Ukuyifakela, uyibize ngamazwi amabi. Kwaye ngokuqhelekileyo ziziphatha ngokungafihlisiyo kwaye zihlambuluke ngokusemandleni. Oku kungabizwa ngokuba nomona wobuntana okanye inzondo kwindlela edade. Indoda isabela kwizikhalazo zakho ngokukhawuleza, ukhumbule ukuba bona kunye nomzalwana wabo nabo babenomona womntwana kunye nokhuphiswano-kwaye akukho nto yatshatyalazayo, yahamba yodwa. "Musa ukunyamekela i-antics yakhe-kwaye baya kumisa," uya kukuqinisekisa. Kwaye wena kwaye ngokukhawuleza awukho kwiinkqubo ezinjalo kunye nentetho ngentliziyo. Omncinane wazalwa esincinane, ebuthathaka, ehlala egula. Nawe, ungaziva kakuhle. Ndazama ukuyichaza kumdala, ndibangela ukuba abe novelwano oluthile - njengento yokudonga eludongeni. Umona wabantwana uyawunqoba. Ukujonga ngaphantsi kwephepudli yakhe, amehlo afana nesidlo esincinci, esicacileyo: "Kwaye andizange ndikucele ukuba ubelethe umntu! Senze isigqibo sokusombulula ngoku ngoku kwaye siyihle ngendlela othanda ngayo. "
Ngokuhamba kwexesha , njengaye, ngokuthe ngandlela-thile kuncinci kakhulu okanye ngaphantsi kwehlisiwe. Intombi endala, eyayiyintombazana yesikolo, yayinezinto ezintsha zokuzilibazisa, isangqa esitsha soqhagamshelwano-kwaye yayeka ukumkhathaza umntwana. Kodwa uthando lwakhe lwabazalwana aluzange luvuke. Awuzange umbone ephikisana noodadewabo, ebonisa umdla kunye nengqalelo. Imiyalelo yakho, ukuba ucele uncedo ekunakekeleni encinci, uyayenza, kodwa ayikhathaleli kwaye ayikhathalele. Kodwa ngokubanzi, ukhula ngumntwana oqhelekileyo, kuphela ukuba ungamsindisa njani kule ntshutshiso. Omdala intombi iya kuba, xa kunzima ukuba nomona wobubele okanye ubuthandane unodade. Ngeyona nto ingaxhunyiwe - awazi. Ewe, umzekelo, bathenga umnxeba omncinci (omdala unomntu omdala), ngoko waqala ukuhlasela udade wakhe ngokungenanto. Imizamo yokufumana oko kwenzekayo, unganiki nantoni na: "Oyi, ingelosi yakho ethandekayo!". Omncinci akasenzi lutho kumdade wakhe omubi, kodwa ngokuchaseneyo, yonke into izama ukudlala naye, ukwenza abahlobo. Kodwa ukususela kumdala uhlala ehlekwa usulu, ukuhleka usulu, iingxoxo ezimbi kunye namazwi amabi.
Ubutyebi ngendlela yodade evela. Ewe, kubuhlungu ngoku ukuba ukhumbule indlela owakhuphayo ngayo ngobuhlobo bamantombazana amabini azukileyo kunye nentsebenziswano yabasetyhini bakho ...
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, kufuneka sizame ukuqhagamshelana nentombi endala, eyake ibhalwa "kumagqabi amancinci"! Ngoku kuhleli nje ukulandela indima eyabelwe. Ukusuka ngaphandle kunzima ukugweba oko kuphazamisa "amahlaya" yentombi yakhe. Emva koko, akukho mntu ubona ukuba uyazivumela "ingelosi" xa kungekho babazali kufuphi. Ukuyeka ubutha, indlela efihlakeleyo iyadingeka. Isinyathelo sokuqala sokubuyisela ubudlelwane obuthembayo sinokuya eholide kunye. Intombi yam idinga ukuba ibonakale ibalulekile kunina. Kwaye ukhangele khona, kwaye i-confrontation iya kuncipha.