Umhlobo wakho omhle ngumfana

Umhlobo wakho omhle ngumntu oqhelekileyo kwaye ngubani owathi intombazana enesithandwa ayinakuba ngabahlobo? Akunjalo ... Unayo intombi yamantombazana, onokuboniwa ngalo ngalunye suku, ukuxoxa ngeengxaki zakho, ukusila iiklasi kunye nokusela ikhofi kwindawo epholileyo ekhoneni. Bayazi kwaye bakuqonda. Kodwa ngenxa yezizathu ezithile, inkampani enye yabasetyhini akwanele kuwe. Yaye xa ubuyela ekhaya ngokuhlwa, uthabatha ngokuzenzekelayo ifowuni uze udibanise inombolo yomntu owaziwayo. Ingaba ngumhlobo wakho wobuntwana (kwimibhobho yasegadi yimi ecaleni), ummelwane (oneminyaka eyikhulu ubudala ahlala kwaye azi yonke into ngomnye nomnye), isihlobo (samanzi asixhenxe kwi-kissel, kodwa zonke iiholide zesikolo zichithwa kunye nogogo) okanye xa sithandana wena ungenakho ukulungelelanisa umntu osemncinci (bekude kudala, kwangoko kudlulile ukuba sele ungakhumbuli ukuba unxibelelana kangakanani na iminyaka emininzi, kwaye ubuhlobo bakho buhambile kwi-lyric engaqondakaliyo kubahlobo).

IWed Wall. Ngoko thina amantombazana silungiselelwe ukuba sifuna inkxaso yendoda, igxala okanye umonde womntu. Endaweni ethile kwi-subconscious uhlala ngokuqinisekileyo: kungakhathaliseki ukuba kwenzekani (kwi-bulb enefuthe elikhukhulayo), sinalo "udonga lwamatye" (nangona le "udonga" liyimitha kwi-cap), apho ungafihla khona. Kulungile ukuba intsapho inomzali okanye umzalwana omdala okanye othandekayo oya kuzisola aze aqonde. Ukuba akukho nanye, kwaye ubudlelwane nabathandekayo bakho abuyi kubumba, ngoko uya kuhlangula - umhlobo wakho obalaseleyo, kwaye eqinisweni-umhlobo wakho omhle. Umntu oqhelekileyo uya kukuphulaphula, aqonde, ahlekise aze aphule. Kwaye ukugxeka emlonyeni wakhe kwidilesi yakho akuyi kubonwa ngobutshaba - "Emva koko, ufuna into engcono."

"Ngomhlobo wakho omhle" unomdla oqhelekileyo, unako ukuzonwabisa kwaye usebenzise ixesha ngokufanelekileyo kwaye ungaze udideke omnye nomnye. Ewe, ukuba kunjalo. Kodwa kunjalo - qaphela. Emva koko, njengoko siyazi, sibona oko sifuna ukukubona. Akayena umhlobo oyinyaniso kwaye ayikho "udonga lwamatye", ukuba: ucela isiluleko kuye - uyathula; ungazange uqale unomdla kwimicimbi kunye neengxaki zakho; Ulibale ukukuhalalisa ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa; Uhlala umbiza kuqala, ubiza kuphela xa efuna into ethile (umzekelo, isishwankathelo sesicatshulwa). Ukuba zonke ezi ngasentla azikho ngaye, kufuneka uvuyiswe. Ngokwenene, umhlobo wakho omhle ngumntu oqhelekileyo. Ngelizwi, umhlobo wenene! Umhlobo ohlala njalo kwaye yonke indawo uya kukuxhasa kwaye ubhetele kunanoma yiliphi na intombi ezinokuphosakela kuzo ziza kunceda ukhethe isipho somfana wakho othandekayo. Zonke "iingenelo" zakho kubomi besilisa - kuyacaca! Ziziphi iibhonasi kuye? Umhlobo wakho omhle-inkwenkwe inezinzuzo ezibalulekileyo - uyazi konke malunga nawe.

Ukutshintshiselwa ngokufanelekileyo. Abafana bahlobo oluhle kunye nathi ngezizathu ezininzi. Okokuqala, imbono yowesifazane ngezinto ezithakazelisayo kumntu onobuqili (kwaye asikho izihlobo nabantu abazizilumko, kunene?). Okwesibini, ukuzisola, ukunyamezela, ukutya-njalo, nceda. Thina, bafazi, sithande kwaye siyakwazi. Okwesithathu, unike iingcebiso malunga nokuthandana nentombazana (into oyithethayo, zeziphi iintyatyambo kunye nezipho ukunika ) - ewe, akukho mbuzo! Ukubonakala okuchanekileyo, utshintsho lomshicilelo - sonke siyi-stylists kunye nabaqulunqi! Mxelele ngezizathu zokubhinqa kwabasetyhini kwaye ucebise ukuba bangakwazi njani ukuthotyelwa ... Ngoko uyazi isoka lakho, njengentombi, inomdla kakhulu. Njengomphumo wale nkqubela "yenkcubeko", ukwaziswa ngazo zonke "iingozi" zobudlelwane phakathi kwesini esahlukileyo. Oku kuya kwenza ukuba kunokwenzeka ukunciphisa ukungaphumeleli kwi-front front to zero. Kodwa kwenzeka kwakhona ukuba wakho umhlobo wakho - umhlobo wakho omhle unokuyeka ukuhlala omnye: ukuvuswa kwemizwa yakho kuya kwenza ukuba uMngane abe nengozi. Yaye ukuba nawe unganamdla, musa ukugxotha kuwe kodwa ungacacisi iimvakalelo - kodwa kuthekani ukuba lo luyintando yangempela?