Ukuchonga.
Ukutshatyalaliswa ngumcimbi womtshato, oquka ukunikela kumtshakazi wentliziyo nomyeni womyeni, abazali bakaMtshakazi kufuneka babe khona kuloo mthendeleko. Kulo mkhosi, umntu oyintloko ngumyeni. Kodwa kuvunyelwe ukuthumela abadlali beemidlalo kubazali bomtshakazi esikhundleni sabo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abadlali abafana nabo bafana noothixo okanye izihlobo eziseduze zomyeni ngokwakhe. Ngokukhawuleza ngaphambi kokuba umthendeleko, abazali bomncinci bavumelana ngokumemeza.
Kulo mcimbi umyeni ugqoke, njengomthetho, i-suit kwaye ivelisa ezimbini izimbali zeentyatyambo. Omnye wabo unika umama womtshakazi (umkhwekazi) kunye nomnye-umtshakazi omtsha. Umfana uxelela abazali bomtshakazi ngokumthanda kwakhe aze abuze izandla zakhe. Ukuba abazali bomtshakazi bayavumelana, uyise womtshakazi uthatha intombi yakhe ngesandla sakhe sokunene kwaye uyifaka esandleni somyeni.
I-Lookouts.
Omnye umzuzu onyanzelekileyo womtshato wesiRashiya ngaba bafazi, apho abazali bomyeni, umlinganiso kunye nomyeni bavavanya kwaye baqwalasele ukufaneleka komtshakazi. Ngokuqhelekileyo iimvula zamabhinqa zaqhutyelwa emva komdlalo ngaphambi kokubambisana. Kwakhona, ukutshata komtshato kubonisa ukuba abazali bomtshakazi bahlolisise ubukho befama eplasini, apha baqwalasela ukufumaneka kwesonka, iinkomo, iimpahla kunye neempahla.
Emva komthendeleko, ekugqibeleni abazali baxoxela yonke imiba yomtshato ozayo: iindleko, umhla kunye nexesha, idolo kunye nezipho. Xa i-rukobitiya isasaza iindidi emtshatweni. Isiphumo sokugqibela sesandla sasiyi-handshake ngokuzithandela kooyise kumacala omabini.
Kwiminyaka kamva, umkhosi wokukhwabanisa wajoyina umvuzo womtshakazi.
U kucinywa.
Ukukhutshwa, okanye uhlobo lokulila, lwaqhutywa zizihlobo zomtshakazi. Oku kuthetha ukuhlukana nabazali bakhe nabahlobo bakhe. Umtshakazi wayegubungele intloko ephakamileyo, eyayikufihla imbono yakhe, kwaye izihlobo zakhe zahamba naye. Ukuba umtshakazi wakhululwa, wawa.
Iqela lokukhupha.
Uphethe iphathi ye-bachelorette rhoqo iintsuku ezingama-2-3 ngaphambi komtshato okanye iintsuku ezilandelayo emva kokuxhela. Kwisisa sokutshata, esasibanjwe kumtshakazi, abahlobo beza, bahlabelela iingoma zomtshato baza bathabatha kunye nezipho zakhe zomyeni kunye nezihlobo zakhe. Ngethuba lo mthendeleko, umtshakazi wayenokumemeza, edanduluka kwaye aguqulwe, oko kwakuthetha ukuba ahlukane nobomi bentombazana, kuba ngaphambi kwakhe kwakungumtshato ongatshatanga.
Enye into ebaluleke kakhulu kwiqela lamantombazana yayingumkhosi waseRashiya wokuqhaqha umkhonto womtshakazi, ezo iintombi zakhe ezazisisebenzisa. Oku kwakubonisa ukuba ubomi bakhe bokuqala bebuphelile.
Emva koko kulandela umkhosi wokungcola komtshakazi omtsha ebhafini. Kwenzelwe ngentsasa yomtshato okanye kusasa kusasa phambi kokuqala kombhiyozo. Uhambo lokuya kubhebha lwaluhamba kunye neengoma kunye nokuxabisa, kwakukho imilingo.
Dowry.
Ngomtshato, le ntombazana kwafuneka iqokelele isityebi esisityebi. Kwaye kwalapha, nabahlobo bakhe beza kuhlangula. Ixesha lokuqokelela idireji lalimiselwe ngeveki. I dowari yenziwe ngezinto ezenziwe ngesandla: ingubo, i-featherbed, imithwalo, kunye neetalente, iikhati, amabhande kunye nezikhwama.
Usuku lokuqala lomtshato.
Usuku oluphambili okanye wokuqala lomtshato luquka ukufika komyeni, ukuhamba ngaphantsi kwesithsaba, ukudluliselwa kwendoda, ukudluliselwa komtshakazi kwindlu yomyeni, intsikelelo yomzali kunye nomtshato womtshato ngokwawo.
Druzhko.
UDruzhko, okanye umhlobo, wayebhekwa njengomntu obalulekileyo emtshatweni, kuba wayephethe umcimbi womtshato. Umhlobo wamiselwa ukuba ngumhlobo osondeleyo okanye isihlobo somyeni. Ngokuqhelekileyo wayebhinca ehlombe lakhe ngelinen eluhlaza.
Ukufika komyeni.
Kweminye imimandla emini yomtshato wayenomdla kwindlu yomtshakazi waza wazibuza ukuba wayelungele ukumkela umyeni. Ngeli nqanaba, umtshakazi kwakufanele alungele ngokupheleleyo, oko kukuthi, egqoke isambatho somtshato kwaye ehleli ekhoneni elibomvu.
Ukuhlawulelwa.
Emva kokufika komyeni ngokwakhe, umtshato onjalo wawubanjwe njengentlawulelo. Kwagqitywa ukuba umyeni wayefanele ahlawule umgca. Le nkonzo iye yehla kwiintsuku zethu. Bathenga umtshakazi, njengomthetho, kubazali kunye nabahlobo bakhe.
Umtshato.
Ngaphambi kokuba abantu abatsha baye ecaweni, uyise nonina womtshakazi wabasikelela ngesonka kunye ne icon. Ngoko, ngaphambi komtshato, umtshakazi waqhaqhazela kwaye wayebhinqa ngamabhinqa amabini, kwaye ke iinwele zakhe zazinxibeke kakuhle ngekhanda elikwintloko okanye i-anvil.
Ukufika kwindlu yomyeni.
Emva komtshato, umtshakazi waziswa kumyeni, apho abazali bakhe sele bebabasikelele khona. Abanye abantu banomdla wohlobo lokutshala umtshakazi nomyeni kwisambatho soboya, esenza njenge-amulet yabo. Ngexesha le ntsikelelo, kufuneka uhlale ugcina isonka kwaye, njengommiselo, uphawu. Umtshakazi nomyeni kufuneka balume esi sinkwa.
Umthendeleko womtshato.
Ngokwemigaqo ngosuku lokuqala lomtshato, abazali bomtshakazi akufanele bahlale etafileni lomtshato, kwakukho umkhosi othiwa "yibizo lokuzikhukhumeza." Ininzi le mivuzo yenziwa ngabaxhamli besecaleni lomtshakazi nomyeni. Isihlwele esikhulu, safika endlwini yabazali bomtshakazi waza wababiza etafileni. Emva komcimbi womtshato, ukulila komtshakazi kwagqitywa kwaye iziganeko ezivuya kunye nezovuyo zomtshato waseRashiya wabantu abaqalayo. Ekupheleni kolu, abantu abatsha baya endlwini yomtshakazi ngezipho, baza baya kumyeni, apho yonke into yayilungele umtshato. Ngomtshato, babehlala becula iingoma zomyeni nomyeni, kunye nabazali babo. Kwindlu yabazali bomtshakazi babhiyozela ngosuku lwesibini lomtshato. Ukuba umthendeleko wahlala iintsuku ezintathu, kwandula umhla wesithathu wagubha kwakhona endlwini yabazali bomyeni.
"Ukutshitshisa" kunye "nokuqhuba."
"Ukubeka" abasandul 'ukutshatyalaliswa ngobusuku obuvelisa umdlalo, okanye okubizwa ngokuba ngumabhedlele, owawulungiselela umbhede omncinci. Lo myeni omtsha wayefanele ahlawule umrhumo. Ngentsasa bavuka bevusa abahlobo abancinci, abadlali beentombi okanye uninazala. Ngokwezimiselo, kwakukho umkhosi wokuxhoma amaxwebhu kunye neengxube zegazi, ezibonisa intlonipho yomtshakazi.
Usuku lwesibini lomtshato.
Ngosuku lwesibini, isenzo esona sikhulu ukukhangela umtshakazi, okanye "ukukhangela isidenge." Ingundoqo yinto ekufuneni umyeni - "umalusi" kunye neentsapho zakhe "isidenge" - umtshakazi, owayefihla kwindawo ethile endlwini.