Ziziphi izithethe zomtshato?

Isambatho esimnyama, intambo, izicathulo, zonke ezintsha kunye ezimnandi. Ukugqoka ezimhlophe, iveli, iinwele, umtshakazi uhle kwaye uyingqayizivele. Yeka indlela enhle ngayo, xa kwimihla ejikeleza nje ukumomotheka kunye nokuhleka okonwabileyo. Wonke umntu uyonwabile, kodwa ngokugqithiseleyo, abantu ababini abakhulu kulo mkhosi banomtshakazi nomyeni. Abantu abane kuphela kulo mhla baya kulila, benolonwabo - abazali basanda kutshata. Yonke into izakukhunjulwa, ukususela ebuntwaneni, njengoko abantwana bekhulile kwaye bengenanto, ngoku abantu abadala ngoku badala intsapho yabo. Ngoko ngokukhawuleza yahamba ixesha, kwaye ngoku ebusweni bomtshakazi nomyeni bayonwabile, bavuya, kuba bafumene.
Ukuchonga . Kwiinyanga ezimbalwa ngaphambi komtshato, abazali bomyeni baya kubazali bomtshakazi kwaye bavumelana ngomtshato. Umbuzo uthathe isigqibo apho kuya kugcinwa khona isiganeko, zingaphi iindwendwe eziza kumenywa, ukuba yeyiphi imali efunekayo ukuba uyibale. Abasetyhini banquma ukuba zeziphi izitya eziza kunikwa. Umbuzo kunye nezambatho kufuneka ugqitywe ngumyeni, iingubo kunye nengubo yomfazi, kufuneka athenge. Emoyeni enobubele yonke imiba enjalo isiganeko esibalulekileyo sichazwa.

Umtshato . Ukukhululwa komtshakazi. Xa umyeni efika kumtshakazi, abahlobo bakhe, abaxhasi bemimandla bavuka ngendlela yakhe, bafuna ihlawulelo. Intlawulo yomtshakazi inokucelwa nayiphi na, ngokuqinisekileyo kwimibhobho efanelekileyo. Omnye ucela imali, kwaye umntu unobhotile lobisi. Yaye umyeni kufuneka uye esitolo ukuze enze intlawulelo. Ukuba umyeni uye wadibana nayo yonke imfuno kwaye wavuya "ngabaphangi", umtshakazi unikwa. Emva koko umyeni ubingelelwa ngabazali bomtshakazi ngesonka kunye netyuwa, udakwa, kwaye uhambe ehambo. Ukuya kwi-ofisi yeRejista, abatsha abasanda kutshata kufuneka bahambe kwiimoto ezahlukeneyo. Kukho inkolelo enjalo, awukwazi ukugqoka umlindo womtshato womyeni okanye umtshakazi.

Emva komzobo , abasandul 'ukutshata kunye neendwendwe badla ngokukhwela kwiindawo ezingakukhunjulwa zesixeko, okanye ngaphandle kwesixeko. Umyeni nomfazi ngoku bahamba ngemoto efanayo. Umqondiso uthi ngaloo mini akukho nto kufuneka ibe phakathi kwabasandul 'ukutshata. Ukuba ngexesha lokudubula kwesithombe okanye ividiyo, umntu uza kuba phakathi kwabatshatileyo, oku kubi kakhulu. Zama ngalolu suku, maxesha onke, nibambe izandla, kwaye musa ukuhamba. Nangona umntu eceliwe ukuba abe phakathi kwakho ngexesha lomncintiswano okanye umdlalo, unganikeli kulo.
Abazali badibana nabazali, nge icon, isinkwa netyuwa. Bathi bonke ababethela isonka esikhulu kakhulu baya kuba yinkosi yendlu. Emva koko batywala i-champagne kwaye baphonsa iilazi ze-crystal phezu kwabo, kufuneka badle zibe ngamaqhekeza amancinci, athi "Injabulo".

Ngexesha lomthendeleko , izinto ezonwabisayo (iimincintiswano, imibuzo) zigcinwe. Isiganeko sesibini esibalulekileyo saloo mini, emva komtshato, ngokuqinisekileyo, ukusela komtshakazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo izalamane okanye abahlobo baceba, baze bamkhonze umfazi kuphela, baphazamise umyeni. Kodwa enyanisweni, kufuneka ukhathazeke ngumhlobo, kuba ngumsebenzi wakhe ukuthenga umfazi. Isiganeko sesithathu esibalulekileyo, ukuthunjwa kwezihlangu, umtshakazi. Ngenxa yoko, umhlobo wam uphendula. Kungenzeka ukuba kufuneka aphuze ezicathulweni zakhe. Umculo, iingoma, iingoma, zihlala zihlala kude kube ngentsasa.

Ngamandla anamandla ngosuku lwesibini . Ukwenziwa komdlalo okanye ukuguqulwa kwamadoda kwimpahla yabasetyhini (ininzi i-Gypsies) ihlelwe. Kwaye ukuze angene, wonke umntu makafanele aphuze "ukungena". Ngosuku lwesibini lomtshato, umntu obalulekileyo ungumhlobo kunye nomhlobo. Ngomhla wesibini bayabamba umhlobo, kwaye baba izicathulo zakhe. Kuphela nje intlawulelo kufuneka ihlawule umyeni (osanda kutshata). Ngaloo ndlela, umtshakazi ongatshatanga, kwinguqulo yamahlaya, zama ukulungiselela ukulungiselela ubomi bomntu. Iyaqhubeka yonke into kude kube sebusuku.

Kuze kube ngoku , kwiidolophana kukho isiko, ukutshala abazali bomtshakazi nomyeni kwisithuthi, nokuhlamba emlanjeni. Kwaye kwamkelwa, ukuba ngaba abazali banika intombi encinci (yokugqibela) umtshato, ukunyathela isigxina ebaleni okanye kufuphi nayo, ukuze kungabikho umtshato kunye nemitshato ephindaphindiweyo phakathi kwabantwana. Oku kwenziwa nguyise womtshakazi.