I-Kindergarten - ubomi obutsha ngaphandle komama
Umntwana oneminyaka emithathu akanakunomdla okhethekileyo wokuzonwabisa kunye noontanga, kodwa akacingi ubomi ngaphandle komama. Ngoko ke, umntwana oqala ukuya enkulisa, endaweni yokudlala, ukucula nokudweba, ukukrokra, ukukhala, ukungabi nongxaki kwaye aze agule. Yintoni enokuyenza kule meko?
Yenza kube lula ukwahlula
Kukulungele ukutshilola egumbini lokuprinta. Ncedisa umntwana ukuba atshintshe iimpahla, ammbambe ngenyameko, aze athathe inyathelo elinqabileyo kwi-kindergarten. Uzola. Khumbula ukuba ukungaqiniseki kwakho, ubuso obuhlungu kunye nokuqinela kakhulu kunokusisindisa umntwana. Kulo mbuzo: "Mama, uza kuza nini?" - ungathethi ngokucacileyo: "Emva komsebenzi." Sebenzisa amagama aqondakalayo kumntwana, umzekelo: "Ndiya kufika xa udla i-snack yakho." Gcina ilizwi lakho kwaye ungabi lixesha.
Masize aphile apha
Ngeentsuku zokuqala inkunzi ikhutshwe ngolwazi olutsha. Ufunda amagama ootitshala, bahlobo, kufuneka bakhumbule apho indawo yakhe yangasese nengasese khona. Le meko ixinzelelekileyo. Ngaloo ndlela, le mihla ayidonki umntwana kwiintengiso kwaye unyanzelekile ukucoca igumbi. Makhe aphumle.
Musa ukumenza adle
Kwiimeko ezixinzelelekileyo, isondlo somntwana sinokuthi sibi. Ukongezelela, kuthatha ixesha elithile ukuba lisetyenziswe kwizinto ezintsha kunye nokuthunga. Ukuba utitshala ukwazisa ukuba umntwana wakho akakathintanga isidlo sakusihlwa kwakhona, musa ukumgxeka. Endaweni yoko, kuya kwanele ukumondla ekhaya kunye nesidlo esinomsoco nesondlo.
Cwangcisa ngeveki
Ingane isetyenziselwa ulawulo olutsha lomhla. Kubalulekile ukuba iveki ikwaphulwa. Ngoko musa ukumyeka elala embhedeni kude kube semini. Xa ulungiselela isondlo seentsapho, gcina kwishedyuli yesibini. Ukuchitha ixesha kunye nomntwana, khumbula imidlalo ayifunde kwi-kindergarten. Ngethuba lokuqala, iiveki zokuqala zibukele ngononophelo kwaye zithelekisa ulwazi lwabo. Ukuba omnye umntu ucinga ngokukhawuleza okanye afunde ngaphandle kweeposiso, umntwana uqala ukungathandabuzeki: "Mhlawumbi ndingowona mbi kakhulu?" Isikolo siphelile ukuba simthande. Yintoni endimele ndiyenze kwimeko enjalo?
Nciphise uxinzelelo
Umfundi osanda kutyalwa angakhohlwa ngokukhawuleza ukuba wacelwa ukuba ahambe ekhaya okanye, ukuba yintoni emele ifakwe ngosuku olulandelayo. Yonke into ephosakeleyo yinto ebonakalayo. Ngoko ke, endaweni yokuhlambalaza umntwana ngokulibala, mbuze malunga nomsebenzi wesikolo ngaphambi kokuba uhambe esikolweni, umzekelo, kwigumbi lokuprinta. Ukuba uyayikhohlwa, unokucela abafundi naye. Hlola okubhalwe kwi-knapsack kwiiveki zokuqala. Kodwa ngaba ngamanye amaxesha, ukuze umntwana azive ephethe uxanduva lwakhe olubalulekileyo. Mncede enze izifundo, kodwa ngokukhawuleza unciphise indima yakhe ekuhloliseni nje.
Sifumana isikolo kunye
Esikhundleni sokubandezela utitshala ngemibuzo malunga nendlela ohamba ngayo ngosuku lwakho lokuqala, cinga ngaye. Thetha ngeento zonke ezenzeka esikolweni. Hayi nje ngezifundo. Ungayihoyi isikhalazo somntwana, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana engayiqondi utitshala, ukhononda ngokunyaniseka okanye ukungabi nabulungisa.
Musa ukuyilayisha ngaphezulu komntwana.
Nangona kunjalo ngoku ubenomsebenzi obalulekileyo, musa ukukhulula umntwana kwimisebenzi yamandulo, umzekelo, ukuncedisa intlanzi okanye ukuqhuba udoti. Kwakhona ungafaki ukunyuka kwemithwalo eyongezelelweyo. Ukuhamba ngokuya esikolweni kudinga ukuhlanganiswa komntu omncinci. Ukuba songeza isiNgesi, iKarate kunye nesangqa se-informatics kule nto, umfundi ukhululiwe. Umele abe nexesha lakhe kunye nezinto azithandayo, ezingenakudinga ukugxinwa okukhethekileyo okanye umsebenzi.
Makhe adlale
Ungalindele ukuba uneminyaka engama-7 ubudala ukushiya amathoyizi akho ozithandayo uze ube yintsimi yincinci. Musa ukumnyanzela umntwana ukuba asuse amathoyizi ukwenza indawo yeencwadi zezifundo. Kungase kuvele ukuba uza kuvula kwakhona into eyayiyeka ukuba inomdla kuye eminyakeni emithathu edlulileyo. Musa ukuvumela oku kwenzeka. Masibeke idonsa yakho oyithandayo ukuba silale kwaye sakha ii-castles ukusuka kwiikhabhi. Yenza inkampani yabantwana kulezi klasi, kwaye uya kuba nethuba lokuthetha ngesikolo. Musa ukumgweba ngamagama: "Usule mkhulu kakhulu ...", "Xa uneminyaka yakho ...". Abantwana abaneminyaka elishumi elinesithathu ubudala banamaxesha amaninzi ubunzima, abafana kunye namantombazana kule minyaka banokulula. Ukongezelela, kunzima ukuba bavuselele okanye bafake uluvo lwomntu, kuba baziziva bekhulile. Kodwa kukho naziphi na iindleko bafuna ukuqashelwa kubazalwana babo. Konke oku kunokusibekela umgomo kwisigaba esinikeziweyo sokufunda.
Ukuqala-isivumelwano sobambiswano
Nangona umntwana usemgangathweni kwaye sele uye wazi kakuhle izifundo zakhe, mnike ingqalelo xa eqala ukufundisisa esikolweni esiphakeme. Mcele ukuba abelane nawe ngokungathandabuzekiyo-kungakhathaliseki ukuba bajongene neemfuno zootitshala, ukuziphatha kwabahlobo okanye ezinye izinto. Ngexesha elifanayo, mqinisekise ukuba awuyi kululawula ngokubanzi njengoko wenzayo esikolweni esiprayimari. Intombazana iya kuziva ixanduva ngakumbi.
Qhubeka uqhagamshelana nesikolo
Ukuze ugweme umonakalo, kaninzi ujonge kwidayari. Akukhona nje ngokuvavanya, kodwa malunga nolwazi oluvela kumfundisi. Tyikitya phantsi kweengxelo zonke afuna ukuzisa ngazo, ukuze kungabonakali ukuba uyabanyanzelisa. Emva koko utitshala uya kuqiniseka ukuba unomdla kwimpumelelo yomntwana wakho. Yiya kwiintlanganiso zonke zabazali. Zama ukugxeka ootitshala babengaphambili. Esikhundleni sokuthi: "Ndiyazi ukuba umntwana unenkinga ngejometri, kuba umdala omdala akazange amthande," buza indlela ongayifumana ngayo emva kokubuya kwimeko.
Bonisa izinto ezintle
Ukuba umntwana esikolweni esiphakeme utshintsha isikolo-leli thuba elihle lokulahla i-ballast engadingekile, umzekelo, ukusuka kwidumela le-troika, owayesesikolweni esikolweni esidlulileyo. Nangona kunjalo, musa ukukhohlisa intombazana, musa ukukholisa ukuba zonke iingxaki ziya kutshabalala ngokwazo, ngaphandle kokuthatha inxaxheba kwaye kungekho bunzima. Chaza ngokucacileyo ukuba kulula ukuqala kwi-slate ecocekileyo kwaye kulula ukulungisa amaphutha. Makhe abhale phantsi iingxaki ezavela ngaphambili. Mhlawumbi isizathu asikho ukungabikho kwamakhono kwaye kungekhona ubuvila, kodwa kulungelelaniso lwexesha? Mhlawumbi ufuna nje ngokucacileyo imihla ngemihla.
Inkxaso
Xa uva unyana wakho okanye intombi yakho ibuhlungu kwaye idangele: "Akukho mntu ungumhlobo wam," musa ukukhawuleza ukwethusa. Mhlawumbi igama elithi "akukho mntu" lithetha isibini esithile esithile esikolweni-oogqwesileyo abazama ukuseka umyalelo wabo eklasini. Sitshele ukuba ngale ndlela abantu bathambekele ekuphumeni baze batyelele ingqalelo kwaye ekugqibeleni kuya kudlula. Cacisa ukuba baninzi abanye abantwana abasondeleyo ukuba benze ubungane nabo!