Indlela yokufumana isipho
Kuyakwazi ukuchonga ngokuchanekileyo ukufumaneka kobuchule kumntwana kuphela phantsi kolawulo lwenzululwazi, kodwa kukho impawu eqhelekileyo ngokuthi abazali bangacinga ukuba banomntwana onesipho.
- Umntwana akalala kakhulu.
- Ngokukhawuleza ufunda ukufunda.
- Uvakalisa igama lokuqala kwiinyanga ezili-6.
- Uthetha isigwebo sokuqala kwiinyanga ezili-12.
- Xa uneminyaka eyi-18-24 iinyanga unokuxhasa incoko, usebenzisa isityebi kakhulu kwisigama sakhe seminyaka.
- Kwiminyaka eyi-2.5 ufundisa i-alfabhethi kwaye ubalwa kwishumi.
- Ukulungisa imisebenzi elula yokongeza nokukhupha iminyaka emithathu.
- Ukususela kwiminyaka engama-3, ubuza malunga nencazelo yamagama angaqhelekanga.
- Ukususela esemncinci ubuza imibuzo "kutheni?".
- Ubonisa ukucinga.
- Eyona nto inokungena kwilizwe langaphandle.
- Unenkxalabo ngemibuzo yobulungisa kunye nokuziphatha.
- Umntwana unamandla kwaye uyazithemba.
- Ukuqwalasela kakhulu, ukulungele imeko ezingekho phantsi.
- Uyazigxeka yena nabanye.
- Ukunyamekela kakhulu, ukwazi ukugxininisa ngokupheleleyo.
- Ukhetha uluntu lwabadala.
- Unentlonelo ephantsi kunye neengxaki zokudandatheka.
- Kwizifundo, uyaxhalaka, kuba ikharityhulam esemgangathweni ayinakunceda kakhulu. Ootitshala bafumana kunzima ukufumana izizathu kuye.
- Ndangena ngaphakathi kwam, ndachithachitha.
- Ukucinga kuvelisa ngakumbi kunokuzala: ivelisa iingcamango.
- Uziva engafanelekanga, ukholelwa ukuba akayiqondi
- Uzimeleyo, unelungelo lokungena.
Indlela yokuba ngumzali?
Ukuba ngaba abazali baqaphele iimpawu zomntwana ezifanelekileyo, kufuneka baxoxe nootitshala okanye iingcali kwaye balandele iindlela ezithile. Ukuba umntwana unelungelo, abazali akufanele bathuke: baya kuncedwa. Ngandlela-thile, abazali baya kuqhubeka nokunyamekela uphuhliso lomntwana.
- Thetha kumntwana, dlala naye. Ukuthetha ngemicimbi yemihla ngemihla, cela umntwana ukuba aveze umbono wakhe.
- Melana nomdla womntwana kwisayensi kunye nobugcisa, ncedise aphuhlise amandla akhe kule mimandla.
- Kanye nomntwana, tyelela apho unokufunda into entsha - kwiimyuziyam, amathala eencwadi, amaziko karhulumente, apho iziganeko ezahlukeneyo zihlelwe khona.
- Ungamvumeli ukuba umntwana abe nexhala, avuselele umsebenzi wakhe, achaze ukuba iimpumelelo ziya kuba luncedo kuye kwikamva.
- Yenza indawo enokuthula apho umntwana angakwazi ukufunda nokufunda, ncedise ukwenza umsebenzi wesikolo.
- Khuthaza umdla wabantwana kwimisebenzi yecandelo lexesha.
Ngaba abantwana abanesiphiwo esifundo bafunde kwizikolo ezizodwa?
Iiprogram zezemfundo kunye neendlela zokufumana abantwana abanezipho zigxeka ngokugqithiseleyo ngenxa ye-elitism. Ukwahlula abantwana abanjalo kuluntu alucebisi, kwaye kunjalo, bafuna ingqalelo ekhethekileyo. Ezinye iingcali zincoma abantwana abanesiphiwo sokufunda kwizikolo eziqhelekileyo, kodwa ukuzinikela ixesha elide lokufunda, ukufunda kuzo, inkqubo eyinkimbinkimbi. Ngethuba elifanayo, ootitshala nabazali mabaqwalasele ngokukhawuleza inkqubela phambili.
Ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zentlalo
Abanye abantwana abanobuchule banamahloni kakhulu, bafumana kunzima ukuthetha nabanye abantwana kunye nabantu abadala. Ukuphuhliswa kwezakhono zonxibelelwano kwindlela yokuchonga isipho somntwana kunokuncedwa ekhaya ngeendlela ezilula.
- Myalela umntwana ukuba enze imisebenzi elula xa kukho iindwendwe endlini (umzekelo, vula umnyango, uncedise iindwendwe, uzinike ukutya, njl.). Ezinye zezi zenzo kufuneka zihlaziywe kwangaphambili.
- Thetha nomntwana malunga noko kufuneke ukuba uhlale ulwalamano olusenyongweni, kwaye uchaze kwiimeko apho ubuhlobo buphelile.
- Ncedisa umntwana ukuba asebenze kwiintetho zefowuni, funda ukuphulaphula uluvo lomnye umntu, aziphathe njengeendwendwe, njl. Ukongeza, umntwana onobuchule unokuncedwa ngeendlela ezilandelayo.
- Khetha umdlalo. Imisebenzi eyithandayo ayiyithandi kuphela - yithuba elihle lokuba nabahlobo abaneemfuno ezifanayo.
- Joyina iqela eluntwini lommandla, umzekelo, kwiqela le-Boy Scout Club. Umntwana uya kuba namandla nokunxibelelana nabaontanga.
- Ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimisebenzi yangaphandle kweso sikolo, ukuba ube rhoqo kwisibonda sabantwana abaneenjongo ezifanayo.
- Fumana umsebenzi okanye uvolontiya kuluntu lwasekuhlaleni (emva kwesikolo nakwiempelaveki). Kuya kunceda umntwana ukuba ajoyine uluntu kwaye akhulise ukuzithemba kwawo. Ngoku siyazi ukuba yeyiphi indlela ekhoyo ukuchonga isipho somntwana.