Umzali hyperopece: iimpawu ezintathu zokuxhalabisa

Ukunyamekela ngokweqile akuyona into elula: ngokukhuseleka okubonakalayo, kufana nomoya olilibaziseko. Imiphumo yayo ayinakupheka kwaye iyonakalisa ingqondo yengane yomntwana. Ukuba uzibonele ngaphakathi kuwe umnqweno wokulawula zonke izenzo zentsana ngaphandle kwexesha -kuyixesha lokucinga malunga nolu hlobo luni lwemfundo oluchaphazelekayo.

Awushiyi umntwana wedwa ngomzuzu. Uchazela ukuba uqaphele ukwesaba okufanelekileyo: i-crumb ingawa, ingcolile, ibuhlungu. Kodwa izazi zengqondo zithi umntwana kufuneka enze oku: ngoko uyazi imida "yakhe" kunye nehlabathi elijikelezile. Uya kufuneka ukwamkele oku - okokuba, uthatha zonke izilumkiso eziyimfuneko.

Uza kusombulula ngokukhawuleza nayiphi na ingxaki ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba komntwana - nokuba ingquzulwano kwi-kindergarten, i-scratch encane okanye iqhosha elingaxilwanga. Iimeko ezinzulu, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, zifuna ukungenelela kwakho, kodwa ezingabalulekanga - umntwana ngokwakhe kufuneka anqume. Ngaphandle kokuba ushiye ikhefu lekhefu lokuzimela, ukhulisa kuyo ukungaqiniseki, ukwesaba, ukukhathazeka kunye nobuvila obuvakalelwa. Umntwana okhulileyo akayi kukwazi ukwenza izigqibo aze athwale uxanduva kubo - oku akunjalo nento oyifunayo.

Unqwenela ukulawula kuphela izenzo, kodwa neemvakalelo zomntwana. Inokwenzeka ukuba, unesaba "ukuphosa" umntwana - kodwa le mbambano ayicombululi ukukhushulwa. Eyona nto ingcono ukwakha uxhulumano olufudumele. Oku kunamandla kakhulu, kodwa ngexesha elifanayo - lithembeke ngokupheleleyo: umntwana usenokukuthemba ngokukhuselekileyo iingcinga kunye neminqweno.