Kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba kule ndlela uza kudibana nomntu onokukunika into ekhoyo ebudlelwaneni bakho nomyeni wakho, kwaye akunandaba nokuba isondo, uthando, ukuvakalelwa kwintswelo okanye, umzekelo, isambatho somboya. Inyaniso yokukrexeza ibalulekile, kwaye xa ukhetha isigqibo ngento enokuphikisana nayo, ubuncinane kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba awubanjwanga, kwaye ukuba kunjalo, umbuzo uvela, indlela yokutshintsha kakuhle umyeni wakhe? Masizame ukuqonda le ngxaki ingezantsi
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba uqhubele phambili ekuqwalaselweni kwezinto ezihlukeneyo "zokuziguqula," kufuneka sixoxe ngelithi uthando alubandakanyeki ekuhlakeleni, mhlawumbi kufuneka ucinge ukuba "bafihle", kodwa malunga nento enokuyenza ngayo ngomtshato wenu. Kwaye lo mbuzo, njengokuba uyazi, eli nqaku aliphenduli.
Ewe, ngoku makhe siqale ukuqwalasela izicwangciso, yintoni enokuyenza, ukwenzela ukuba uhlaselo lwakho alufumaneki. Okokuqala, ndiza kucacisa ukuba siyahlukana ngokukhethekileyo ngamacandelo okungcatshiswa kwexesha elinye kunye nobudlelwane bexesha elide, kuba le nto idinga iindlela ezahlukeneyo zoku "guquza."
Ukungcatsha kwexesha elilodwa.
Ebomini, yonke into eyenzekayo-amaqela, iintlanganiso, iinkampani, ngokubanzi, zonke iintlobo zokuzonwabisa! Kwaye ngoku, xa ungaphantsi kohlobo olumnandi, kulula ukwenza iphutha kwaye ulale kunye nomntu osebenza naye omhle emsebenzini okanye umhlobo wesikolo somdala, kodwa apha into eyona nto ayiyikulahlekelwa yintloko yakho ngokupheleleyo, kufuneka ube negalelo elivumelekileyo ukuba kutheni ulila. Akunjalo kwimeko enokuthi ayinyamalale ixesha elide, ifowuni ayifanele ibe yinde kakhulu, ukuba uhlale ubusuku, kufuneka ufike isizathu sokuxelela umyeni wakhe ngaphambili, kungekhona emva kobusuku. Kwakhona, emva kokubuyela ekhaya kumyeni wakhe, kufuneka uhlale ungene, ungakhathazeki. Njengomthetho, iimvakalelo ezigqithisileyo ezibangela ukukrokra. Ngaphambi kokuza, zizise emfanekisweni wakho wemihla ngemihla, indoda ayifanele iqaphele ukuba unento ethile. Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukutshabalalisa bonke ubungqina obubonakalayo, ukupakishwa kwiikhondom, ukuhlola kwiivenkile kunye nokunye. Kwaye ekugqibeleni, kufuneka uziphatha ngokwemvelo, ngokungathi akukho nto eyenzekayo, kwaye mhlawumbi umyeni akayi kuqiqa into.
Ubudlelwane bexesha elide.
Ukuba unomdla ongunaphakade kwicala, ngoko yonke into kufanele icatshangwe kakuhle, ukungazenzisi kwiimeko ezinjalo kungamkelekanga, nguye okhokelela ekuphumeleleni. Ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kuvuyisa ukunyamekela, kodwa kuya kuba nzima ukuchaza apho uphelele khona phakathi komhla xa umyeni wakho efuna. Ngoko ke, okokuqala, qaphela, akukho ntshukumo engadingekile.
Enye into ebalulekileyo kukuxhamla nomthandi. Okokuqala, akukho zixhobo ezivela ekhaya, nokuba ngaba indoda ayikho. Shayela kuphela emsebenzini, okanye kumatshini. Ukuba ufumene umnxeba kwifowuni yakho yeselula, emva kwengxoxo kucima ulwazi malunga nalo, gcina inombolo njengenombolo yomhlobo othile. Ngokubhekiselele ekuphuhlisweni kwenkqubela phambili, kuya kuba kufanelekile ukuthetha malunga ne-ISQ kunye ne-imeyile, ukuba uxhumo luya kuba ngabo, ke kungcono ukukhwele inamba eyongezelelweyo ye-ICQ okanye ibhokisi leposi le sibini.
Kwakhona, ishedyuli yeentlanganiso inendima ebalulekileyo. Kufanele kube njalo ukuba ishedyuli yakho yansuku zonke ayitshintshi kakhulu, okanye ifike ngesizathu esichukumisayo sokuba ufuna ukuhamba kanye ngeveki ezimbalwa iiyure
Kwaye, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukuzithemba nokuzithemba, ekuxoxeni nomyeni wakho, kufuneka uhlale ufana nokuqala.
Ukuba usebenzisa iziphakamiso ezingentla, ingozi yokufumanisa umyeni wakho, iya kuba yincinane.