Makhe sibone ukuba yintoni enye. "Ukunyaniseka" kuyinkcazelo eninzi kakhulu kwaye uthetha ngengxaki yokukhathazeka, kunye nomsebenzi ogqithiseleyo wengane. Ngabantwana, njengomthetho, ezininzi iingxaki. Iingxaki ezinkulu zifuna ukufumana indlela yokubafundisa kunye nokwenqatshelwa luluntu lwabantu abanobuthathaka.
Into ebalulekileyo ukwazi ukuba akukho ugqirha onokukunceda ukujamelana nale ngxaki ngokuthi "ukunyaniseka." Imfundo yabantwana abangakhuselekanga ngokuyinhloko kubazali. Unokukunceda umntwana wakho ukuba abhekane nale ngxaki. Kodwa akulula. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba le syndrome ayiphathwe, kodwa kufuneka ichithwe. Ukwenza oku, kukho indlela yokufundisa abantwana abangenasifo. Okokuqala kwaye ngokubaluleke kakhulu, abazali kufuneka bahlasele ngakumbi abantwana babo, kunokubheka iTV emva komsebenzi. Eli xesha lingasetyenziselwa inzuzo yentsapho kunye nomntwana. Ngokomzekelo, unokwenza umntwana wakho enze udongo okanye udwebe, udibanise iipuzzle okanye nje uncede unomama wakhe ekhitshini ngokuzithoba, uguqule u-daddy bolt eludongeni. Ezi ntshukumo ziya kunceda umntwana ukuba alahle amandla akhe angaphezulu, iimvakalelo kunye nobudlova. Isiphumo siya kuba ebusweni. Usana luya kuba lubala, lukhulu.
Uluntu olujikelezeyo lubona loo bantwana njengabonakalisiweyo, abagulayo kunye nabonakalisiweyo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abazali abaqondi kakuhle umntwana wabo, becinga ukuba lo luphawu lomlingiswa. Bayamgxeka ngenxa yalo. Kodwa le ndlela yemfundo iya kubangela ukuba akukho nto ilungileyo. Uya kuqhubeka ukwandisa ingxaki yomntwana. Akuyi kuba negalelo ekupheliseni ukunyanzelisa nokunyaniseka kwemfundo. Kubalulekile ukufumana ukulungelelanisa. Umsebenzi obaluleke kakhulu womzali UXHALISWA, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo nothando. Ukuthukuthela nomntwana akenzi nto.
Njengomthetho, kunzima kakhulu kuba bantwana abangenasifo sokungakwazi ukufumana ulwimi olufanayo kunye noontanga lwabo. Umntwana uhlala "ngaphaya kwe" inkampani okanye iqela. Kodwa umntwana ufuna ukuthetha!
Inkqubo yemfundo yabantwana abangakhuselekanga kufuneka ikhethwe ngabanye kumntwana ngamnye. Omnye wabazali unako ukunika umntwana esikolweni esikhokhelwa ngasese, umntu oqesha abaqeqeshi kunye nootitshala ababandakanya kwinkqubo nganye.
Ukuba umntwana usebenza kakhulu, oku akusikho isibonakaliso sokuthi umntwana uyabuhlungu ngenxa yokungabikho kwengqalelo ye-syndrome. Isiphetho singanikwa kuphela nge-neuropathologist ekuhloleni ngokucophelela. Ukunyaniseka kuyisifo apho inkqubo ye-nervous ihlupheka, iisensi zeentsimbi zichaphazelekayo.
Ukuqaphela le ngxaki ngaphambili, kuyimfuneko ukuthobela ingqalelo yokuziphatha komntwana kwimimiselo yokuqala yobomi: indlela alala ngayo, idla, nokuba kukho abakhohlisi abangenangqiqo, nokuba uhlala ekhala. Umntwana akakwazi ukugxila, ukungazi. Kodwa, njengomthetho, abazali baqala ukuqonda ukuba umntwana uhlasele ngokukhawuleza, xa umntwana eqala ukuya esikolweni, ehlehla emva kwezifundo ezithile. Ewe, ukuba uqaphele isifo se-nursergen, ngoko ke ngaba ngabazali abanomdla. Kubalulekile ukutshintsha isimo sengqondo kumntwana wakho, ukuhlela iindlela zokukhulisa kwaye ngokuzayo, mhlawumbi, ukuphepha iingxaki esikolweni.
Iingcali zengqondo zincoma ukuba zenze indawo efanelekileyo, ebushushu kumntwana. Ukuba umntwana uyashukunyiswa ngomsindo, vula umculo ozolileyo, xa uthe wabuyela ngokukhawuleza, uthenge isibane ngaphandle kokukhanya okukhanyayo. Kuyimpumelelo kakhulu ukuba umntwana athathe iibheyibhethi, kunye nengcambu ye-valerian ukwenza itiye. Ngaloo mntwana kungcono ukuba ungahambeli indawo ezinomsindo (iimarike, amaqela, iintengiso). Ukubandakanya umntwana kwimidlalo ethule, gxininisa ingqalelo. Iimidlalo ezifanelekileyo ezifana neekhabhi, zenze i-mosaic, imidwebo, umbala, iincwadi zokufunda. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, khuthaza umntwana wakho, kuba uyakunyanzela. Umntwana akufanele asebenze ngokugqithiseleyo - kunokukhokelela ekutshatyalazweni kwemizwa. Phakathi kwemidlalo ethule uvumele umntwana akhuphe kwaye abuyele kwimidlalo yokuzola kwakhona. Ukuqhelana nomntwana kwishedyuli. Oku kuya kumnceda ukubala ixesha lakhe namandla. Kufuneka kubekho ixesha lokutya, ukudlala nokulala. Ngaloo ndlela, umntwana osenkulisa uya kuba lula ukuqheleka kwisenzo.
Xa ufunda ekhaya ukuphucula ukufunda kwezinto, sebenzisa imifanekiso, imidwebo kunye nemifanekiso. Fundisa umntwana wakho ukuba alalele abantu abadala. Mnike amancinci amancinane kwaye ubukele umsebenzi. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, dumisa umntwana wakho rhoqo kangangoko kunokwenzeka, qaphela yonke impumelelo yakhe, vuyela kunye naye. Musa ukumgxeka ukuba umntwana wenza into engalunganga. Futhi uhlale kufuphi nomntwana kwinqanaba lamaso kwaye uchaze oko akwenzileyo.
Bazali abathandekayo, okokuqala into incike kuwe, indlela umntwana angena ngayo kuluntu oludala. Khumbula, into ephambili uthando lwakho nokunyaniseka komntwana kuya kuba njalo!