Ukuba emva kokungcatshwa kwendoda yakho ungena kwixinzelelo, uya kulwa namaqhinga, ukhale, uhlale uphonsa imeko, akuyi kubakho nantoni na. Umlingane uya kuphazamisa indlela oziphatha ngayo, kwaye uya kubalekela ekumameni kwenkosikazi yakhe-apho, emva koko konke, ngokuthula nangokuthula. Uze undikholelwe, akayi kudla ukuzisola ngenxa yokuba utsho ukuba uyamgxeka waza wamphalazela, uyishiye into yokuba waqala ukukhwabanisa emva kokungcatsha kwakhe. Kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu, cingisisa ngabantwana bakho, wena, abantu abadala baya kuqonda ulwalamano lwabo, kwaye iintsapho ze-scandals zansuku zonke zingaguqukela ingozi enkulu yengqondo.
Inombolo yesazisi enye . Amadoda amaninzi athathwe kwinto entsha kwaye engachangekanga, oku kubonakaliswa kumdla wakho kumfazi amaninzi.
Bonke abantu bazama inkululeko ethile ebomini, kwaye kuyisiphukuphuku ukuba nethemba lokuba ngokumisela ubuhlobo, indoda yakho iyayilahla ngokupheleleyo. Abayeni bethu bazibhokoxa ngokwabo ngendlela efana nokunyamekela abanye abafazi, bathi, yinto endiyiselula, ndiya kubeka enye embhedeni, nangona ubudala kunye nobukhulu bam. Ngoko ke, ebomini bentsapho, akufanele ukhethe izindonga ezinqambileyo malunga nomyeni wakho kwaye uhlale ufutshane kakhulu. Vumela umyeni wakhe abe nokukholelwa ukuba unenkululeko kunye namalungelo.
Inombolo yesibini yePhupha . Kungakhathaliseki ukuba kunzima kangakanani ukuvuma, kuyafaneleka ukuba samkele inyaniso yokungcatsha komyeni wakho. Ukungathembeki kobudlova kuyinto eqhelekileyo ebomini bethu. Awuyena owokuqala kwaye awuyikugqibela ukutshintsha. Kuphela ngokwamkela le nyaniso kwaye uqaphela ukuba unjalo uhlobo lwamadoda, kuya kuba lula ukuhlala.
Thatha ukuzithoba kwi nyaniso yokuba umyeni wakho utshintshe wena kwaye ungekhohlisi - uqikelele. Yaye ukuba uhlala ungazi? Ngoko babehlala ngokuthula kwaye baqhubeke! Ubuqhetseba buya kuba yintlekele ukuba loo mfazi ngokwakhe wenza inhlekelele yakhe. Musa ukwenza oku, kuya kuba lula ukuba onke amalungu entsapho aphile.
YeBhodi inombolo yesithathu . Cinga uze ugwebe, kutheni umyeni wakho eqala ukutshintsha? Ngokuqinisekileyo, uya kuqala ukuthetha ukuba ungathembekanga, umfazi omthengisayo, umrhwebi, akayikuxabisa yonke into oyenzele yona, kodwa akusilo nto, unako, kwaye unciphise imeko yakho, kodwa ingxaki ayiyi kuxazululwa ngale ndlela. Ukunyanga umfazi ukungabikho kokuvisisana ngobudlelwane. Ukuba umntu ugula endlwini yakhe, uya kuba ngu-100% efuna induduzo ecaleni. Cinga ngako ngentloko ecocekileyo, yenza uhlalutyo lwentsapho, uqale ukulungisa imeko ngokubanzi.
Inombolo yesine inqaku . Musa ukufumana ubudlelwane, zakhele ixhoba lomona, zifumanisa ukuba uyamthanda. Ewe, kunzima, kodwa uhlanganisane uze uxolo. Ukuba kuya kuba neengxabano ezininzi kunye noxinzelelo olusecaleni lakho, ithuba lokuba uya kuye liya kukwandisa ngonaphakade ngamaxesha. Awunayo le nto, akunjalo?
Inombolo yesihlanu yePhupha . Ungayifaki phambi kweqiniso lokukhetha - mna. Akukho ndoda esatshatileyo ayiyi kutshata inkosikazi yayo. Yaye inyaniso yokuba uya kumchukumisa eludongeni ngokukhetha, kuphela kuya kwenza imeko ibe yimbi. Ukuba unquma ukushiya, ngokungathandabuzekiyo, uya kuba ngowokuqala ukwazi.
Inombolo yeBhodi yesithandathu . Mnike ithemba lokuba indlu yakhe yinqaba yakhe, yenze iindawo ezintle, ezinobumnandi kwaye zikhululekile ekhaya. Emva koko akayi kufuna ukubaleka nantoni na.
Inombolo yesibhozo yesixhenxe . Oomama abathandekayo, musa ukulibala, amadoda athande amehlo, ngoko ungaze uzinakekele, kungakhathaliseki ukuba uneminyaka engakanani. Zigcine uzitye lonke ixesha, kwaye kungekhona nje umzimba, kodwa nokuziphatha. Emva koko, nawuphi na umntu uya kuvuya ukubona kumfazi wakhe okhutheleyo, ovuyayo, ohlambulukileyo. Uthande umyeni wakho, sichitha ixesha kunye, ungafaki uxinzelelo malunga nokusola kunye nokuhlambalaza. Yiba ngumntu ozimele kwaye unomdla nje kuphela kumyeni wakho, kodwa nakwabanye abantu, kwaye ke akayi kufuna ukulahlekelwa nguwe, akeke ubaleke "ngakwesobunxele."