Sonke siyazi ukuba njengomthetho, abaninzi abameli besondo esinamandla isithembu. Kwaye oku kubonakala nakwiimeko xa indoda ivakalisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba entliziyweni yakhe akukho ndawo ikhona nabanye ngaphandle kwakho kuphela. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abathembekileyo bakho baya kukhangela abanye abafazi, ngamanye amaxesha bahamba "kwicala." Kwaye, ewe, kwimizuzu enjalo engathandekiyo, ngamnye umfazi, "lixhoba" leemeko, ucinga ngokucokisekileyo malunga nokunyaniseka kwendoda yakhe ukuhamba?
Ngako oko, ukuba ungaziqhathaniswa neziqhamo eziqhubekayo zomlingane wakho othandekayo (kwaye kunokwenzeka ukuba, kunjalo), kufuneka uzame zonke iindlela ezinokuzichaphazela. Sinikela ngeendlela ezimbalwa ongakhetha ngazo ngokulula "ukubulala" kumnqweno womfazi wokuhamba okungafunekiyo emva komfazi wakhe.
Hamba, hamba, kodwa khumbula imiphumo!
Indlela ehamba phambili kakhulu, ngoxa sincedisa indoda ukuba sihambe - ukuyikrakra inyaniso. Hayi, ngokuqinisekileyo, akukho nto malunga nokusetyenziswa kwamandla kunye nezinye iindlela, ezinokuyikrokra nangona umntu, kumnciphisa ukuba ahambe. Yonke into enokuyenza yifake kwi-canon njengexabiso lentsapho njengobomi obungakumbi kunye, esongela lakho iqabane ngokuqhawula umtshato. Ngokuqhelekileyo, ingxelo yesicwangciso esinjalo sinomphumo osheshayo. Nangona kunjalo, akusoloko kucetyiswa ukuba kusetyenziswe amanyathelo afanelekileyo kwimpembelelo yakho "," ngaphandle koko usongelo lolo hlobo luya kuba lukhulu "libe ngamazwi" asemoyeni "kwaye aluyi kuthathwa ngokungathandabuzekiyo. Kwaye enye into, le ndlela, ejolise ekukhatyweni komlingane ukuba ahambe, unayo "imingxuma" yayo. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukuba umyeni wakho ufumana ubuthathaka obunzima kakhulu, unokukwazi ukutshintsha ngokulula ubomi kunye neentsapho zokuzikhethela inkululeko.
Kodwa akufanele aphazamise kwizicwangciso zakhe?
Indlela yesibini yokugcina umyeni onamandla ekhaya - kuyo yonke indlela inokumthintela ekuphunyezweni kwezicwangciso zakhe. Kwaye apha njengoko bethetha: "Zonke iindlela zilungile!". Okokuqala, nceda umyeni wakho ngokulala ngesondo. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo unalo ubudlelwane obusondeleyo (ngokuqhelekileyo, amaxesha amathathu ngosuku), ngcono. Zama ukufakela zonke ijezi eziphuma kumyeni ukuya ekuhlaleni kokugqibela kwaye ngokuqinisekileyo akafuni, nokuba kunjalo, akakwazi ukuhamba emva kokufunwa kwe-adventure. Ngendlela, nantoni na ehlabathini akufanele uyenze uthando njengenkqubo enyanzelekileyo okanye umlinganiselo onyanzelekileyo. Khumbula ukuba kulula kakhulu ukuba amadoda ahlukanise ubuxoki nokunyaniseka kweenjongo, kuba indoda ibona umntu ohlala naye phantsi kophahla olulodwa, ngeenxa zonke. Ngokuziphatha kwakhe okucwangcisayo awukwazi nje ukungazichukumisi ukuba ahambe "ecaleni", kodwa ude uchukumise iqabane lakho kude nawe.
Kodwa, kwaye ukuba isondo ngokuqhelekileyo asihambisani nezicwangciso zakho, unako ukujoyina iveki yamaqabane enomlingane wakho. Kutheni ungabonakali isibindi uze ungabuyi kuphinda ube "umfundisikazi wothando" wesondo, oyakwazi ukumangalisa indoda yakho rhoqo xa ulala embhedeni. Apha, iimpahla ezisuka kwisitolo sezesondo, izikhundla ezintsha zesini, i-caresses, njl njl njl. Ngelinye igama, kufuneka wenze yonke into yokuba ixesha elitsha liza kukhwankqisa umyeni wakho, ngokuqinisekileyo, ngendlela efanelekileyo yegama. Ngenxa yoko, iqabane liza kusetshenziselwa ukulala ngesondo, kwaye ukuhanjelwa kwe-banal "ngakwesobunxele" kuya kumyeka ukuba angabangela umdla.
Nangona kunjalo umsebenzi uyimpisi!
Kodwa nantsi inqaku lomnye umnye umzekelo wokunyula umyeni wakhe - ukuyizalisa ngeengxaki zasekhaya. Ukuwuthwala ngomsebenzi ngokuzeleyo ukwenzela ukuba akanalo ixesha 'lokuphefumula' kwakhe. Kodwa asikhuthazi ukusebenzisa imigaqo yesicwangciso "kufuneka ukuba" okanye "unyanzelekile". Ukucela umlingane ngokuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yasemakhaya kuyadingeka ngenyameko nangomdla, ngowona mzuzu umntu unokuziva uphakamileyo kunye nolwasemkhenkcekweni lwazo ngamakhono akhe kunye nokuzonwabisa okukhulu kuya kwenza konke angayi kubuzwa.
Kwaye, ekugqibeleni, ukuba ungumxhasi wokunyaniseka, ngoko uthetha ngqo neqabane lakho kwaye uzame ukufumana izizathu zentshiseko "yokuhamba", kuba ingxoxo elula ingakwazi ukuxazulula iingxaki ezininzi zeentsapho!