I-Dowry yenkomo inokugubha ngokukhululeka iziseko zemali yeentsapho: izambatho, i-stroller, i-diapers, izixhobo, iitys, izitya - uluhlu lubonakala luphela. Kodwa ngaba kunjalo? Abazali abanolwazi bathi: ngokucwangcisa kakuhle, iindleko zinokunqunyulwa kwisiqingatha okanye zihlandlo ezintathu.
Yenza uluhlu lwezinto eziyimfuneko, uluhlule kumaqela ahlukeneyo kwaye uhlalutye ngokucophelela indawo nganye. Ungathengi into ebonakala ngathi iyimfashini okanye inhle kuwe-yabelana ngeengcamango zokubaluleka kunye nokufuneka. Iintonga zee-multicolored kunye neesethi ze-flannel diapers zomntwana ziya kuza, kodwa ngaphandle kwama-lacy amaphepha kunye nomnxeba ngomculo wombala, unokuyenza. Ukuba unomdla okwenkcenkcesha okanye uhlakule umbhoxo ojongene neenjongo ezahlukeneyo-khangela kwiindawo ezizodwa ze-intanethi ukuthengiswa kwezinto eziphathekayo ngeesibini: iingubo zezingane zihlala zinikezelwa kwiimeko ezintle kwaye zixabiso eliqingatha ukusuka kwindleko yokuqala.
Musa ukubeka isitotho kwimpahla emininzi "yokukhula". Iziqulatho kunye nezokhuseleko, ngokuqinisekileyo, zikhangele iikethi ezikhangayo, kodwa akukafaneli ukulahlekelwa yintloko. Umntwana ungeze ukwanda kunye nobunzima obungenalutho - kungenzeka ukuba iikiti ezigcinwe ngokucophelela ziya kuhlala zingasuswa. Ukuba awukwazi ukuchasa ukuthengwa kwezenzo, zama ukuthengisa i-surplus kuzo zonke iisayithi ezifanayo ze-intanethi okanye iifom zabazali.
Musa ukuwela kumgibe wabathengisi. Izivakalisi ezikhangayo kunye nokukhangisa okukhawulezayo kunokukwenza ukuba uthenge into ongayifuni ukususela ekuqaleni. Yingakho uluhlu luyimfuneko: qhosela njalo xa wenza i-oda kwaye uthabathe kunye nawe, uye kwiivenkile.