Umcimbi osisigxina, obizwa ngokuba ngumtshato, uhlala uthembisa ukuba uqaqambile kwaye uzele. Ngokomnye wezithethe zaseYurophu kunomnye umcimbi omncinci - "isidlo sangaphambi komtshato", okwakuboniswa ngokugqithiseleyo ngabafazi abahlala ekhaya. Umtya wesidlo ngumhlangano phakathi komtshakazi nomyeni, abazali babo, izalamane kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo, ukuze bazane ngaphambi kwesiganeko esilandelayo, emva koko iintsapho ezimbini eziziintsapho ziza kusondela kwaye zithandane komnye nomhlobo. Yintoni oyifunayo ukuba uyazi ukuba uthatha isigqibo sokuba uyisebenzise le nkcubeko entsha yomtshato?
- Okokuqala, ixesha kunye nendawo yokutya. Esi siganeko asikho mthethweni, ngoko akuyimfuneko ukuyichitha kwindawo yokutyela. Ungalungiselela ipikiniki, ukuphuma ngaphandle kwedolophu okanye ibhola kwibhentshi. Ukutya komtshato ongaphambi komtshato ngaphambi kokuba umtshato, kuba kusasa, kuya kuba neengxaki ezininzi phambi kweeholide enkulu.
- Ngubani omele alungise le sidlo? Le holide ingahlelwa ngabazali bomtshakazi nomyeni, izihlobo okanye ngabahlobo. Yonke into ixhomekeke kwisibonda sabantu abamenywe kulo mcimbi, okanye iholide kwizihlobo kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo, okanye iholide kuphela ngezihlobo, ukuze bazane.
- Yintoni enokuyenza kwiindwendwe kwisidlo sangaphambi komtshato? Oku mhlawumbi yimiba ebaluleke kakhulu. Njengoko esi siganeko senzelwe ukudibanisa, ngoko unokucinga nantoni na, nantoni na. Ngokomzekelo, abahlobo okanye izalamane ziyakwazi ukuququzelela ukunikezwa kwezithombe ngoncedo lweeslayidi zabasandul 'ukutshata, zibonise iifoto ezidibeneyo. Abaselula banokuxelela ibali labo ababaziyo, bavume uthando lwabo, banikezele izibhambathiso zabo ezibhaliweyo. Unokuqaphela kwakhona uncedo lwabazali ekuhleleni umtshato kwaye ubanike izipho ezincinci. Unokulungiselela amincintiswano - ngubani owaziyo umlobokazi nomyeni. Kwaye unokwazi ukuthetha nabantu abasondeleyo, xubusha amava ahlukeneyo kwiibinibini (mhlawumbi ziphumelele). Kukho nawuphi na, kungcono ukuba abaququzeleli beli sidlo bavumelana malunga neenkcukacha zakhe kunye nawe, ukuze ungabanjwa.
Ngokomzekelo, kwamanye amazwe aseNtshona, isidlo somtshato ngaphambi komtshato kuthiwa ukuhlaziywa okupheleleyo komtshato, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha kwidlova esilandelayo.
Ngoku siza kuthetha ngamasiko omtshato kunye namasiko ngosuku olusisigxina.
- Ukutshatyalaliswa komtshakazi womthi wesigane somtshato mhlawumbi yenye yezona masiko ezimnandi kunye nemibala yomtshato. Umtshakazi unikeza ithuba elinye lamantombazana akhe angatshatanga ukutshata ngomnyaka ofanayo. Abanye abatshatileyo baphosa umtya emva komtshato, abanye bakhetha ukukwenza ngexesha lomthendeleko, kanti abanye bekunye kwikhenketho lomcimbi.
- Umgcini womtshakazi-esi sithethe sithe satshanje, esithandwa kakhulu emishadweni. Nantsi yonke into iyenzeka nje nge-bouquet, kodwa kulo mzekelo, igqabi isuswe ngumyeni kwaye uyiphonsa kubahlobo bakhe abangatshatanga abaza kubamba, uya kutshata kulonyaka.
- Ekhaya - le mikhuba yomtshato ithathwa ngokuba ngumdala waseRashiya, ngenxa yokuba iindlovu zavutha kumaxesha amandulo. Namhlanje, intloko ibhalwa ngoomama womtshakazi nomyeni, ngaloo ndlela badlulisela izithethe, ukuvisisana namava ezintsapho zabo. Enyanisweni, oku kwenziwa ngokukhanyisa ikhandlela.
- Umdaniso wokuqala womtshato, ekubonweni kokuqala, akunjalo nakwisiko, kubonakala ukuba oku kungumboniso wengubo yokugcoba kunye nezakhono zomdaniso. Enyanisweni, kumdaniso wokuqala wabasandul 'ukutshata, ubudlelwane babo bobudlelwane, ukuvisisana kunye neemvakalelo zomzimba kubonakala.
- Ingubo yomtshato, nokuba yimibala yayo emhlophe, yinto endala endala. Emva kwakho konke, umbala omhlophe, njengoko uyaziyo, umbala wobungcwele, ukuvisisana, ukungabi namacala. Kungekudala, abafazi abatyhahlayo bahlaziya izithethe ezisisiseko kunye nokwenza uhlengahlengiso kule nkcubeko, ukukhetha imibala eyahlukeneyo, ngamanye amaxesha "nangaphandle komtshato": kwi-pink pink, cream, ivory (imibala yemvelo yempahla yomtshato) obomvu okanye omnyama (ongaphantsi kwemvelo, kodwa unendawo yokuhlala).
Yaye khumbula, le mini kufuneka ibe yinto engayibalekiyo ebomini bakho kwaye kufike kuwe ukuba unqume ukuba yeyiphi imasiko kunye nemveli eya kuba semtshatweni wakho, ukuze le mini igcwaliswe wena kuphela ngeemvakalelo ezintle kunye ezicacileyo.