoni na kuwe. Kufuneka uhlale nomntu "ngeenqanawa" zakho, kwaye uzibandakanye kule hobby ngexesha lakho.
Yamkela umthandayo wakho. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba uthe wathandana naye, kuthetha ukuba yonke into ikufanelekile. Kodwa ekuhambeni kwexesha, ngokukhawuleza, kwavela ukuba wayengagqibekanga. Oo, yintoni inceba. Kodwa into kukuba abantu abalungileyo abakho! Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba iintsilelo zakhe ezincinci kufuneka ziguqulelwe kwisidima. Okanye uzame ukungaziboni malunga nemvelaphi yazo.
Abanye abantu ukufezekisa uthando olufunayo baya kuxabana, i-blackmail kunye ne-hysterics. Abanye - ngokuqhaqhazela ingxaki, ukungafuni ukuxubusha, ukuzenza ngathi akukho nto eyenzekayo, ukugcina zonke iimvakalelo ngaphakathi ngaphakathi. Ngethuba elifanayo ukuqokelela i-negative ngexesha ngalinye nangaphezulu.
Oku kungentla akubhekiseli kuphela kubafazi, kodwa nakwabanye abantu ngokukodwa. Ngendlela, ungacingi ukuba yonke into ebhaliweyo ixhala kuphela ngabasetyhini, kodwa namadoda. Kwaye oku kuthetha ukuba imodeli yokuziphatha ngobudlelwane ayixhomekeke kwisini, kodwa ngohlobo lomntu, "I". Ngokumangalisayo, oku akuzwakalayo, kodwa umntu ofuna uthando nothando, ubonisa ubugwenxa, kwaye, ngamanye amaxesha, inzondo ephilileyo kumthandi wakhe. Kutheni oku kwenzekayo?
Abantu abathandekayo babini babantu obuhluke ngokupheleleyo. Ngamnye wabo uneminqweno, iimvo, iimpawu. Kwaye nganye iyaqonda ukuba ayikho ikopi yomnye nomnye. Baqonda ukuba bahluke, ukuba kuphela ngenxa yesini. Qonda - qonda, kodwa, ngelishwa, ingqiqo. Kwaye, nanko kufika umzuzu xa omnye wabo edibana nombono ochasene nomnye, ukuziphatha okungalindelekanga kuwe, okanye ukungabikho ngqalelo kuwe. Izinto ezinjalo aziyiyo imilinganiselo yokucinga kunye nombono wakhe, yilapho "isiphepho" sengqondo iqhuma ngaphakathi, ulaka okanye uyatshitshiswa ngokuziphatha okunjalo.
Ubugcisa bobudlelwane bubunzima, ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukuchasana neenkolelo zakho ngenxa yokujongana neemeko. Ngelishwa, abanye abantu baya kuzama ukuthetha ngokubuhlungu, malunga ne-neponyatkah kunye nokungavumelani, kubonisa ubugwenxa, ukuzama ukulimaza, ukumangalela iqabane. Kwaye omnye-uya kuhlala ethule malunga nokulimaza okuphilileyo. Kuya kudambisa umlingane, kuba wayengenakulungile njengoko kwakubonakala ngaphambili, kwaye uqala ukumhlwaya ngesimo sakhe sengqondo esibi.
Zozibini iinketho zinendawo yazo. Kodwa, kungcono? Yintoni engcono ukuyenza ukuze ulondoloze ubudlelwane obuqinileyo, ukugcina uthando? Makhe sijonge kwiindlela ezimbini. Inketho yenombolo 1. U cwaka. Kukho ukungquzulwano okanye, ngokukodwa, imeko apho umthandayo wakho wenza ngendlela eyahlukileyo kunokuba wayekulindele. Ukhubekile, kodwa ungatsho nto kumlingane wakho. Ixesha lidlula, kwaye kwakhona uhlobo oluthile lokungaqondi. Isiqingatha sakho sigqoke isikhwele esifutshane, okanye sichitha izinto zakhe ezungeze kwindlu, ayihlambululi etafileni okanye akayikuhlamba izitya ngexesha, njl njl. Kwaye nonke ni cwaka. Ingxaki ayisombululwanga ngokwayo? Akunjalo. Umntu ongaziqondi into ayenzileyo angayitshintsha njani? Yaye yintoni elandelayo? Siyicinga ukuba ayifuni.
Inketho yenombolo 2. Uthetha omnye nomnye. Kwakukho imeko engathandekiyo kuwe, kwaye kanye, kwaye waxoxa ngako. Vumela ukuba baqhubeke ngeemvakalelo, bachithe, kodwa umphumo ubusweni. Umntu ozithandayo uyazi ukuba awuyithandi. Kwaye yonke into incike kuye. Kodwa, uyakuthanda, oko kuthetha ukuba uya kuqonda yonke into aze asebenze ngokwakhe.
Kodwa, unokuqwalasela inketho yesithathu. Uxoxisana ngokukhawuleza ngxaki. Le yindlela efanelekileyo yokufezekisa ukuqonda. Nangona kunjalo kunzima.
Ngoko sagqiba ukuxoxa ngombuzo othi "Ukulondoloza njani uthando, ubugcisa bobudlelwane."