Xa usenza isigqibo sokuba unikwe umntwana kwi-kindergart okanye awukho, abazali bayalinganisa zonke iingxaki kunye neengxaki.
Yintoni i-nursergart inika abantwana? Iingcali zengqondo zicinga u-Olga Krushelnytska no-Antonina Tretyakova.
Oontanga
Kwiminyaka eyi-3-4, umntwana unesidingo sokunxibelelana kuphela kunye namalungu omndeni omdala, kodwa kunye nabantwana. Kwinkampani yabaontanga bafunda ukuphumelela nokulahlekelwa. Oku kubaluleke kakhulu, kuba umntu omdala, edlala nomntwana, "usoloko efaka". Umntwana okhulayo ngokukholelwa ukuba isigqibo sakhe sisisigxina esiqinileyo siya kulahlwa ngamava amanzima.
Kulo mdlalo nabanye abantwana, inkunzi ifunda ukuthobela imithetho, ukujonga ngombono womnye umntu. Kumntu omdala uvumelekile ukuba adlale, umntwana kufuneka ahendwe nguye, okanye anqotshwe ngokutshitshiswa kwakhe. Kodwa ukuba uyavuma ukudlala kunye noontanga bakho, kufuneka ukwazi ukuthobela imithetho, unikele kwabanye.
Kwinkampani yabanye abantwana kuyonwaba kakhulu ukuqhuba, gxuma kwaye udibanise. Kwaye abantwana banesidingo somzimba.
Kodwa into eyona nto kukuba ukufunda ukuthetha nabanye abantwana kungcono xa ungayazi ukuba njani, ufunda nje. Ngaphandle koko, ukuba ujoyine abantwana, ubeka umngcipheko kwizinto ezingenakukwazi ukuzenza, kwaye ngenxa yoko, ungabonakali.
Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, unokwazi uontanga kwibala lokudlala, kwisikolo sokuphuhliswa kwangaphambili, apho abantwana "ikhaya" bahlala khona, emnyango wabo ... Kakade, kulo mzekelo kuya kuba noqhagamshelwano oluncinane nabanye abantwana, kodwa unokuyithatha kwintsapho yabahlobo besangqa sakho.
Ukuzithemba
Akukho mama kwi-kindergarten. Kwaye oku kuncedo kubantwana abaphangiweyo, abangatshatanga nabasemva kwintsapho. Baya kuqonda ngokukhawuleza ukuba kungekhona wonke umntu oza kuzalisekisa iminqweno yabo, kungekhona wonke umntu oya kuwamkela.
Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuhlukana nomama usuku lonke luxinzelelo olukhulu. Ubuntwana obuchithayo kwintsapho, lunikeza umntu ingqiqo yokhuseleko, ukuzithemba emva kwakhe bonke ubomi bakhe. Phakathi koomama nabantwana kukho uvakalelo olukhethekileyo lolwalamano.
Ukongezelela, ukunika umntwana enkulisa esemncinci, unokuthi uzimisele ukufumana isigwebo sabazukulwana bakho. Abanye oogqirha beengqondo bakholelwa ukuba into yokuba sinamalungu amaninzi ebhinqa ukusuka kwiinyanga zokuqala zobomi bakhula kwiindawo zokuhlala kunye nabantwana bezilwanyana ezincinane, iintsuku ezi-ezintlanu kunye neentsuku ezongezelelweyo, banciphisa umqondo wokuba ngumama, kwaye ngoku baqwalasela imfundo yomntwana ngaphandle kwentsapho ukuba yedwa yinyaniso.
Isangqa soqhagamshelwano
Kukho ootitshala kwi-kindergarten. Ukunxibelelana nabo, umntwana uya kufunda ukuthobela nokuqonda iimfuno ezingabalwanga kubazali kuphela, kodwa nakwabanye abantu abadala. Olu lungiselelo lwesikolo.
Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukuba ufuna ukuba uthathe ixabiso lakho, iimbono zakho ebomini, ukukopisha intetho yakho, xelisa imilinganiselo yakho, kwaye ungathathi njengomzekelo womnye unina, utitshala uMarivanna, ohlala naye engadini yonke imini, kha wuleza ukutshixa isikhitshi esihlahleni.
Ukulungiselela isikolo
Egadi, abantwana balungiselele isikolo. Kulapho umculi udlala ngokucula nokudansa nabo. Kwimoya yosuku, ixesha lokukhangela kunye nokudweba linikezelwa ngokuthe ngqo. Kodwa akusiyo yonk 'umama onokuyicula nokuqhafaza, uya kufumana ixesha kunye nomnqweno wokudanisa nomntwana aze athathe. Kwimiyezo eninzi kukho intetho yeengcali. Abantwana beqela elidala bafundiswa ukufunda nokubala.
Kodwa, ngakolunye uhlangothi, uqeqesho lubonisa ukuba abantwana "basekhaya" banentetho ephucukileyo, isigama esisisigxina, basoloko befunda kangcono, baqwalaselwe kwaye babhaliwe kunabantwana "basegadi", kuba kufundelwa nokubala ukuba abazali bayacinezela xa bebandakanya babo nabantwana. Kwaye kumakilasi omculo kunye nepeyinti, kukho izikolo zokuqala zophuhliso, ii-studios zokudala kunye nezicingi.
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Yiyiphi imodeli yemfundo yasesikolweni esiseduze nawe - zigqibo kuwe. Into eyona nto kukuba abazali banokukhetha: umntwana anganikwa ingadi kwiminyaka emithathu, okanye ingaba yintlanu, i-kindergarten ingaba isithili, mhlawumbi ngasese, kunye nabantwana basekhaya kukho amaqela ahlukeneyo abantwana, apho unokufumana khona uphuhliso, kwaye ufumane abahlobo.
Kungcono ukulinda
I-nursergart iya kufuneka ilinde, ukuba:
Qala >> Usana luba neempembelelo ezithintekayo kwiziveliso zokutya eziqhelekileyo - ubisi, ingqolowa ... ngokutya okumeleyo kweentlanzi ze-aquarium, iintsiba zeentaka ... Akunjalo nje kuba kwii-nursergart ezininzi zikhona iikona zokuhlala, kwaye imenyu ehlukile kuye akukho mntu akayi kupheka. Abantu abanesifo sofuba abanesifo sengqondo sokugonywa nge-immune response. Umzimba wabo uvelisa amancinci amancinci angaphantsi kwexesha lokubanda, okwenza i-virus yokutshatyalaliswa. Ukongezelela, ngexesha lokugula kwabantwana abaxhomekeke ekudleni, izikhuhlane zenziwe ziphucula izimpendulo.
>> Uhlala unomntwana ogulayo. Emva koko kufuneka siqale siqonde izizathu zokubanda kwakhe.
Qala >> Inkwenkwe ixhalabele kakhulu, ayivumeli ukuhamba nonina isinyathelo esinye, uyamoyika abantu abangaziwa, ubumnyama, akafuni ukuba yedwa kwigumbi. Loo mntwana kufuneka aqale abonisane nabaphathi beengqondo.
>> Umntwana sele sele enamava ahlukileyo okuhlukana nomama wakhe: elele esibhedlele, wasinda ekuqhawuleni umtshato, kuba ngumntu osondeleyo.
Kwaye kwimeko yokujonga impilo?
Yintoni elungile - i-kindergarten okanye abantwana abasetyenziswe ekhaya? Udokotela wezilwanyana, ugqirha wezobugcisa bezonyango, uprofesa uVladimir Tatochenko ukholelwa ukuba akukho zizathu ezinzulu malunga neontanga. Kodwa iingenelo ezingenakulungeleka "zobuntwaneni obuhlelekile" zingabonakaliswa.
Qala >> Kwi-kindergarten, abantwana baphila ngokwemiqathango yolawulo. Ngesinye isikhathi esifanayo, badla iiyure abahamba ngazo, balale emini. Ekhaya, umama onqabileyo okanye ugogo ugxininisa ukubaluleka kombuso kumntwana.
Qala >> Kwi-kindergarten, isondlo sinokulinganisela ngokwexesha elidala. Kulapho, abantwana bafumana inani elifunekayo leeprotheni, amafutha kunye ne-carbohydrate. Kwaye akukho zidlo ezinokubangela ukukhuluphala okanye igastritis. Kwaye badla kakuhle, bejonge amaqabane abo. Kwaye ekhaya, abantwana badla ngokutya, besidla (ugogo ugcisa kuphela oko umntwana akuthandayo) okanye eyenzelwe amalungu omntu omdala.
Qala >> "I-Sadovskie" abantwana bafumana zonke iigcini ezimiselweyo ngokwekhalenda yokugoma. Kwaye kubazali bezingane "basekhaya" ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka baphumelele ukuba baqinisekise ukuba bafundise umntwana.
>> Kwaye kwanokuba abantwana abasenkulisa bahlala begula, kulungile. Umntwana kwiqela udibana nenani elikhulu leentsholongwane ezitsha ezenziwa ngabanye abantwana kwintsimi kwiintsapho zabo. Kodwa ukukhuselwa emva kokudluliselwa kwe-SARS kwiminyaka emininzi edluleyo, ngoko ke, ukuba sele ndiyazi malunga neentsholongwane ezixhaphakileyo ekuqaleni, "садовец" uya kugula ngaphantsi kwesikolo.
Umbono wobuqu
- Ndiyakholwa ukuba umntwana kufuneka anikezelwe kwigumbi lokufundela. Mna ndakhulela engadini, kwaye ndandiyithanda kakhulu. Abantwana bam nabo baya kwi-nursergart, kwaye bavuya. Kodwa i-kindergartens ngokwabo, apho ndababanika khona, yayilungileyo. Ndandithanda ukuba bahlala nabantwana apho, babehlala befundisa izibongo, kwaye kwakubonakala ukuba babancedise ukuba bahlakulele ... Intombi kaDasha yahamba yaya kwiintsuku ezintlanu-ndasebenza, nakusihlwa. Kodwa, ngokuqinisekileyo, sazama, xa kwakukho ithuba, ukungayithathi kuphela ngeveki kuphela, kodwa nakwiphakathi kweveki. Ndiqinisekile ukuba xa umntwana ekhula kwiqela, kungcono kuye.
Tatiana Sudets