Ukuthandwa entolongweni

Ngoko ke kwaqhutyelwa eRashiya ngokuqhelekileyo amadoda ethu kunye nabathandekayo bafakwa entolongweni ngenxa yengxowa yeetatate okanye ukuziphatha kakubi kakhulu, ngelixa i-oligarchs kunye namagosa agqiba ukungabi namthetho aze ajeziswe. Kwaye ngoku, abafazi nabamantombazana abaqhelekileyo baseRashiya kufuneka balila baze baxakeke xa umntu othandekayo entolongweni, ecinga indlela yokulinda umntu omthandayo esuka entolongweni. Ngokuqhelekileyo, asinalo ilungelo lokugweba abantu abalethwe ebomini ukuba bathathe isigqibo malunga nezobugebengu, baze bahambe esikolweni esibucayi bentolongweni, beqonda iimpazamo zabo. Khumbula into enye, ukuba umthandwa wakho usetilongweni, ke ungathathi zonke izono ezifayo kwisitye sakhe esele senziwe. Sonke ngabantu kwaye sinelungelo lokwenza iimpazamo, kwaye mhlawumbi sihlupheke kwabanye. Into ebaluleke kakhulu akuyi kudimazeka xa umthandayo ejele. Ubomi bungafani, kodwa xa umntu obathandayo ejele - nguye kuphela umntu onokunika inkxaso. Imbali ibandakanya imizekelo emininzi yamantombazana kunye nabasetyhini abanamadoda azayo xa beza kwimini emva kokuba bahambisane nembalelwano ende kunye nabo, emva kokulinda, badala iintsapho eziqhelekileyo. Mhlawumbi umntu onomthandayo entolongweni, eqonda ukunyaniseka kwakho nothando ngelixa ulindile, akasoze alibale le nto, kwaye ukukhululwa inkululeko yonk

Ngoko xa intanda yakho entolongweni, kufuneka ube nomonde. Khumbula abantu abaninzi belizwe lethu nabo bahamba baya entolongweni. Wena, kunye nomthandane wakho ohlala kwiindawo ezingekho kude, kufuneka uphile, uphinde uphinde uphinde uhlukane ngenxa yexesha lokupheliswa komntu othandekayo entolongweni.

Yikholelwa ukuba xa ufunde itale yakho, umntu obathandayo entolongweni uya kuvuyiswa ubuncinane ukuba awulibali ngaye. Ngoko ke, ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunokwenzeka, bhala iileta, kwaye bakhulume ngabo yonke into enayo entliziyweni yakho kunye neemvakalelo zakho ngaye, uthando. Bhala inyaniso, ngaphandle kokugxininisa imeko xa umthandayo ejele. Akukho imfuneko yokongeza ubuxoki ukucima imeko enzima, eyayiyithandekayo intanda. Amanga abe nepropati yokubuyela. Khumbula ukuba umntu othandwa entolongweni akayena umntu onobuqili ongenqwenela ubomi bokubola emva kokuba akhululwe. Unako, ngelixesha elichithwe entolongweni, jonga kwakhona isimo sakhe sengqondo ebomini. Ukuthandwa entolongweni, mhlawumbi, kwinkwenkwe iya kuba yindoda eneembono zayo ebomini. KUNYE UYA KUFUNA UKUBHUMBULA NGO. Akunakunyulwa ukuba uza kubuya entolongweni umntu ohluke ngokupheleleyo, kwaye awukwazi ukuqhubeka uhlala naye phantsi kophahla olulodwa. Yilungiselele ukuguquka kweziganeko.

Nangona kunjalo, kholosa izithembiso zomntu othandekayo entolongweni emva kokukhululwa kwakho entolongweni ubomi bakho buya kuphucula. Ndiza kunika umzekelo wendlela oku kwenzeka ngayo kwabanye abantu abaye bafumana le nkathazo, xa umntu othandekayo esentolongweni, kwaye ukuguquka kokuphila kungenakupheka.

Elinye ibhinqa, igama lakhe kunye nefayili kuthi, asiyidlali nayiphi na indima, ekubeni le nto ibonakalayo, ibeka umyeni wayo ukuba ayibe ishidi le-slate kwisakhiwo sokwakha. Wayexhomekeka kakhulu kwi-Themis yaseRashiya. Indoda eyayisentolongweni yayingumntu oyedwa kuye, kuba unyana wakhe wafa eminyakeni emibili edlulileyo e-Chechnya. Kodwa inkundla yamgweba umyeni wayo ngokubanzi ngokomthetho, kwaye iminyaka engama-3 yayichitha intanda yakhe entolongweni. Ngeli xesha, uneminyaka eyi-15 ubudala kwaye wabheka iminyaka emashumi mathandathu emva kokukhululwa kwakhe. Wayekhala kakhulu ngobusuku emlanjeni emva komsebenzi onzima, apho wahlwaywa khona ngomyeni wakhe - isela. Nangona kunjalo, wakwazi ukugcina uthando lwakhe kuye.

Xa umntu owayemthandayo entolongweni wabhala iileta ezamcela ukuba angalindi apho, wayephelelwe lithemba. Waya ke kuye. Sathetha. Kwaye ngoku, iminyaka engama-4 idlulile ukususela ekukhululweni kwakhe kwi koloni. Bahlala kunye, beqinisekisa ixesha lokuba uthando lwabo luqine kwaye luhleli ngonaphakade.

Ngoko oomama musa ukuphelelwa lithemba xa wakho umthandayo ejele. Mhlawumbi lo kuphela uvavanyo oluncinci, bobabini bakhe kunye nobomi bakho.