Kwaye kuthekani ngokuchaseneyo? Iseluleko somfazi owaziyo kakhulu, kwaye mhlawumbi wakhulisa ngaphezu komntwana omnye. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ngokucacileyo: umama-mkhwenkwe wakho ucebise ngebanga lokulimaza okanye ukukucasula. Uyamthanda umntwana wakho engaphantsi kwakho kunye nomyeni wakhe, kwaye ufuna ukuba ngandlela-thile abe nxaxheba kulonwabo, obizwa ngokuba "ngumntwana." Iinkcukacha zifunde kwinqaku ngesihloko esithi "Umama-mkhwenyana ukhuphuka ekukhuliseni umntwana".
Oku kunjalo ngokukodwa kubafazi abangabodwa okanye abahlala umhlalaphantsi. Kwaye, ukuba unomnye umva uzame ukushiya okokuqala, ungasondelanga uncedo ngaphambi kokufika koomamazala wakho kwaye uzama ukuba naye "kwinqanaba elinganayo," kuya kwenzeka ukuba wena uya kumangaliswa kwimiphumo yale mini! Kwaye kuya kuba mnandi kwintliziyo - nokuba ukholwa, yikhangele! Ngoko ke, iingcebiso zethu: phulaphula isiluleko somamazala wakho, kodwa kunokuba umbuze into oyifunayo. Intombazana enqwenela kakhulu kunye neyokuzithemba, inokuthi, ukuba uyayikhupha nayiphi na inkwantyi, ithi: "Ndiyakwazi ukusingatha yonke into!" Mhlawumbi, kwaye uya kuhlangabezana nayo, kodwa kungekhona nayo yonke into. Kwaye uthini xa, emva kokutshitshiswa komhla womama onobuhle kunye nenkosikazi, uza kulala embhedeni uze wazi ukuba ngomso kuya kwenzeka kwakhona? Yaye le nto ikunjalo ukuba uya kuziva, kwaye ukuba intlungu emva kokubeleka, utywabile, ukunganakwa? Ngoko kutheni unika uncedo lokwenene xa ungadingi ukuwucela - wonke umntu ulindele imvume yakho. Vumela abancedisi beze ubuncinci iiyure ngosuku.
Ndikholelwe, amacala omabini aya kuphumelela. Kwaye ngenxa yokuba ufundela ngokukhawuleza, mhlawumbi kungekudala umama-mkhwenkwe uya kuba ngumhlobo onobubele, onomusa kwimicimbi yokunyamekela umntwana. Ngendlela, kungenxa yoko ukuba ungumlingani wakho! Mbuze, umzekelo, ukuba wenze isidlo sakusihlwa. Uyazi kakade ukuba olu luncedo aluncinci kuncedo ekunakekeleni umntwana. Ngendlela, kungekhona ukuba kwindlela eya kumamazala womakhaya, kuphela, kwaye uvela kwiifantasies, ingaba yintoni isihloko esinomdla ukuba ukhulume. Ngoku ukhathazekile ngeengxaki ezifanayo njengawe: ukhona ubisi obaneleyo umntwana, ubusuku bube bunjani, kwanele ngokwandisa? Futhi ungavumeli udidekile udibanise kwisitya, okanye umhla wokuhlamba umgangatho wesihlanu ongekhoyo, udibanise nawe. Kwakhona kuyafaneleka ukuphinda: unganqikazi ukucela uncedo uze wamukele uncedo! Esi sizathu silula, siyaqondakala kwaye siyaqhagamshelana kakuhle nangaphambili. Emva koko umama-mkhwekazi, owodwa okhalayo kangangokuba wavuka ngo-6 ekuseni, wabona umyeni wakhe, wamisa ucoceko lwe-crystal, kwaye xa umntwana elele emini, wayenaso ixesha lokuhlamba, ukucoceka, kwaye ke, ukupheka i-pie! Ewe, ngokubhekiselele kwimeko yangaphambili yolu hlobo, kubangel 'ukuhlabalala ukulala phambi kwamehlo enje! Musa ukucinga ngako! Uze uphumle ngaphandle komthunzi weentloni. Kalula nje ukuba umntwana ufuna umama onamileyo, ngengqondo entsha, ukulungele ukuqonda nokusabela ngexesha kwiimfuno zomntwana. Umkhwekazi oMoya uya kuqonda yonke into. Ewe, ukuba awuqondi ... Akunjalo yonke imibono yakho kufuneka ihambisane! Thatha njengento kwaye uphumule!
Kwaye ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukuphinda ndiphinda kwakhona zonke iinyaniso ezinqabileyo eziqhelekileyo, esizidla ngokulibala kwiintlungu zeentsuku. Intsapho akuyona nje indoda, umfazi kunye nabantwana. Laba ootatomkhulu, oomalume kunye nonina, abazukulu, abazalwana kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo. Sonke sithandana kwaye sinqwenela kuphela okuhle. Kwaye ukwakha ubudlelwane obuhle, ubudlelwane obuhle ngaphandle kokunxibelelana akunakwenzeka. Ngoko ke, ngokuqhelekileyo udibana, hamba kwiindwendwe zomnye, uthathe amandla kunye nobuthathaka, ungazami ukubonisa into okanye ukubuyisela. Kuyamangalisa ukuba bonke abantu bahluke. Kwaye phambi kokuba uthi "Hayi!" Ekugqibeleni uncedo oluvela kumamazala, khumbula ukuba ngumfazi ozalayo, wazala, wakhupha umntu oyintanda. Umntwana ngoku okhupha ngokukhawuleza kwisibhedlele. Kwaye kwenzeka ukuba umfazi onokungathandabuzekiyo, njengokuba ukhona ngoku, akazange alale ubusuku, wakhupha umntu wakho, akafanelanga ukuba nolonwabo lokuthetha nomntwana wakho? Ngoku siyazi into enokuyenza xa umama-mkhwenyana enyukela ekukhuliseni umntwana.