Umba wesibambiso soqhawulo oluninzi wayevame ukuqwalaselwa kwaye ufundwe. Yintoni efunekayo ukugcina ubudlelwane bosapho? Iingcali zengqondo zijolise kule ngingqi zinokunika iingcebiso ezininzi kubafazi abafuna ukugcina intsapho.
YeBhunga inombolo enye.
Ungacingi ukuba ukufikelela kwindawo ephakamileyo yentlalo kunye nomsebenzi ophezulu uya kukwazi ukubeka endaweni yakho nomyeni wakho nabantwana bakho. Kufuneka ukuba bakwazi ukudibanisa. Kubalulekile ukukhumbula ukuba ibhinqa kufuneka ihlale ibeka phambili kwintsapho yakhe. Kwakhona, kufuneka ulandele umbala wakho, kunye nezambatho. Emva koko, umfazi kufuneka ahlale epheleleyo.
YeBhunga inombolo yesibini.
Intsapho enobungane kakhulu - akusiyo isipho senzuzo okanye inhlanhla. Akuxhomekeke kwimeko. Inyani kukuba unokukwazi ukwakha intsapho efanelekileyo kuphela. Konke kwaye kuxhomekeke kuwe. Nasiphi na isidalwa sabantu sidinga umzamo omkhulu kunye nobuchule. Kubalulekile ukuphawula ukuba ukusuka kwintombi apha apha yonke into incike kakhulu kunomntu.
YeBhunga inombolo yesithathu.
Akukho nentsapho ikhuselwa kukucaciswa kobudlelwane, ukungabonakali kwimbono, eyona mhlaba wokuvela kwempikiswano okanye umniki. Ngeli nqanaba, kufuneka ukhangele ityala kuphela kuwe, kwaye kumyeni kuphela ekuphenduleni kokugqibela. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kulula ukufumana ukusilela. Kukho nawuphi na, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uvakalelwa njani ngeli xesha, awukwazi ukuxhomekeka kwimpembelelo yabo. Emva koko, into ehlambalazayo ithetha ngxabano. Kuphela uza kuxolelana, kwaye amagama akho aya kukhunjulwa.
YeBhunga inombolo yesine.
Khangela kufuphi nesiqingatha sakho sesibini, ugxininise iimpawu zakhe ezintle, imilinganiselo, kwaye ungaphoswa ithuba, xelela umyeni wakho malunga nalo, oko ubona kuye. Xa abantu beva malunga nemilinganiselo yabo, kuba yinto yokukhuthaza ukuziphatha kakuhle kwixesha elizayo, ukukhuthaza ukuphucula ngokwabo kwaye ibe yimini ibe ngcono. Kwakhona, xa kunokwenzeka, zama ukukhumbuza umhlobo wakho omhle malunga nokuba uhamba kangakanani ukuthabatha imifanekiso. Indumiso kule meko iyomeleza uthando lwakhe. Kwimeko nayiphi na imeko, ezo ziphononongo ziphakamisa umoya, umoya womoya kunye nomoya ngokubanzi.
YeBhunga inombolo yesihlanu.
Zama ukuhlala unesimo sengqondo esihle, ngaphandle kokugubungela endlwini, ngaphandle kokubonakalisa ukucaphukisa, nangona kukho izizathu zento. Kungenxa yokuba ukuba usoloko unesimo sengqondo esonwabileyo, umyeni wakho unako ukumazi ngokukhawuleza. Yena, akunakukhathalela ngaphantsi kwakho. Cinga ngalo, ngoku kutshanje, uzame ukuphumelela kwaye uyaphupha ngelinye ilanga, imini iya kuza xa uza kutshata kwaye uvuke imihla ngemihla. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, le mini ifikile kwaye niye kunye, kwaye akukho nto ayifanele iluphelise ulwalamano lwakho.
YeBhunga inombolo yesithandathu.
Ukuba kwenzeke ukuba kwicala liye laphazamisa intsebenziswano, kunye nomhlobo, ungavumeli oku kuphazamise ubudlelwane bakho beentsapho. Akukho imfuneko ukuguqula iindibano eziqhelekileyo. Yiba nesibindi, ucinga ukuba unento engcono kuneqabane lakho. Le mpazamo, kuba akukho bantu abafanelekileyo. Kwaye, mhlawumbi, ukuba uyayazi kufuphi, uya kuqonda oku. Kwakhona, kuyafaneleka ukuba uqaphele ukuba ukudlala ngothando kwicala kuya kuba nempembelelo engalunganga kulwalamano lwenu lwangempela. Ekubeni uya kuba neengxaki zokuhlala. Ngoko, musa ukuvumela oku.
Inani leBhunga lesixhenxe.
Xoxa abantwana kubabawo. Musa ukucacisa ubuhlobo ebusweni babantwana, emva koko, igunya lakhe emehlweni abo liza kuphela. Abantwana kufuneka bavuselele uthando ngoyise. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuphatha abazali bakho ngomfazi. Ngokuqinisekileyo umyeni wakho uyawuxabisa.
Cetyisa i sibhozo.
Naziphi na izigqibo ezibalulekileyo kufuneka ziqwalaselwe kwaye zithathwe ndawonye. Umlingane wakho kufuneka abe nomuvo wokuthi uluvo lwakhe lubalulekile kuwe, ukuba uya kuluxabisa. Mhlawumbi, ngenxa yoko, isigqibo sakho siya kuvunywa, kodwa kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukubonisana nomyeni wakho kuyo nayiphi na imiba.
YeBhunga inombolo yesithoba.
Ungabonakali umona wakho, nokuba nomona onomona. Yiba nethemba kuwe kunye nomfazi wakho ikhulu leepesenti. Ukuvuma kukuba ngowona mpawu ezibalulekileyo zobuhlobo bakho.
YeBhunga inombolo yeshumi.
Naliphi na izicatshulwa ezichazwe ngasentla akufanele zithathwe ngokoqobo. Unqamle zonke iimvakalelo zakho neemfuno zakho, ube yikhoboka, elikhupha ngokupheleleyo kwaye lidibanise isidima sayo? Ewe, oku kungenjalo. Umbono wakho wokwenene ubaluleke kakhulu. Emva kwakho konke, konke oku ngasentla kufuneka kusebenze kwiqabane lakho. Ngoko ke, mcele ukuba enze into efanayo kuye, kodwa oku akufanele kube yimfuneko, kodwa kunoko, ukuba ubonisa ingqalelo efanayo kumadolo, uya kufumana okufanayo ngokubuyisela.