Ndingakhetha njani isikolo sam umntwana wokuqala weklasi?
Uya kufuna ukutyelela isikolo esikolweni kwaye ubeke ingqalelo kula manqaku alandelayo.
Ukubhema akuvumelekanga esikolweni, ukufunga. Ukuba abantwana bahamba emagqabini, bebetha yonke into endleleni yabo, kwaye kwindlu yangasese bayabhema, kungcono ukulibala ngesi sikolo. Khumbula, umntwana uya kwiklasi yokuqala, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba kukho indawo ehambelanayo.
Ubalo besikolo. Mamela oko abazali bezingane zesithili sakho bathi malunga nesikolo.
Namela oko abantwana abasesikolweni, abazali abazisa nabo esikolweni, kuba ithi ininzi. Ngaphandle koko, umntwana uya kuzisa kwesi sikolo kungekhona ulwazi kodwa imikhwa emibi.
Cacisa ngokukhawuleza ukuba ziphi iintsuku zesikolo ngeveki kwesi sikolo. Kufanelekileyo, ukuba lixesha "leentsuku ezintlanu," ukuze umntwana wakho aphumle ngokugqibeleleyo ngeveki aze athole ukubonakala okutsha.
Ngaba kukho "ukunyusa" esikolweni. Emva koko, oku kuthetha ukuba umntwana wakho uya kwiklasi yokuqala kwaye xa unyanzelekile unokufaka isicelo sokongezwa. Apho umntwana wakho uya kudliwa kwaye uya kunceda ukwenza izifundo, mhlawumbi ukuba athathe. Emva koko unokuqiniseka ukuba nomntwana wakho konke kulungile ngelixa usebenza.
Buza ukuba kaninzi kangakanani abafundi bathatha inxaxheba kwimininimzi yeedolophu, iindibano, nokuba ziphumelele kwimincintiswano kunye nee-opimpiads.
Eyona nto ibaluleke kakhulu kwiziko lemfundo apho abasebenzi bezemfundo banamava okwaneleyo okusebenza kunye neemfuno zemfundo eziyimfuneko.
Mamela indlela ootitshala abakuthetha ngayo abafundi esikolweni-ngamagama okanye ngegama lokugqibela. Oku kuya kuthetha ngento eninzi.
Ngaba abantwana bayayethusa ootitshala okanye bamomotheka, badibana nabo eklasini okanye kwikorori. Emva koko, abantwana banokuzimela kunye nokunyaniseka.
Naka ingqalelo kwi "fluidity" yabafundi. Emva koko, oku kubonisa ukuba kwesi sikolo sabantwana into ayihambisani nawe.
Imfuno yexesha langoku - ukufumaneka kweklasi yekhomputha kunye nokufikelela kwi-intanethi, kunye nokufumaneka kwezixhobo ezifunekayo zeofisi.
Ngaphantsi kwiprogram yintoni umntwana wakho oza kubandakanyeka kuyo. Kwenzeka ukuba iikharityhulam eziqela zisetyenziswa ngexesha elifanayo esikolweni. Unokukhetha okulungileyo ngokufaka impendulo kubazali babafundi, okanye ngokuqokelela ulwazi olufunekayo kumajelo okanye kwi-Intanethi.
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo ukuyeka ukhetho lwakho esikolweni, oluye lwaseka ubudlelwane kwiiyunivesithi. Ngelishwa, akukho mntu uya kukunika isiqinisekiso sokungena kwamntwana kule yunivesithi, kodwa kukho inzuzo kulo.
Ukuqwalasela imisebenzi yokuzilibazisa yesikolo. Kuhle kakhulu, ukuba kukho iiposters kwiindonga zesikolo, amaphephandaba amadonga, ukuba kukho imincintiswano, i-KVN kunye nezinye iziganeko esikolweni, ingaba kukho naziphi iindawo zemidlalo (basketball, volleyball, ibhola lebhola)? Kungcono, ukuba isikolo sinendawo ye-intanethi, qiniseka ukuyivakashela, apho unokufumana ulwazi oluninzi.
Khangela kwi-buffet okanye ivenkile yokufunda, ufunde i-assortment enikezelweyo, emva kokuba yonke inkinga yokutya okunempilo komntwana ibaluleke kakhulu, iya kuthintela impilo yakhe nobomi. Kungcono ukuba isikolo sinendawo yokudlela epheleleyo. Awufuni ukuba umntwana wakho adle isonka kunye neti kule tshintsho?
Ingxaki yokukhuseleko kwabantwana kwisakhiwo nakwintsimi yesikolo iyakhawuleza, thobela ingqalelo kubakho bokhuseleko labasebenzi.
Isimo sokugqibela sisondele kumakhaya, kuba umntwana wakho uya kwiklasi yokuqala kwaye kuya kuba nzima kuye ukunqoba imida ende.
Kwaye imeko ebaluleke kakhulu ngumfundisi ontle. Emva kwakho konke, ukusuka kootitshala beeklasi eziprayimari ngokuxhomekeke kunokuba isikolo siyakuthanda umntwana wakho.
Kubalulekile ukuthetha ngokuthe ngqo nabafundi ngokwabo, okanye ngokudliwano nabahlobo kunye nabaqhelana nabo kunye nokuqokelela i-bit ngcaciso efunekayo.
Ewe, akuyi kuba yinto engafanelekanga ukuba ithathe ingqalelo ngokubaluleka kwesi sikolo. Nantsi kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela iimfuno zomntwana wakho. Ukuba umntanakho unomdla kwiincwadi, kufuneka uqikelele ngokuxhamla. Ewe, ukuba umntwana ngeentsuku ekugqibeleni uyayiqonda iteknoloji okanye ixazulule iingxaki, ngoko uya kuhanjelwa kwisikolo se-physics ne-mathematics.
Kufuneka kuqondwe ukuba ukhetha isikolo kumntwana wakho, kungekhona wena. Ngoko jonga. Qinisekisa ukuba umntwana uya kukwazi ukulungelelanisa kwindawo engaziwayo, iqela. Ukuba unomntwana "ekhaya," kungcono ukucinga ngokukhetha isikolo sabucala, kuba kuya kuba ngcono ukuba umntwana wakho abe nootitshala onokusebenzisana naye, kunye neklasi encinane.
Abanye abazali abaninzi bakholelwa ukuba umntwana wabo kufuneka akwazi ukubhala nokubala kwisikolo, kodwa oku akunjalo. Kubalulekile ukuba umntwana akwazi ukuhlalutya, uqhathanise, ugxininise into ephambili, gxininisa ingqalelo yakhe.
Unokulandela ezinye iiparamitha xa ukhetha isikolo. Into ephambili kukuba umntwana wakho ukhumbula iminyaka yakhe yesikolo ngokufudumala novuyo. Ngoku uyazi ukuba ungayilungiselela njani isikolo ukuba umntwana wakho uya kwibanga lokuqala, kwaye unokukhetha njani isikolo ukuzolalisa umsebenzi wakhe ozayo kwikamva.