Abazali abaninzi baqwalasela amanyathelo okuqala ekuphuhliseni imimandla njengemigangatho ebalulekileyo ekuphuhliseni imvuthu, kwaye oku kuyinyaniso: emva koko, ukunyaniseka kudibanisa ezininzi izakhono eziyinkimbinkimbi kunye ezibalulekileyo ezifundwa ngumntwana kunyaka wokuqala wobomi.
Kodwa ngexesha elinye kufuneka likhunjulwe: okwenziweyo, umcimbi obalulekileyo, umfana omncinci ufunda ubuninzi bezakhono ezingekho ngokucacileyo kumlenze womzali, nangona zonke zibaluleke kakhulu kwaye zinamanyathelo athile ekuphuhlisweni. Ngaphezu koko, ukubonakala kwezi zixhobo okanye ezinye izakhono zintsimbi kunokuthetha okuninzi malunga nokuphuhliswa komntwana kunye nempilo yakhe, kunye nokukhuthaza ukuba kwenzeke, asiyikuncedisa kuphela umntwana ukuba athuthuke ngokwenyama, kodwa, kwaye kusondeza ukuqonda ezinye izakhono ezibalulekileyo. Enyanisweni, ukuphuhliswa komntwana ngamnye kumntu ngamnye, kunye nayo yonke imigangatho - oku nje isikhokelo kubazali. Nangona kunjalo, kusenqweneleka ukuyibeka ingqalelo kubo kwaye, ukuba kuyimfuneko, ncedisa i-crumb ukuba ifunde amanyathelo abalulekileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, sibeka isiseko esisisiseko sokuphuhliswa okuqhubekayo kokuphuhliswa komzimba kunye nokuqonda kwendoda encinane.
Izimfihlelo zempumelelo
Ngethuba lokuqala kunyaka wokuphila, izigaba zokuphuhliswa zilula ngokubanzi. Uza kukhangela ngokulula ukuba i-crumb leyo isandul 'ukuxhaphaza ngokukhawuleza izinto, iqalisa ukunikela ixesha elincinci kunye nomzamo kule sifundo, kodwa iyakwazi ukuqonda kakuhle ukukhupha. Kwixesha elizayo, izakhono ezincinci kunye neenjini ezinkulu ziza kuphuhliswa ngokufanayo, ziza kugxininisa oku okanye loo ndawo. Ukuphuhliswa kweemoto zomntwana kudibaniswa neenkqubo ezininzi ezinzima kwiinkalo zokudibanisa iimbilini. Ngoko ke, ukuba umntwana ufunda isakhono ngokulibaziseka, oku kuyisigxina sokuxilonga kwi-crumb of child's, kwaye ithuba lokuba abazali bancede umntwana abhekane nale ngxaki.
Amanqanaba endlela ende
Ngokwemimiselo, ukuphuhliswa kwengane kunyaka wokuqala wobomi kunokwahlula kwiinqanaba eziliqela.
- Iinyanga ezintathu zokuqala
Kwiimvuthu ezithuthukisayo zentuthuko yemoto. Ingane ifumana imiqondiso eyahlukahlukeneyo evela kwimeko, idibanisa abantu abahlukeneyo kunye nezinto. Kancinci, uqala ukuqaphela ukuba izitho zakhe zingayithobela imithetho yakhe neminqweno yakhe. Kule nqanaba, indoda encinci ifunda ukulawula ukuhamba kwezandla kunye neenyawo.
- Iinyanga ezintathu ukuya ezintandathu
Izakhono zamandla ezincinci ziphuhlisa ngakumbi. Umntwana ufunda ngokuzenzekelayo ukuba neminwe yakhe kwaye enze ukunyakaza okulula kunjengekuthabatha ngamathoyizi ngokuzithandela.
- Ukususela kwiinyanga ezintandathu ukuya kweyisithoba
Enye ukuxhamla ekuphuhliseni izakhono ezinkulu zezithuthi. U-Kroha uqala ukulungelelanisa ukunyakaza kweengwenya, imilenze nomzimba, ufunda ukujika, ufike kuzo zonke ezine, udibanise. Emva koko uqala ukulungiselela ukuhamba kakuhle: ufunda ukuvuka, ukuhambisa imilenze yakhe. Umntwana omncinci akasenayo i-motor stereotypes, oko kukuthi, ngokuthetha ngokwemfuziselo, wenza intsebenzo yokucinga nganye ntshukumo, kwaye akahambanga njengomntu omdala, "kumatshini." Ngoko ke, ngamanye amaxesha umntwana unokukwazi nokuba afune ukubonisa into ethile, bonisa ukuba Ukuphuhliswa kweemoto ezisebenzayo, ngaphezu kwe "program" ehambelana nayo yonke into, intsana ifuna indawo efanelekileyo apho ingahlakulela khona, kunye nesishukumiso esifanele esenza ukuba sihambe, simtsalane. Emva koko, umntwana ophilileyo, ogcinwe kwisikhumba, engadlala naye, akabonakalisi entsha kwaye unomdla, akayi kukhula ngokuqhelekileyo. Kwakhona kufuneka sikhumbule ukuba nayiphi na umntu ifuna inkxaso yemoya kubathandekayo ukuze kuphumelele. Kwaye nosana lwakho alukho. Nantsi imimiselo yenkqubo yokuphuhlisa imoto kunyaka wokuqala wobomi.
- 0 ukuya kweenyanga ezintathu
Kule nqanaba, inkwenkwe ibonakala iyisidenge, idla kuphela, ilala kwaye yenza izinto ezinkulu kunye ezincinci. Nangona kunjalo, eqinisweni, uyayifumana kwaye ayayiqonda ingakanani yemali evela kwihlabathi langaphandle. Ngethuba leveki zokuqala zobomi, usana alukwazi ukugxuma ngokukhawuleza ekuphuhliseni, lithatha ixesha lokuzilungelelanisa kwiimeko zokuphila kwangaphandle. Emva koko uba nomdla kwihlabathi elikujikelezile. 9 Yifunde ntoni le ncinane? Ekuqaleni, uvele esetyenziselwa izitho ezintsha zengqondo, ufunda ukubamba iqhosha, ukuvakala, ukucofa, ukukhanya kunye nombala. Emva koko uyaqala ukuphendula kubo. Kancinci ufunda ukujonga izinto, ulandele ngokujonga, uphendule intloko, ubambe.
• Yintoni endiyifunayo? Zama ukuba ungadluli ngento entsha. Xa kuninzi kakhulu kubo, inkqubo ye-nervous baby ingaphumeleli. Xoxa ngakumbi ngentsana, mbonise amathoyizi athandwayo, ngokuqhelekileyo agqoke kwiipenki. Ukuba unomdla kwinto kwaye ubonisa oku ngekhangelo, sondeza kwisihloko, nceda unxibelelwano, ndixelele ukuba yintoni. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukuzonwabisa ngomntwana odeleyo okanye olilayo. Yenze u-cosiness noxolo.
Imoto kunye nempilo
Njalo uxhasa intloko yengane. Ukuba umntwana wakho uyakhala kakhulu, ukuba uhlushwa yi-colic, zama ukuphepha ininzi yezinto ezinqabileyo, ncokola nodokotela wezilwanyana onobuchule kunye ne-children's masseuse okanye i-osteopath-mhlawumbi ukulungelelaniswa nobomi obungasetyenziswanga ngokungahambi kakuhle ngendlela enokuthanda ngayo, kwaye iimvakalelo ezingathandekiyo zithintela umntwana ukuba angaphumeleli.
- Iinyanga ezintathu ukuya kwezi-6
Kule nqanaba, inkunzi iqhube kakuhle ukuphuhlisa izakhono zezithuthi kwaye iqalisa ukwenza izinto ezininzi ezinentsingiselo. Ekupheleni kweli xesha, abantwana abaninzi baqala ukuqonda kakuhle iimbambo kwaye bazama ukwenza iingcamango zomzimba eziyinkimbinkimbi, besabela kwisandi, abanye baqala ukujika.
Yintoni efundwa encinci?
Ingane iqala ukudlala ngeepenki kunye nemilenze: ibamba ngesandla esinye ngeminwe yomnye, iyazibamba imilenze, idonsa izandla kunye neenyawo emlonyeni wakhe. Kancinci, ufunda nokuthatha izinto zangaphandle. Ekuqaleni, akanakubamba iqhosha lokuba uyifake ebhaleni lakhe, kwaye uqala ngokuzithemba ngokuzithemba ngokwakho, aze azame ukuyisebenzisa, ngamanye amaxesha azibethe ngetinga elingaphumeleli. Kwaye emva kancinci, ngokukodwa xa amazinyo aqala ukuqhuma, i-crumb iya kutsho yonke into emlonyeni. Ukongeza kokuxhalaba, oku kufuneka kubangele uvuyo: umntwana wenza inzululwazi ehambelana nentsingiselo. Yintoni endiyifunayo? Iintsana zidinga indawo yokuqeqesha ukusetyenziswa kwezixhobo ezibonakalayo kunye nezakhono zokuhamba. Umntwana kufuneka akwazi ukufikelela into aze ahlekise. Ukuqala, i-mobile iyakulungeleka, ithoyiphu inokubethwa ngama-handles xa ilele kumqolo wayo. Inkuthazo yaloo mi sebenzi ingaba isandi esimnandi, sikhuthaze ukunyakaza okuchanekileyo, umzekelo, insimbi. Nangona umntwana wakho engazi kakuhle ukuthunjwa kwezinto, kufuneka afumaneke lula. Zama ukubeka izinto kwisithuthi kwizikhundla ezahlukileyo: kungekhona nje phambi kwamehlo omntwana, kodwa nakwesobunxele, ngakwesokudla, ukukhuthaza iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zokuhamba. Kuza kulungisa ngokuthe ngcembe i-crumb for the development of the turn.
• Imisebenzi yemoto kunye nempilo. Ukuba umntwana akanakuchukumisa kwiimidlalo kwiinyanga ezi-4, akazami ukufikelela kwizinto eziphetheyo (akayikubetha umama ebusweni, akayidlala nemilenze yakhe, njl.), Kufuneka uxoxe nodokotela. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ngeenyanga ezithandathu, umncinci kufuneka akwazi ukuguqula kwisisu esisemva nasemva kwisisu. Ukuze uvuselele, yenza umdlalo kunye neetayiti eziqhelekileyo kunye ezingavamile, yenza imisebenzi eyahlukeneyo eya kumxelela indlela yokuhamba kakuhle. Umzekelo, umntwana olele emhlane angadla ngamadolo ngomnye umlenze ecaleni lakhe - emva kokugqiba inkqubo ngencedo lomzimba kwaye uyaqonda indlela eyiyo ngayo.
6 ukuya kweenyanga 9
Kule nqanaba, inkunzi ifunda ukujika kuyo yonke indawo, hlala uhlale. Uphuhliso lwayo lukhula, kwaye ngokwenene awukwazi ukuqhubeka nalo: yonke imihla kukho into entsha! 9 Yifunde ntoni le ncinane? Xa ufunde ukukhupha, umntwana ufunda ukuhlala phantsi. Gcina ukhumbule ukuba bonke abantwana benza oku ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Unqabile kakhulu umntwana angakwazi ukuhlala phantsi emhlane ngenxa yemisipha yesisu nesemva. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo, i-crumb iyagubungela, incedisa ngeengalo nemilenze. Ngokuqhelekileyo emva koko, uzama ukufikelela kuzo zonke ezine, nangona abanye abantwana bekhetha ukukhwela ixesha elide ePlastun. Ukuma kuzo zonke iine, umntwana akanakukukhawuleza ngokukhawuleza - kusenzima kakhulu. Ekuqaleni, iya kuguqula ixesha elide, ukwenza ezininzi ukunyakaza. Ekupheleni kwinyanga yesithoba, ininzi abantwana bayabetha ngokuzithemba, kwaye abanye bazama ukuma kunye nenkxaso. Yintoni endiyifunayo? Nangona into yokuba uphuhliso - into ekhethekileyo, yinto enqwenelekayo ukuvuselela imvuthu, ukwenzela ukuba iphume kwinqanaba lokukhwela. Iingcali ziqinisekile: oku kubaluleke kakhulu ekuphuhlisweni kwayo nasekuqeqesheni imisipha. Umntwana kufuneka akhuthazwe ukuba anqumle, amnike inkululeko yokunyakaza kwiphephe kunye nokutsala umdlalo onomdla. Kukho iindlela ezininzi zokukhawulela, kukho izinto ezingabonakaliyo ezinokuziphazamisa udokotela wezingane. Ngokuqhelekileyo umntwana kufuneka ahambise yonke imilenze kakuhle, ukunyakaza kufuneka kuhambelane. Bonke abantwana abanqwenela ukuhlala. Abanye baqala ukukhwela ngaphambi kokuba bahlale phantsi. Oku kuya kufuneka ukuba kuxelwe ugqirha ngexesha loviwo. Ukunyanzela ukuba uhlale phantsi, ukuba akafuni, akuyimfuneko. Ukuba wayengenayo injongo engathandekiyo kwixesha lokuhlala, wayeyisebenzisa ngokuzonwabisa. Ugqirha onobungcali uya kukuxelela ukuba usebenzise izixhobo eziqinisa imisundu, ubeke iseshoni yesistim, njl njl. Imoto kunye nempilo. Khumbula ukuba abantwana abapheleleyo banzima ukuhamba kunokuthi "bait." Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukuzaliseka komntwana kubangelwa ukungondleki, nangona kukho ezinye izizathu, ukuba kunjalo ukuba umntwana wakho ukhulu kakhulu, uthetha ugqirha ukumbona kwesi sihloko. Kubalulekile ukuba i-crumb iza kuba neendawo ezizimeleyo zokuhamba, yenza konke umzamo wokwenza ikhaya lakho okanye ubuncinci igumbi labantwana elikhuselekileyo kwi-slider encinci. Ukukwazi komntwana ukulawula umzimba wakhe, uvuyo lwentsebenzo yakhe luyamnceda ufundise iimpawu ezintle zomdlali.
- Ukususela kwiinyanga ezili-9 ukuya kwezi-12
Ingane kumgca wokugqibela ukuya kumanyathelo okuqala. Musa ukugijimela, ungayifaki kwimilenze, ukuba ayifuni. Ukuphinda kube yinkqubo enzima kakhulu, kwaye kufuneka ilungiswe kakuhle. Ukuba umntwana usebenza ngokukhawuleza kwaye ngokumangalisayo, kodwa akazami ukuhamba-akukhathazeki, kulungile. Ukukhahlela kuyaluncedo kwimisipha nokuphuhliswa kwenkqubo ye-nervous.
• Ufunda ntoni umntwana? Kancinci, inyane liyakwazi ukuba liyakwazi ukufuduka. Uzama ukukhwela embhedeni ophantsi, ufunda ukuvuka. Kule meko, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukukhuselwa kwayo (umzekelo, ukugubungela amabala kunye nesithuba kwinqanaba le sofa), kwaye ungagcini ukuhamba. Kuyinto enhle ukuba umntwana unemiphumo ekhuthazayo eyahlukeneyo: amathoyizi elele kwiihlalo kunye ne-sofa, njl. Ukuqeqesha ukuhamba ngeenyawo, unokubeka ithoyiyi ekupheleni kwesinye, xa i-crumb igxila kwenye. Ngesinye isikhathi uya kudinwa ukuwa kwizinto ezine kunye nokukhwela kwinqophiso, kwaye uya kuqala ukuhamba ngamanyathelo okunyuka. Ngokusondeleyo kunyaka, abaninzi abantwana bafuna ukuya epeni, baze benze amanyathelo abo okuzimelela okuqala.
• Yintoni endiyifunayo? Musa ukunyamezela kwaye ungabi mfuneko ukuba umntwana "agqibe" ngaphambi kwexesha, mvumele aqeqeshe ubuchopho kunye nezihlunu ngokukhwela. Ukuhlawula ngokukhethekileyo ukhuseleko. Uninzi lwabantwana kule minyaka luyingozi kunye neengcipheko zokuzalisa ezininzi izigaxa.
• Imisebenzi yemoto kunye nempilo. Abanye abantwana baqala ukuhamba kamva kunontanga yabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo banamacandelo okuphuhlisa awamvumeli ukwenza oku ngaphambili. Musa ukuphelelwa ithemba, kodwa ungakulibali ukuba umsebenzi wenjini uyakuvumela ukuba ugwebe ukuphuhliswa kwenkqubo ye-nervous ngokubanzi -nxibelelwano ne-neurologist enekhono okanye isazi sezingane.