Oku kunokumiselwa kwisimo sethu sengqondo ngokuphathelele umnqweno wesifazana ukuzikhethela ebomini, ukukhetha imeko yakhe yentlalo.
Ngoko, ngubani lona, umfazi waseRussia wamanje? Inzima kangakanani indima yabesifazane kunye nomama kwiRashiya yanamhlanje?
Nazi ezinye zezinto ezixhaphakileyo eziqhelekileyo malunga nabasetyhini: kufuneka ahlale ekhaya nabantwana baze bapheke isobho; ibhinqa i-priori ayinalo izakhono zenkokheli; ukuhlala rhoqo emsebenzini akufakelisi ekukhuliseni abantwana, ukugcina indlu ihlambulukile; Iipolitiki ayibhizinisi lomfazi.
Inxaxheba yabasetyhini kuluntu ihlolwa ngeendlela ezimbini: okokuqala, kubaloo manani asemthethweni. Okwesibini, le ngcaciso yedatha yoluntu yoluntu.
Ngokwezibalo zango-2002, inani labafazi baseRashiya ngokwemigangatho yepesenti ngu-53.5%. Phakathi kwabo, ama-63% asebenza ngabasetyhini, kwaye kuphela ama-49% amadoda asebenzayo. Zithini na ezi zityhilo? Abafazi abasemsebenzini abanezemfundo ephakamileyo ababandakanyekayo kwimisebenzi yabo banokuphindwa kabili ukuba bahlale bengenamntwana njengabasetyhini abazinikezele ekuqaleni kwilungiselelo lekhaya. Ngokwezibalo zokubala, umyinge weminyaka yokuzalwa kwamazibulo kunye "nabaqeqeshi bemisebenzi" iminyaka engama-29, kunye nabasetyhini - abaneminyaka emi-24.
Kuya kuba lunomdla ukuqaphela ukuba e-Russia inani labasetyhini nge-degree, kwaye oku ngaba ootitshala, izazinzulu, zigqithise ngaphezu kwamanani ehlabathi.
Kwaye akusilo umda. Njengoko bethetha, akukho mda wokuphelela!
Ngokwimiselo kaMongameli weRussia Federation No. 337 ka-04.03.1993 "Kwizinto eziPhambili kuMgaqo-nkqubo weSizwe kwaBasetyhini," kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa ukuthatha inxaxheba kwabasetyhini kwimisebenzi kawonkewonke kunye nemisebenzi yabasemagunyeni emhlabeni. Ukuze kuphunyezwe le Myalelo ngokwenza, iikomiti kunye neekomishoni zokukhuselwa kwabasetyhini, abantwana kunye nonina ngokubanzi, zakhiwe kuwo onke amanqanaba karhulumente eRashiya, kubandakanywa namanqanaba asekuhlaleni. Ngo-1997, iKhomishoni yoPhuculo lwaBasetyhini yasungulwa. Nangona kunjalo, ngelanga, ngo-2004 kwaphela ukuba kukho. Kodwa ke, oomama baseRashiya baye bazuza kwaye bagcina ithuba lokuthatha inxaxheba ngokuthe ngqo kwimpilo yezopolitiko kweli lizwe kwaye basebenze kumaziko karhulumente ngokubambisana namadoda.
Kukho uluhlu olupheleleyo lwezenzo eziqhelekileyo nezomthetho zaseRussian Federation ezilawulwa ngamalungelo amabhinqa eRashiya yanamhlanje: iSicwangciso seNkqubo soZwelonke soPhuhliso lwaBasetyhini nokuPhakamisa iNdima yabo kuMbutho, evunyiweyo nguMyalelo No. 1032 kaRhulumente weRussia Federation ka-Agasti 29, 1996; Ingcamango yokuqhubela phambili kwabasetyhini kwi-Russian Federation, evunywe nguRhulumente weRussia Federation ka-8 Jawari 1996 No. 6; UMthetho we-Federal of 15.11.1997 "Kwizenzo zobume bembambano"; Umbono wokwenza umthetho wokuqinisekisa amalungelo alinganayo namathuba alinganayo amadoda namabhinqa, avunywe ngo-1997; Isibonelelo esilinganiselweyo kwiziko leengxaki ekuncedeni kwabasetyhini, eshicilelwe njengesihlomelo kuMyalelo weSebe lezeMisebenzi kunye noPhuhliso loLuntu lweRussia Federation ka-10 Julayi 1997 No. 40.
Kwimiba yobumama kwiRashiya yanamhlanje, kubalulekile ukugxininisa ukuba ngaphambili, ngexesha leSoviet Union, indima yomama unina kuluntu lube lukhulu kakhulu. Yaye nangona oomama abazange banikezwe ngoko, igunya lakhe laxhaswa ngumsebenzi okhutheleyo.
Umfazi kunye nomama kwiRashiya yanamhlanje akuyiyo nje ingcamango yentlalo, yinto yenkcubeko engabonakaliyo kunye neyoko "yenkcubeko", ukufundwa kwayo kunye nokubonakalisa kwayo ngokuziwayo kwindoda yekhulu lama-XXI kwimeko yethu yentle ingxamisekileyo yentlalo.
Kule nqanaba lokuphuhliswa kwendalo yentsapho yaseRashiya, ukubonakala kwabantwana, njengoko kuboniswe ngaphambili, kuhla emva kwexesha elide, ngokuqhelekileyo abafazi bathanda "ikhishini" lomsebenzi.
Kwizinto zokuzimela kwamabhinqa kuze kube yimini, kukho iindlela ezimbini ezibalulekileyo. Omnye wabo usebenze uluntu. Yaye enye, njengoko usenokuba uqikelele, yilungiselelo kunye nokugcinwa kwekhaya lentsapho, ukuzalwa nokukhuliswa kwabantwana. Wonke umfazi ufumana iindlela zakhe zokuzimelela ebomini bakhe.
Umbuzo onzima - yintoni enzima kunzima: ukwakha umsebenzi okanye ube ngumama omhle, umfazi oyisibonelo? Ukuzalwa kwabantwana akubonakali kunzima kakhulu kubafazi abaninzi namhlanje. Abafuni iindlela ezilula.
Kodwa ke, kukho abo bakulungele ukuyeka yonke imisebenzi, impumelelo, kwisibingelelo sovuyo lwentsapho nokuchuma. Njengoko bathi "uKesare kaKesare". Ekugqibeleni, ubomi bentsapho yabazali bakhe bendima indima ebalulekileyo ekukhuliseni intombazana. Emva kwayo yonke into esemncinci, abafazi abancinci bakhiwa imiqondo kunye neengcamango malunga neentsapho zabo zekamva, njengoko zicinga.
Kuthekani ukuba ummandla wekhaya lentombazana encinci ishiya into enqwenelekayo? Ngubani oza kumnceda ngokukhetha? Ngokuqhelekileyo, aba bantu abaselula banomfanekiso ombi woluvo lwe "intsapho" njengaloo ndlela, kukho izihlandlo zokuziphatha okungahambiyo kule ndlela. Abantombazana abancinci babulala kuphela. Bacinga ukuba abayi kukwazi ukubonelela ngononophelo kunye noluthando olufunekayo. Kodwa oku kungaphezulu kokulawula. Isiko soomama sibandakanywa kumfazi ngokwasemvelo ngokwawo. Kwaye akukho baninzi abangenawo okanye abanakho ngokwaneleyo ukuphuhliswa.
Kukho amabhinqa abesaba ukukhulelwa ngenxa yokuba unokuchaphazela impilo yabo, ukubukeka. Kodwa iinyani zithetha zona. Ukukhulelwa kukuphucula kuphela umfazi, okwenza umfanekiso wakhe uphumelele emehlweni omntu, kunye nomntu obaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakhe - indoda ekulungele ukumbathisa intanda yakhe.
Ukucaphula konke oku ngasentla, sinokuthi enye into. KwiRashiya yanamhlanje kumfazi wesimanje kukho iindlela ezininzi zokwakha ubomi bakho ngokwakho, iphethini ngalinye. Izibini ezitshatileyo, kukho iinqununu zomama kunye neenkqubo ezininzi zokuxhasa iintsapho eziselula. Kubafazi bamashishini, zonke iingcango kuzo zonke iindawo zomsebenzi wobugcisa zivulekile.
Okukhethwa nguwe!