Nangona ezinye zeengcamango zokuthandana kwi-Intanethi ziphazamisa, amabali amaninzi avuyayo aqala khona. Kwimeko apho, kutheni ungazami ukufumana uthando lwakho kwi-intanethi? Sabuza ubuchwephesha malunga nobudlelwane kunye "nomvangeli" wewebhusayithi ethi "PhotoStrana" uEkaterina Fadeeva ukwabelana ngeengcebiso malunga nokuba uyayifumana njani kwaye ungayibheki njani indoda yamaphupha akhe kwindawo yokuthandana.
Kunzima ukuqhelana nendoda eneminyaka engama-20 ubudala, kwaye kuya kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuhlangabezana nomntu ofanelekileyo kwiminyaka, ngakumbi ukuba unobungozi obubi emva kwakho. Ngamanye amaxesha kunzima ukufumana ixesha lokunxibelelana kumjikelezo womsebenzi nokukhulisa abantwana. Kule meko, abaninzi baye kumasayithi okuthandana avumela ukuba ujwayelene ngaphandle kokushiya ikhaya lakho kwaye ngoko kufuneka ixesha elingaphantsi. Kwiindawo zokuthandana, abaninzi bafuna ubuhlobo obunzulu. Ngokutsho kwedatha yethu, ama-40% amadoda e-Photostrana afuna amaqabane ukuba enze intsapho. Kwaye ngokubulela ulwazi kwiphepha le-interlocutor ungahlala uhlola ukuhambelana kweembono zakho kunye nezinto zokuzilibazisa ekuqaleni kwezonxibelelwano. Ngoko, kuyintoni okufuneka uyenze ukuze ufumane indoda kwindawo yokuthandana?- Yiba neemfuneko eziqinileyo eziyimfuneko (umzekelo, kwiimpawu zangaphandle) ziya kunciphisa kakhulu uluhlu lwabaviwa. Musa ukunyamekela kwaye uphendule kuphela i-blondes eyamehlo eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ngokuphakama kwe-186.5 cm, ukuba awufuni ukuba ukukhangela kuqhutywe kwixesha elide.
- Yiba nomsebenzi. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abasebenzisi bayakhalaza ngokungabikho kokuqwalaselwa kwabo, kodwa ababhalelanga nabani na. Ukuba bonke bakhokelwa yilo logic, iindawo zokuthandana kwi-intanethi ziya kupheliswa. Khumbula: ukubhaliswa omnye akukhawulelwanga kwimeko, ulonwabo lwakho usezandleni zakho!
- Vula. Hlalani ulwalamano oludlulileyo kunye nokwazi abantu abahlukeneyo. Ekugqibeleni, awuyazi into ebonakalayo nokuba yintoni indoda yakho efanelekileyo eyithandayo uze uyifumane. Kwaye ukuba ufuna ukwazi umntu ongcono, uze naye ukuya kwintlanganiso: ngaphandle koko unako ukuyeka ukuthetha.
- Musa ukuthumela imilayezo engafani naleyo kuwe iya kuphendulwa ngokukhululeka okukhulu, ukuba ngaba kuya kubonakala kwimiyalezo yakho ukuba uchithe ixesha ufunda iphepha lomsebenzisi, kwaye unomdla kakhulu kuwe. Imiyalezo emiselweyo ayinakwenzeka ukuba ibonakale.
- Ungayinqabeli into engekhoyo. Yonke into elula: inzondo, ukunyaniseka kunye nobugwenxa akubangela ukuba umnqweno wokuzibandakanya.
- Musa ukwabelana ngolwazi olungakumbi lomntu Ungacacisi kwaye ungabelani ngolwazi lwabucala uze ukhululeke kunye nomnxibelelwano omtsha. Cinga ngeSIM khadi eyahlukileyo yokwabelana ngamanani. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuba unxibelelwano luba ngumthwalo kuwe, unokukuyeka ngokukhawuleza.
- Ungalibali ngokukhuseleko Ukuqeshwa kokuqala kukulungele ukulungelelanisa kwimihlaba engathathi hlangothi kwindawo kawonkewonke apho uya kuziva uhlalise. Qiniseka ukuba uvumele abahlobo okanye izalamane bazi kakuhle apho uza kuba kunye nabo.