1) Ukuwa ngothando
Kukho, kodwa esinye sezizathu ezibalulekileyo ukuba amadoda atshintshe uthando. Oku akukona kuphela isici somntu, uthando alukwazi ukuqikelelwa, ngoko kuyingozi kakhulu. Abafazi abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba ukukrexeza ngokwenyama kulula ukuxolela ngaphezu kokomoya. Ewe, kwaye amadoda ayedla ngokushiya intsapho nje ngokuba ayekade echitha ubusuku kunye nomntu ongeyena mkhohlisi. Kunzima nakakhulu xa umfazi wesinye isizwe evuselela iimvakalelo ezinyanisekileyo kumntu xa ebuyela kuye kwiingcinga zakhe, ufuna intlanganiso, izicwangciso zekamva. Ukulwa nale mvakalelo kunzima, kwaye ingaba umdlalo wekhandlela awucacile.
2) Inzala yomdla
Kukho uluhlu lwamadoda abhekisela kumfazi njengento yokuphanda. Njengomthetho, amadoda anjalo akwazi ukubukeka entle, abanomdla ngokunyanisekileyo kubasetyhini, banamathandle abalungileyo, kodwa amaqabane angathembekiyo. Nangona umntu onjalo atshada, akakwazi ukukhawulelana nomfazi omnye omnye ixesha elide, kwaye umfazi wakhe uya kufuneka adibanise kunye nokutshutshiswa okanye ukunyanzela, okanye ukufuna ulonwabo nomnye umntu. Izizathu zokuba kungani amadoda eziphatha ngale ndlela anokubaninzi. Kodwa into eyona nto inomdla wokwenene kunye nothando ngezesondo zesini. Amadoda anjalo axabisa ukuhlukahluka kwabasetyhini ngengqondo yangempela yegama, abanalo olufanelekileyo, akukho migaqo ecacileyo yobuhle, bayayixabisa kwiifom ezahlukeneyo kunye neempawu ezahlukileyo. Ngoko ke, elinye ibhinqa liya kufumana nzima ukuhlangabezana neemfuno zendoda enjalo.
3) Iinkomfa
Okumangalisa kukuba, ininzi amadoda eyaziwayo kuthiwa ngamadoda ase-ladies amadoda aqinisekisiwe. Ukuba umntu akanako ukudlula nayiphi na iipketi, akukho kumandla akhe amangalisayo ebhedini okanye i-shower width, kodwa kwiimeko ezinzima. Amadoda anjalo awaqinisekanga ngamakhono abo, ngoko bazama ukuzibonakalisa ukuba into ayiyonto, kodwa inani labasetyhini. Abakhethi bodwa kwaye abaphanthe babecala ngesini esahlukileyo, nangona kunzima ukuyiqonda. Iintlobo zabantu abanjalo zinokuhluka, ngamanye amaxesha zikhohlakele ngokupheleleyo. Omnye unokungabaza ukuba ulala embhedeni, omnye uxhala malunga nobukhulu "besithunzi somntu", kwaye inani elikhulu labasetyhini linika inkolelo yokuba baphila ubomi obupheleleyo bendoda ethandwa. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuziphatha okunjalo kungumzamo wokubalekela ekubeni yedwa kunye nokungakwazi ukubandakanya ubudlelwane obunzulu.
4) Isimiso
Oku kunqabile, kodwa kwenzeka. Amanye amadoda, ngenxa yobubele bawo, bafumana imfuneko yokuhlala ngesondo rhoqo. Bakukulungele ukuzithoba kwiimonwabo, ukuba kungabikho ngexesha, kwaye uninzi lwemihla. Ngokwemvelo, akukho mfazi, nguye kuphela okhethwe ngumntu onjalo, uya kukwazi ukumyanelisa. Ngenxa yoko, amadoda ayanyanzelekile ukuba afune amaqabane amasha. Kodwa oku kungaphezulu kwelo mthetho kwaye abafana abahlali badibana nabo.
Ukuphikisana ngokuthi kutheni abantu beshintsha, unokufumana izizathu ezininzi. Into yokuqala efika engqondweni yintlungu yesisu. Enyanisweni, oku akusiyo ingxabano, kodwa sizathu esilungileyo. Isithembu asiyiyo yonke into ebantwini, ngaphandle kokunye, itholakala kwabasetyhini. Akunakwenzeka ukubiza le nkalo yesenzo sokuzalwa, oko kuthetha ukuba kunokutshintshwa. Musa ukudibanisa iimfuno zangempela ezihambelana neempawu zomzimba kunye nomlinganisi ngokuziphatha kakubi. Uninzi lwabantu alubonakalwanga ngokuxhamla, kodwa ngenxa yemfuneko yohlobo lomtshato. Yintoni eyenza abantu abanokungathembeki bathemba ukuba nangona amadoda kwaye atshintshe ngokuphindaphindiweyo kunabesifazane, oku akukho konke.