Ubuhlobo obuhle kunye noninazala banakho kwaye kufaneleke. Zama ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nomntu wakho othandekayo naphezu kwayo yonke into, ekunxibelelaneni naye, zama ukunciphisa. Kufuneka uqaphele kwaye ucacise unina ukuba awunabo abaphikisanayo abalwela uthando lomntu omnye.
Kubalulekile ukuhlala ngokwahlukileyo kubazali emva komtshato. Ukuba uhlala nabazali bomyeni wakho, ingxabano ayinakwenzeka. Akumangalisi ukuba bathetha ukuba azinako ukumbamba iindwendwe ezimbini endlwini. Ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva, iimpikiswano ziya kuvela malunga nendlela yokuhlamba ngokufanelekileyo iipansi kunye nendlela ehlwaya ngayo ukupheka ama-cutlets enyuka umyeni wakho kunye nendodana kamkhwekazi. Ubomi obuhlukile sele sele sisisisiseko esibalulekileyo sokungabonakalisi ubudlelwane.
Ngaphantsi kweemeko, phantsi kweyiphi na imeko, ukugxekwa nokukhalaza ngomyeni wakho kumama wakhe - okungenakucetyiswa ukuba wenze oku, kodwa okona yingozi kunxulumano. Musa ukumenza amazwana phambi kwakhe. Umyeni wakho ngowona nto iphumelele kwaye ibaluleke kakhulu kumamazala, isiqhamo sokukhuliswa kwakhe. Ukumgxeka, ungamgxeka ngokuphindaphindiweyo kabini.
Ungaze uqhathanise umama wakho nonina kumama wakho. Bangabantu abahlukileyo, bakhuliswa kwiintsapho ezahlukileyo, kunye nemikhwa emihle kunye nendlela yokuphila. Umama-mkhwenkwe ufanele uthande kwaye uhloniphe ubuncinane ngenxa yokuba wazala, wakhuphula waza wakhulisa umyeni wakho othandekayo, ongatshatanga kunye noyingqayizivele. Nguye ukuba ufanele uvulele zonke iimpawu ezilungileyo zomntu wakho.
Mamela isiluleko somamazala wakho, nangona uzama ukukuxelela indlela yokupheka kakuhle i-borscht, oko kukuthi, ezo zinto uziwayo kakuhle. Okokuqala, uyazi kakuhle umyeni wakho kunye nendodana yakhe engcono, kwaye ezinye iingcebiso zinokukunceda kuwe. Ngoko ukuba umntu akaqhathanisi nonina kwaye akasithi: "Umama ulungiselela le ndlela ...", phulaphule icebiso lakhe. Okwesibini, ubuncinane ube ngumnxibelelwano omnandi kwaye wazi indlela yokumamela unina womyeni wakhe. Makuze ubalekele ezi ngcebiso ngokuzikhumbuza imizuzu emihlanu.
Ungazibandakanyi umyeni wakho ekungavumelani kwakho noninazala. Ngubani owaziyo, mhlawumbi uya kuba ngumama. Musa ukumqwengula phakathi kwintanda ethandekayo kwaye ebalulekileyo ebomini bakhe ebomini.
Unina womyeni wakho ubaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakho. Ungowenu usapho olutsha kunye nomntu wasemzini. Zama ukufezekisa indawo yayo. Funda malunga nezinto ezithandwayo, bonisa intsingiselo yakhe kubo.
Yamkela ngokubulela izipho zonina. Kwaye makube enye iponsi okanye i-photelder for the hot. Into ephambili ayiyisipho, kodwa ingqalelo. Ngaba uzidla ngokuphindaphindiweyo izipho kunina. Makungabi xabiso, mhlawumbi zenziwe ngokwabo. Oku kuya kubonisa ukufudumala nokukhathazeka nguninazala.
Ukuthetha rhoqo kunye noninazala. Unxibelelwano luvumela ukuseka ubudlelwane obuhle. Jongana nomama-mkhwenkwe kungekhona kuphela xa ufuna into ethile kuye, kodwa ukufumanisa indlela isimo sakhe sempilo kunye nengqondo. Inzala ehloniphekileyo kunye nentlonipho iya kukuvumela ukuba ungabhubhisi ubudlelwane nonina.
Musa ukukhawulelana unxibelelwano phakathi komamazala kunye nabantwana bakho. Mema umama wakhe ukuba atyelele, ushiye abantwana ngosuku lokutyelela ugogo.
Ukuze singalonakalisi ubudlelwane nonina, sidinga imizamo yabantu abathathu: wena, umyeni wakho nonina. Yiba nesineke kwaye ubulumko, qwalasela iminqweno yamacala amathathu: owakho, indoda yakho noninazala. Kwaye ke akudingeki uzibuze ukuba ungayonakalisi njani ubudlelwane nonina.