Umntu oqhelekileyo umbutho wendoda yokuthanda izwe ngumntu ofanayo, ingakumbi emkhosini. Kodwa ukuze ube ngumncedisi, akudingekile ukuba ube ngumkhosi wempi, ugqoke umfaniswano, kwaye wenze isifungo sokunyaniseka kwi-Motherland. Ukuthandwa kobuzwe kuqulethwe ekuziphatheni kwethu, ukuhlonipha ookhokho bethu, ukuhlonipha izithethe, ukujonga impilo yethu yomzimba nokuziphatha, ukudala intsapho eqinile, nokufundisa abantwana kwiziseko ezifanayo.
Wonke umntu unomdla wokuthanda ubutyebi, kodwa kuyimfuneko ukumvusa, ukuze akwazi ukufikelela kwaye afake izinto eziphambili ebomini. Yiloo nto abazali abafanele bayenze, abafuna ukuphakamisa inzala ekhaya.
Kodwa ukuqala kuphi? Kukho iziphakamiso eziliqela eziza kunceda ukufumana impendulo kumbuzo wendlela yokuphakamisa umntakwabo kwintsapho.
Siphila kwilizwe elincomekayo, kwaye amanye amazwe asenza umona.
Ukuba ufuna ngokwenene ukukhulisa umntwana njengomntakwabo, musa ukuthetha kakubi ngaye ngelizwe ohlala kuyo. Emva koko, i-Motherland, kunye nabazali abayikhethiweyo. Uze undikholelwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuba ucinga ukuba kukuphi na indawo, akunjalo. Ilizwe ngalinye linengxaki zalo, ubunzima balo kwaye akukho mntu usibonisa kwi-screen yesikrini. Wonke umntu ufuna ukuba acingelwe kakuhle.
Ngoko ke, musa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba abonise ukunganeliseki okukhulu ngoMlandia wakho, uthethe izinto ezintle. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo musa ukuyifumanisa kakhulu imeko, fundisa umntwana ukuba abe yinyani.
Qiniseka ukuhamba. Akufanele uhambe ngaphandle kwelinye, kwaye kukho indawo ezininzi kwilizwe lakho, apho umoya uthatha khona. Ewe, kwaye awuzange uhanjelwe.
Bonisa umntwana ekuboneni konke ubuhle kunye nembali ekhangayo yamazwe asekuhlaleni.
Khumbula ukuba kungekudala umntwana wakho uya kukhula ngokuzeleyo, kwaye akwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo, sele sele esele ekhulile, kwaye ube neengcinga zakho. Kwaye ukuba ukususela ebuntwaneni awuyikubeka inkozo encinci yokuthandabuza, akunakwenzeka ukuba kuya kuba nako ukuhluma.
Kulula malunga nobunzima.
Musa ukulibala malunga nembali engummangaliso ye-Motherland yakho. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo xelela umntwana ngezenzo, iimfazwe ezinkulu, ukunqoba kunye nokunqoba, abathetheli kunye nezikhulu, kunye nabantu abaqhelekileyo abadala leli bali, kunye nalo ilizwe elihlala kulo. Into eyona nto yokwenza isaphulelo kwiminyaka yomntwana, kwaye uthetha ngolwimi oluqondakalayo kuye. Qiniseka ukuba uphendule yonke imibuzo yakhe, hlalutya iimeko ezithandayo, ubeke izigqibo ezihlangeneyo uze uqiniseke ukuba uphulaphule kwaye wamukele umbono wengane yakho. Makube ngumntwana kwaye ungenasiphelo, kodwa lawa mathambeka ayo okuqala, ukukwazi ukwenza izigqibo ngokwabo.
Imbali, nokuba yinto ehloniphekileyo kuyo, kunye nookhokho, olwazisiwe kukuqonda komntwana, kuya kukunceda ukhulise umntakwabo kwintsapho.
Inkcubeko kubantu.
Vumela ukhululeke ngokupheleleyo kwisitya sakho ozithandayo, kwaye ungafuni nto ngaphandle kwekomityi yetiyi kwaye ubukele iTV - vuka uye kunye nomntwana wakho kumyuziyam, ukuya kumboniso, kwi-theater ye-puppet, kwi-konsathi yabantwana. Ukuphuhliswa kweenkcubeko zomntwana ukususela kwiminyaka yobudala inxalenye ebalulekileyo yokuzalwa kombono wokuthanda ubutyebi. Ukuba uye waya kwiziganeko ezinjalo ukususela ebuntwaneni, kusekho isiqinisekiso esikhulu sokuthi, nangaphezulu, ekudala ubudala umntwana uya kuba nomdla wokuqhubeka nokutyelela okunjalo. Khumbula ukuba ngoku ungumzekelo oyintloko wokuxelisa, ngoko ungayenzi, ukuze kamva ube kuthuka ithuba lokulahleka.
Eyona mihle.
Abantwana banomdla kakhulu kwiimeko zemoya zabazali babo, ukuba uziva ungalunganga, umntwana uya kuziva engenakhathazeka. Ngoko ke. Njengokuba ebengenakwenzeka ebomini, zama ukuzitshintshela ngokwakho kumatshini omshukumisayo. Fumana okulungileyo kuyo nayiphi na inyathelo. Ngoko awuyi kuphephela nje ingxaki yokukhathazeka kwengane, kodwa kunjalo, umfundisa ukuba ajongane neengxaki ngokulula, kungekhona ukuyeka isandla phantsi kwayo nayiphi na imeko, kwaye uhlale ufumana into evuya ngayo. Akunakwenzeka ukufundisa inzala yomhlaba kwiingxaki ezingunaphakade, isimo sengqondo esibi kunye nokungabi nalukholo kwixesha elizayo.
Inkxaso.
Ukuba ufuna ukuphakamisa i-patriot kwintsapho, inkxaso eyintloko. Kwaye sithetha ngokuxhasa ngokupheleleyo. Inzondelelo yokuthandwa kobuzwe akufanele ibe yedwa kuwe kuphela, kodwa yenzelwa iqabane lakho kunye nezihlobo eziseduze. Ukuhlala kwindawo enjalo, umntwana ozayo uza kuzama ukuvelisa kwakhona intsapho yakhe. Ncedise umntwana wakho kwimibono yakhe, umdla, umdla. Ukudumisa ukuphumelela kwaye ngokuchanekileyo ufikelele kwizigqibo ezivela kwizenzo okanye eziphosakeleyo. Chaza kumntwana ukuba kutheni usebenza kuye okanye omnye umntu onjalo, kwaye kungenjalo, kwaye ucele ukuba athethe izinto zakhe ngendlela efanayo.
Musa ukumisa kwiinjongo, kunye nesimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo, okwenene, ukuba izenzo ezifunwayo azilimazi. Nangona ungaboni amathemba, qhubeka uzama ukubonisa ukholo lwakho kumntwana. Ngokukhawuleza uya kuphumelela. Ubuhlobo obunjalo buya kwenza ukuba unxibelelwano lwakho lube nolwalamano, kukuvumela ukuba ufumane igunya phambi komntwana, kwakunye nokulawula okungakumbi izenzo zakhe.
Te knoloji.
Ukuze uncedise ekukhuliseni umntakwabo kwintsapho, ungayihoyi iziphumo zomsebenzi ososayensi kunye nezobuchwephesha, sebenzisa onke amathuba esinikwe wona, inqanaba langoku lokuphuhliswa kweli shishini. Jonga iifilimu zenzululwazi kunye neencwadi, fumana ulwazi olunomdla, uqhube uphando lwakho, uxoxe ngezinto ozibonayo, ujabule kunye namava kubalingiswa befilimu.